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Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by y3mi(m): 2:10am On Jun 15, 2019 |
MissRaine69:No, simply because true love has no boundary. |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by liberalchick(f): 2:26am On Jun 15, 2019 |
I am not Yoruba but I LOVE Yoruba culture too. I love the food, the people. Yoruba culture is also the most progressive(liberal) of all the cultures in Nigeria and I can speak the language. The only thing I am not fond of is when a Yoruba dude can date a million women and the family will accept ALL lol, every side chick is “iyawo wa” when dating a Yoruba dude meeting the family doesn’t mean you are the main chick or that you are getting the ring. I once dated a Yoruba dude. AmazonTopaz: 3 Likes |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 3:12am On Jun 15, 2019 |
lefulefu:And big ukwu...lol |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:13am On Jun 15, 2019 |
liberalchick:Hmm interesting 1 Like |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by nuelyoyo(m): 6:24am On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee:I am not Yoruba, but I can speak it fluently, I can even pray with Yoruba. 1 Like |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 7:45am On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee: Oya omoge wa joko Lori oko agba |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by konkonbilo(m): 7:57am On Jun 15, 2019 |
nuelyoyo:beautiful |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by konkonbilo(m): 7:58am On Jun 15, 2019 |
liberalchick:Iyawo wa 1 Like |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 8:14am On Jun 15, 2019 |
ornicus: |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 8:15am On Jun 15, 2019 |
nuelyoyo:Wonderful |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 8:15am On Jun 15, 2019 |
konkonbilo:Lmao |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Yuneehk(f): 8:55am On Jun 15, 2019 |
Oma307:I hope your wish comes true. Good morning |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jun 15, 2019 |
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Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 11:26am On Jun 15, 2019 |
ornicus:Lol I think the google translation is off |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee: it is- i a telling you to come and sit in my farm i don't know what is funny about that you like farm work? |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 11:35am On Jun 15, 2019 |
ornicus:You of all people know I laugh at everything na |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 12:05pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
I like to think it doesn't matter, but there are tribes I would never attempt. 1 Like |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by luvyaself95(m): 12:13pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:Ibo Too Like Yoruba Guys, But Am So Sorry I Just dump an ibo girl a couple of weeks ago... |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Thegamingorca(m): 12:15pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Ishilove: 12:29pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
pocohantas:Hear hear |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 1:34pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Thegamingorca: I won't answer the like, I don't know who is reading. However, I will tell you the one I can attempt. I am sure you know I am Igbo. Outside SE, the only tribe I can marry without a second thought would be the Yorubas. The reason for that is simple, I have lived amongst them. I believe I understand the LANGUAGE, people, culture and their expectations to a good extent. My mum once told me, a man can marry from Jupiter (I don't know her obsession with this planet) and he will be fine. He is marrying her into his culture. There is pressure on her to learn how to dress like his people, speak their language, go to his village or family house, cook their meals...etc. See ehn, I had this Yoruba friend. I used to go to her house and she comes to mine too. Whenever I go her side, nasoso greeting eh. E get one day wey I kneel sotey my thighs come dey pain me. As we were going out, she wanted to pass this road, I remembered how many times we knelt down there. I had to beg her not to pass that road. My leg dey pain me abegggg! Just a day, imagine a lifetime? Loving (marrying) a man from another tribe is not enough. He MUST be ready to protect his wife from the negative sides of his tribe. How many can do this and for how long? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by nengibo: 1:59pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
tee59:Wetin Riverine people do you, wey mk u stereotype millions of people |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Thegamingorca(m): 2:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
pocohantas: To be frank, my ppl can't try to sway me with their tradition practice. I've come too far in life for a bunch of misfits to come and try to be dictating whom I stay with. I pride myself of not been able to speak the fvcking language. Nah tribe I dey marry? Regardless of rite of passage and whatever bullshiit that our ppl may want, truly you will be all I care about. |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Yuneehk:thanks dear. good afternoon |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
pocohantas: as modern chick wey dey kneel to give bj , kneeling should not be a problem na bend those knees and think of your yoruba demon. to be frank a lot of us don't even push the kneeling thing that much anymore, imho - unless some oldie just wants to prove a point that this boy or girl is saucy i had this igbo chick friend in school. everyone assumed we were dating - and possibly, if one of us had seriously pushed we probably would have - but it would have been hard. my mum would have resisted. one day i got off the phone with her and my mum started speaking to the wall in yoruba. i no go gree if anyone brings omo ibo into this house. her folks also did not like yoruba guys. she actually dated two different yoruba guys before marrying an igbo guy. i don't know what happened - but for a period she was incommunicado - not answering any ims , buzzes etal. a couple of years ago, i heard she was marrying a yoruba guy. she has two kids now and is available to talk again. |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
kingkakaone: kingkakaone:ukwu be like d icing to d cake. |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
lefulefu:Lol...Respect to the ukwu king. 1 Like |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by MissRaine69(f): 4:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
pansophist:Touché! |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by MissRaine69(f): 4:57pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Thegamingorca:I appreciate your candour |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by MissRaine69(f): 4:57pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
lefulefu:Of course.... |
Re: Does His/Her Tribe still Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
MissRaine69: MissRaine69: |
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