victorian:







So true..

You try!

lordskid:


Let's drink to that

victorian:







Yeaaa!!!

With rocks in it.

lordskid:
NL_NATION



It’s not everyday that you’ll come across an INFJ, but when you do, you’ll never forget them.

People with INFJ personality type are some of the rarest people in the world. They have extremely unique characteristics that set them apart from the rest.

Do you feel like you are different from everyone you know? If so, don’t worry. There’s nothing wrong with you.

Below are several characteristics that will help determine if you, or someone you know, is an INFJ.

These diamonds in the rough are a real treasure, so if you find this type of personality type in your life, never let them go!

1. THEY LIKE TO WRITE

INFJs prefer to write than speak. They aren’t big talkers unless absolutely necessary. They find peace in writing because it allows them the creativity to express their thoughts.

2. THEY OVERTHINK A LOT

INFJs are the ultimate overthinker. They can’t let a social situation just play out. No, they have to go over it in their head like a jillion times before they can feel secure. And they almost never feel secure.

3. THEY HAVE TROUBLE PUTTING THOUGHTS INTO WORDS

It’s not always easy to put thoughts into words for an INFJ. Their thoughts are often so complex and jumbled that it’s hard to figure out what exactly they want to say.

4. THEY ARE LONERS

They can often be found wandering the park alone, drinking coffee by themselves at a cafe. However, don’t assume they are lonely. They choose to isolate themselves from the world in order to get in touch with their inner self and organize their thoughts.

5. THEY CAN FIT IN ANYWHERE

At the end of the day, they are extremely flexible people who can fit in with just about any crowd. They have no problem using this to their advantage.

6. THEY ARE EMPATHETIC AND SENSITIVE

Have you heard the word empath before? This perfectly describes the INFJs of the world. They are unbelievably caring and generous people.

They will always go out of their way to help those in need. They think about what would LIFE be in other people’s shoes. This is what makes them so sensitive to the feelings of others. They would never intentionally hurt someone.

7. THEY CAREFULLY SELECT THEIR FRIENDS

INFJs prefer the comfort of their own home and they value their privacy. They would much rather be alone than surrounded by bad company. They are very selective of who they surround themselves with.

They only want to hang out with people who share the same values as they do and also respect their alone time.

8. THEY SEEK THE TRUTH

INFJs are fascinated by the mysteries of our universe. They could spend the entire night just watching the stars drift by. They aren’t interested in ordinary things like who won this weeks sports game.

They prefer to delve deep into the true nature of things. Be prepared for some heavy conversations with an INFJ.

9. THEY TRUST THEIR INTUITION

Intuition. Intuition. Intuition. INFJs can easily sense when something isn’t right. This is one of their most important characteristics. Not only do they have a deep sense of intuition, but they listen to their gut feelings.

While most people ignore these feelings, INFJs have a keen sense about what is happening in their life. Their gut is almost never wrong.

10. THEY ARE FULL OF CONTRADICTIONS

INFJs might seem bipolar at times. They can go from happy to sad in a heartbeat. Their emotions are constantly changing, which can make them especially difficult to keep track of.

THEY CAN READ PEOPLE

This skill comes from their deep emotional intelligence. They can see right through people’s words and actions.

They can identify an manipulator very quickly. They use this trait to protect themselves by removing those negative people from their lives.

Higher Perspective

clive2u:
ur english arrangement is so whack for a shried wannabe

Love4God:


These are MAn made philosophies.No man can define you better than yourself.

That is why those in category A have some personality traits of those in category B.

Note:Only you can define you.

You can decide to change any of those personality traits you don't like.

stanboy28:


[s] I tire for them oooooo... Them go jst dey do all this yeye stuff for self gratification...
Well sha.. Anything that make y'all feel better..

You are who you are stop all this baseless ASSUMPTIONS.

Another self gratifying nonsense.... [/s]

lordskid:


Come down from the Ring, bro! We ain't fighting. I hope you feel "better & gratified" with your comments now. SCIENCE deals with FACTS not assumptions.

