lol this is a long write up for you? Ok let me make it short enough for you to understand. A man or woman can decide whatever they want, as long as they tell their partners or find whom they are equally yoked with.

If you had time to read my long write up, you wouldn’t have typed the bolded.

solite3:
no need for this long write up.
Maybe the husband is fine with it.

How about if a man places his job, or mother above his wife you all that are supporting her will quickly begin to condemn him.

Job or career shouldnt be above your spouse especially as a woman. If you dont sow good seeds taday you will only suffer the consequences in the future

Fountainofyouth:


You type too much, to prove a baseless point, pretty sure you talk too much too.

It is scary...

LilMissFavvy:
1. The outcome of my decision is my business, stop bothering.

2. Ibokun,Folorunsho, etc, are lucky with marriage because they had supportive husband's. Husband's who did not kill their careers. A WOMAN WHO PLACES HER MARRIAGE AS NUMBER 1, WHO HAS AN UNSUPPORTIVE HUSBAND MAY STILL FAIL IN HER MARRIAGE/CAREER.

3. We have women who DUMPED THEIR CAREERS, wash, cook, do laundry for their husbands, yet still got dumped by their husbands.

4. Many women who saw their careers as lesser or abandoned it, are living in abusive marriages because they are totally dependent, so why shouldn't career be placed at the tops?

5. The lady in the story talked about how she was unwilling to dump her dreams because of marriage. Her very supportive husband made it work, a man also needs a supportive wife who encourages his dreams. Take note that I am not in support of all the ladies actions in that posts.

6. What women need are supportive husband's, not husband's that want to kill their dreams, of course we are aware that the commonly seed facade in our society is a situation where women are pressured to abandon their dreams, and at the end of the day, they have neither a happy marriage nor a career. An independent lady with thriving career can still live a happy life, wether single, divorced or married.
N/B: I would appreciate if you stop quoting me, the above is the truth and my opinion, tanx.

We both agree that Ibukun Awosika is a good mentor for women. See what she has to say:
https://www.nairaland.com/3660038/nuggets-ibukun-awosika-chairman-first

Author of Lean In and COO of Facebook (Sheryl Sandberg) said this:
"Who you marry is the single most important career decision you make."
https://www.glamour.com/story/sheryl-sandberg-husband

Late Dora Akunyili's name would be in sands of time. Yet she left PDP to save her marriage:
https://www..com/talk/topic,64275.0.html

Oil magnate Folorunsho Alakija has written 11 books. Not one is on business:
https://folorunsoalakija.com/books/

Pepsi's CEO Indra Nooyi
https://www.nairaland.com/1796655/successful-career-women-cant-it

Goodluck with putting your career first as a wife and mother.

Fountainofyouth:


You type too much, to prove a baseless point, pretty sure you talk too much too.

You are triggered because you see yourself as one of the confusion-ists and can feel the piercing guilt, otherwise you would overlook something not addressed to you.

You still have a chance though.
You can counter the post with verifiable points and show your mental capacity for discussion, or we can start a trade of insults as I suspect that will be the only thing you are good at.

Your choice.

ThothHermes:
Dumb feminist -- Tautology

I tell you..

Two words, same meaning, especially among latter third-wave feminists and all fourth-wave feminists.

Pls keep the links for yourself and family. I wouldn't open even one of them, free me.

bukatyne:


We both agree that Ibukun Awosika is a good mentor for women. See what she has to say:
https://www.nairaland.com/3660038/nuggets-ibukun-awosika-chairman-first

Author of Lean In and COO of Facebook (Sheryl Sandberg) said this:
"Who you marry is the single most important career decision you make."
https://www.glamour.com/story/sheryl-sandberg-husband

Late Dora Akunyili's name would be in sands of time. Yet she left PDP to save her marriage:
https://www..com/talk/topic,64275.0.html

Oil magnate Folorunsho Alakija has written 11 books. Not one is on business:
https://folorunsoalakija.com/books/

Pepsi's CEO Indra Nooyi
https://www.nairaland.com/1796655/successful-career-women-cant-it

Goodluck with putting your career first as a wife and mother.

liberalchick:
lol this is a long write up for you? Ok let me make it short enough for you to understand. A man or woman can decide whatever they want, as long as they tell their partners or find whom they are equally yoked with.

If you had time to read my long write up, you wouldn’t have typed the bolded.

That is why I said the husband must have agreed to it.
BTW, it is wrong to place career above one's spouse.