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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Chasegb(m): 1:09pm On Aug 05, 2019
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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by TheGenius001: 5:14pm On Aug 05, 2019
ezedioranma9:
What if he did? Would you know?

What if the guy you're quoting never whined about it but just did it here. You don't know what's in people's mind. That's why this topic was brought up.
You'd just never know.


The truth is what you said. I only poured my heart out. I never did complain or whine about except here.
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by ahukannakate(f): 6:40pm On Aug 05, 2019
Babawon1:
addicted to porn at 15 , although I had no choice coz I can't make love with a woman coz I became impotent at age 10 due to priapism, so thinking about my future hey give me depression.
As long as there is life, there is hope

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by larryking540: 6:49pm On Aug 05, 2019
every story written here spoke something about myself, and every story also written here provided a solution to myself too, it's not easy living in this world mostly 9ja, family problems, after graduation what next,

most times u think ur secondary school mate a way ahead of u after high school, only for u to meet after few years only to find out u are even doing better than them after all the snubbing because they first u gain admission,

dating has really been a bit difficult becus every lady na suspect or they aren't been truthful because of my growing up, I had a mother who hated my old man for no reason, she left d hux for no reason, before entering ss3 non of my mother's cloths can b found in d hux, it really pathetic, so every lady I meet I just find it difficult to actually trust them not to talk of dating them but as some mentioned earlier hang out more and u will definitely see d one ur heart melts for,

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by MrMakaveli20(m): 7:06pm On Aug 05, 2019
AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me
please don't even think of suicide. believe me, you will come out of this.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by placeofallure(f): 7:46pm On Aug 05, 2019
jumper524:
The day I started playing sport bet.
It got worst when I tried to stop it.
Today am a free and easy going sport gambler.
I gamble for fun not to make money.
No longer addicted to it..

Baba Germany things grin

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by placeofallure(f): 8:00pm On Aug 05, 2019
CheedyJ:
In my 30s,first child,no good job(graduated a while), no wife,no child, no money,loads of unspoken pressure, just hanging in there & hoping for a better day..

God is listening brother. These are genuine reasons for a man to be worried. But do you know? When you're tired of trying on your own, God will pick it up from there. A neighbor died yesterday of BP related causes. He's not old, maybe mid-age. He has accumulated and bottlle

Modified
Bottled up stress. In no time brother, God will find you and change your story.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 8:48pm On Aug 05, 2019
MrMakaveli20:

please don't even think of suicide. believe me, you will come out of this.
I've gotten over it. Thanks bro
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by CheedyJ(m): 10:26pm On Aug 05, 2019
placeofallure:


God is listening brother. These are genuine reasons for a man to be worried. But do you know? When you're tired of trying on your own, God will pick it up from there. A neighbor died yesterday of BP related causes. He's not old, maybe mid-age. He has accumulated and bottledu
I pray & hope God takes over bkus I'm weak & exhausted from trying on my own..thanks for d words of encouragement.. My condolence to ur neighbours' family & loved ones..

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by TFLAME(m): 1:34am On Aug 06, 2019
Contumely:


I regret being born at all. Not just being born in Nigeria.
Life has no meaning.
I wonder what we are doing in this world.

I regret my curiosity; which has led me to learn a lot especially about God and religion. It led me to deism and confusion.
At times, I wish I could format my memory and remain in ignorance-- bliss.

I’ve been here . My curiosity won’t finish me .. I pray

Curiosity about Religion can Bleep your brain up for real .

It’s not nice . You’ll end up not knowing what to believe in
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 2:04am On Aug 06, 2019
ezedioranma9:
I don't even know how to start. Gosh! I hate my life.

From the fact that my father had 2 women and nothing reasonable came from it. Leaving them, and my mother for dead, and never cared. The fact that he only talks religion, the fact that he didn't marry my mother, leaving us to be seen as worthless all over.
He was educated. Why pick my mother up and start knacking, when he had no intention of marrying.
My mother couldn't pick herself up to marry again, it left her emotional and I'm so disappointed in both of them. And he never married my mother. It's disappointing how an educated man did that.

No one lives as a family.
I'm here, my mother lives there, my sister lives there, father lives there, step-mother and son live together...
Everybody just living in different places. No love, no communication, no desire to even communicate. Na my sister dey even try dey ask me how far, and she also suffered her own. I'm almost 30, and nothing. I feel depressed but because of hard life and torture from the people I've lived with, e no dey too be like anything. I just hope I don't drown into it.

I don't even know how to love a woman because of that. All my compound neighbours think I'm weired.
I went to school with no idea of what I wanted to become. So much confusion. Today, na doctor, tomorrow, na soldier, next na police, another time na footballer.