DAramis:

.........but refusing to learn is the greatest evil.

eni4real:
Are they rich??

Magnoliaa:


Lol, I don't know of any rich one (there probably are)--but they aren't usually swayed by riches, fame, or recognition and the likes. They...care about higher purposes, harmony with the universe, taking a noble path... such stuff.

BdorianGray:


I have read most of your comments on this thread. Kindly permit me to disagree with everything u have stated in all..
I feel you don't know what u saying or supporting..
Thanx.

Magnoliaa:


Go ahead...

Juliet11111:
CAN YOU FOOLZ ( both the op and others commenting) TELL US THE MEANING OF INFJ

MarjieJ98354:


I don't care about fame or recognition or designer this and that. But I do value money greatly. Not to buy expensive things. But to be comfortable and have the ultimate freedom to do anything.

I agree. Money is very important in life.

And yes I think this personality type is a very cursed. I don't think it's necessarily narcissism. But I think this personality type thinks and feel deeply and cannot tolerate a bunch of bullshit from people. This may come out as being selfish. This personality type seem to seek too much perfection from their relationships and have a tendency to run away from people the minute they think people in their lives start to act a fool.

I don't get how it's a curse though, or how what make up INFJ makes it the *hardest* type of MBTI.

A coworker of mine whose married with 4 daughters try to insult me for never using my ovaries, lol! She even had the nerve to call me a lesbian! I would have loved to have had a successful marriage and family life. But I thank God that I never had to live the unnecessary drama of marrying into a culture where women are inferior and where having four daughters is way more of a curse than me having no kids. I don't even have time to worry about what I never had!! And I was more pissed off that this person saw me as less of a human being for not overpopulating the world than my lack of having a husband and children. Ultimately she is jealous because I didn't have to suffer the humiliations that she did being inferior; although I still had to suffer the humiliation of being inferior in other ways. But she too dumb and bitter to even understand that!!!

Sighs... that's the world we find ourselves in, but things are changing. Women are starting to have more freedom and importance in the society. I commend the one that choose to break from the norm and restricting culture. There's a great freedom to be found just outside of it.

As long as your choices satisfies you, and give you a peace of mind...

BdorianGray:


Thanks.. On the other hand though, u and I, I think we share similar spiritual values..

stanboy28:
you guys feel this INJS bullshit something is one Kinda God like personality and y'all feel like u've made in life becos someone says blah blah blah INJS.your personality nor help anybody..
Sha... Anything that makes you feel better about yourself
If you can carry your personality till collect money in the bank... That will be a big deal

stanboy28:
another self gratifying nonsense....

theButterfly:
Where is Magnoliaa?

Magnoliaa:


Really?? What are your spiritual values?

BdorianGray:


I think you are profound and analytical.. U dont give into the superficialities in our conventional main stream religions..

You aren't fanatical, you open minded enough to seek truth and investigate mystreis for yourself.. You seem to like to have direct, practical and objective experience of spiritual phenomenon amd concepts than just read and believe.. intellectualise..

With time, u would gravitate fully toward the studies of esoterisism.. by then, u would........

eni4real:
Are they rich??

theButterfly:
I'm an INFJ. I was diagnosed by a Psychologist back in the 12th grade, not that it's an illness or anything, God forbid.

If you're not an INFJ, you should be VERY thankful. Trust me, it's the worst MBTI ever. I would give anything to be an ENFP or ENTJ, but unfortunately I'm stuck with being an INFJ.

Unik3030:
whats d meaning of infj

Magnoliaa:


Introverted iNtuition Feeling Judging

theButterfly:
I'm an INFJ. I was diagnosed by a Psychologist back in the 12th grade, not that it's an illness or anything, God forbid.

If you're not an INFJ, you should be VERY thankful. Trust me, it's the worst MBTI ever. I would give anything to be an ENFP or ENTJ, but unfortunately I'm stuck with being an INFJ.

Guest007:


perceptive is mine... I'm INFP...

what's so exciting about it that OP needed a thread fornit

theButterfly:
"Perceiving", not perceptive.