Gosh!
A broken home is a terrible thing.
i felt touched reading this. I hope it turns out great in the end for you. There is a seed of greatness in you. It will just take an idea and courage without shame and double mind plus a right first move to manifest your hidden potential. Im not a motivational speaker or preacher. I just felt it in my guts. That break you are looking for is hidden inside of you. All other things will fall in place along the line. But first step, forgive your father. Inner peace is the only fertile ground for that seed to spring forth.

Pls treat as serious
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by TOPCRUISE(m): 4:20am On Aug 06, 2019
I will write an essay
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 4:32am On Aug 14, 2019
Ayoolajumoke:
I do not really know if I have a regret, l am one of the strongest persons I know, lots of things I am dealing with but I still have to take it one step at a time, family background is almost zero, coming from a broken home is nothing I wish my enemy but it’s not an excuse so one just have to move on.

If there’s any regrets at all right now, it’ll be not knowing how to mingle with people, keeping to myself and kinda being an introvert! Now that I even have some relationship issues and maybe just need to talk, shit hurts! Sure I’ll get through this too, just a matter of time.
we have things in common, from a broken home too, and am introvert also, if u don't mind we can marry 08064357013 call or whatsapp.
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by TheGenius001: 9:36pm On Aug 30, 2019
The worst thing that can happen to anyone is getting addicted to something very very bad.

Hopefully you'll overcome it someday.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nikes(m): 10:34pm On Aug 30, 2019
wealth25:

Its no joke am serious..

My daughters won't be prostitutes but should have a guy that will help see them through during difficulties.
Maybe you should pray for them to be strong enough to face their own challenges and not have to depend on a man for anything even when they're still unmarried. If you were strong enough to keep to your vows despite the challenges, train them to be Stronger, more resilient and more disciplined. They'll live to appreciate that kind of upbringing.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by blakid(m): 12:31pm On Aug 31, 2019
Samyj247:
no kill ursef bros. if u kill ursef ur enemies go laf u. make money and put them to shame
I greet you, bro.
pls, teach a fellow man how to fish. Biko.,

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Samyj247: 6:22pm On Aug 31, 2019
blakid:

I greet you, bro.
pls, teach a fellow man how to fish. Biko.,
pm me only if u have 30k to start. "only if"
Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Fredoh(m): 1:51am On Sep 02, 2019
Contumely:


I regret being born at all. Not just being born in Nigeria.
Life has no meaning.
I wonder what we are doing in this world.

I regret my curiosity; which has led me to learn a lot especially about God and religion. It led me to deism and confusion.
At times, I wish I could format my memory and remain in ignorance-- bliss.


I feel you bro.

Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by phillippians(m): 12:04am On Oct 27, 2019
Reading thru this I look at myself and smile, recalling the sweet memories of school life. This low grading of a thing is caused by absolute distraction especially from women in d name of boyfrd/girlfriends, campus fun Etc. I will use myself as an example, I made a 2:2 which am not very proud of, bcoz during my secondary school days I was so intelligent everyone tot I will be studying medicine and surgery. Got admitted in Microbiology and couldn't even make a First Class or 2:1 bcoz I was carried away with school fun, women are big distraction in school. I regretted keeping girls and moving with unserious Friends who only knows how to chase campus girls, dress with latest designer and shoes in d name of being a big boy, looking back it's all vanity, parents were up and doing making sure their kids get the necessary funds they need for schooling, Just to read and pass was all that was required of us yet we just go to school and do whatever we like, mtcheew! Just to read and pass!. I wish I was more serious, funny enough I was d only one who graduated amongst my hopeless friends, Imagine! they all fell into extension and abadoned their results. Please if you are yet to gain admission, be careful d type of friends u move with on campus, it determines alot how far you go, most guys who graduate with first-class or 2:1 are usually simple, more serious academically,
usually from humble backgrounds and observably do not keep girlfriends nor are they obsessed with them, and do all you can to stay away from these Jezebels called girlfriends

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Ashawoboi27(m): 12:13am On Oct 27, 2019
Spent money foolish last year and this Year
But I think I have learnt my lessons

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Rukkydelta(f): 7:55am On Oct 27, 2019
Maryjane001:
I v been best friends with these set of twins since first year.
Being an introvert,i became so used to them and we couldn't do without each other.
They knew me so well, and knew i was a very emotional person and that i hated insults.
One of them started liking me, and i liked him in return though i made it clear to him that i couldn't date him.
This guy was so addicted to me that he couldn't stay without hearing from me in a day.
During Vacation,the parents noticed and warned me to stay away from their son. That was odd because i was close to the parents. They even threatened to involve my parents if i didnt stay away.
I was confused because i didnt do anything wrong. But i stayed away for about 4 months. I blocked their lines. Even if we see each other in school ,we behave like strangers.
But i m a kind of person that hates having beef with someone particularly people i m very close to. I was the one wronged here but i just wanted to settle everything and have a clear head. That was when i received the greatest insult of my life.
I called them and told them that we had to meet in person so as to clear issues up. The one that liked me agreed but the other kept bringing excuses. I met with the one that liked me and talked about the issue and settled. But i told him not to tell his parents about it and he agreed. Later on, the twins fought each other and the one i wasnt too close to called me and was blaming me for the fight. Something i knew nothing about. That he was badly injured because of me. That anytime my name is mentioned in the house, his other twin just gets violent and told me to stay away. I called the one i liked and begged him to apologize to his brother.
I didnt want the matter to be one-sided so i offered to come to their lodge so as to talk with the other twin. I didnt know the location but they promised to come pick me. I waited for so long but none showed up, later their mom called me and was like she was looking for her son that she was sure he was with me. I told her i haven't seen him and also reminded her that she told me to stay away from her children. She warned me and the next thing i was seeing on social media was that i insulted their mother,that i called her names. As if i dont v a loving mother that i respect. They called me all manner of names on social media. I was reduced to an object of ridicule on their timelines.
I wasnt myself for months. I never cried but i was hurting badly inside.
My friend was there when i answered that call and was shocked herself.
I shared everything i had with these boys. I sacrificed so much for them as my friends. Even when sometimes they had nothing to eat,i will give them my food. Looking back at the things i sacrificed for them, i realized i was stupid.
I v moved on and thank God i have a better set of friends.

My heart breeds for you dear. I am also an introvert I once made a friend with this boy in school (got attracted to him cos we were friends) . He normally comes to my place most times to eat I got uncomfortable when he started bringing friends along not one or two but like 3 to 4. I was just a student and not a charity home for hungry boys and I couldn't cope had to stop him. The bubble burst when he and his started trying to use love on me cos he thought I was a rich kid

I had to ghost him from my life.

I am glad you are fine but always learn on how to stand on your grounds and defend yourself. Cos people like taking advantage of quiet people

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 27, 2019
Donniefred:
It's been 8yrs now, no admission yet cry
You're not alone

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Affamefuna(m): 9:57am On Oct 27, 2019
Badassniggga:
i can relate perfectly bruh.. But don't despair. I spent an extra year at the uni and after looking at my bad result, I dropped out after my HOD gave me a C.O which would've meant another extra year. My coirsemates already served since last year, had a bad start at d uni which contributed to my bad first yr result. I slipped into depression that I got lean AF in weeks. Every time I take a look at the poor situation at home and hustling background my dad went thru to sponsor me, I got more depressed and contemplated suicide but I haven't the guts for it. I dusted myself up, worked on my skill and fortunately before my decision, I wrote jamb in my final year as a plan B should I incur a C.O which eventually happened. Got admitted again in another institution late last year and currently dusting all my courses leaving no stones unturned. So, take a leaf from me and find a way out. Discovered suicide will only live my poor family in more sorrows. You can do this!! I know you'll need funds to actualize this. Get a skill you can work from home: graphic design, programming etc then you work alongside your studies and use the proceeds to fund your sch shiits.
More Blessings bro. ur story just made my day and is giving me hope to push further. God bless u

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by SavageResponse(m): 10:26am On Oct 27, 2019
AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me

What led you to this situation?

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Affamefuna(m): 10:26am On Oct 27, 2019
My own experience still gives me heart ache till date...there's this dude I used to work with at my place of work, we attended University together and eventually got employed in thesame organization. We were so close and I thought he was my friend.I notice he was always needing money and asking for loan, I asked him what the problem was and he kept on saying he was into road construction, this he tried to prove by sending me invoices of supplies he and his friend has made. I helped him secure a large amount of money from a financial house which he told me was to expand the biz. Now the unexpected happen, he was laid off in our organization for fraud. This happened a month after my wedding when I was completely broke. I have been assaulted, taken to police station and has suffered sleepless night in the hand of his creditors and in all of this, my so called friend has never called me to ask how am faring, he has blocked me on all social Media and has moved away from his house. He is currently no where to be found leaving my poor self to pay all his debts. He got the threatening mails his creditors used to send me before the arrest but wasnt moved. Thank God I am almost done with the payment as it's been over a year ago and still no word from him. Anytime I remember that incident I feel so stupid, used and foolish for trusting so much, I always curse the day I knew him.
I have left him with God to deal with him for the pain he made me go tru... It's been over a year now yet the wound is still very fresh

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by LONEER(m): 10:35am On Oct 27, 2019
I have so many regrets in life,
but I don't call it regrets ,I call it lessons,
I call it strength, I call it experience,
I call it life, and it always been the best teacher.

life goes on
Shit happens

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Lamanii22(f): 10:43am On Oct 27, 2019
akaahs:
Been born in Nigeria is the greatest regret and the most depressed


Most depressing***

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 10:44am On Oct 27, 2019
SavageResponse:


What led you to this situation?
Carryovers and financial challenges. i indicated in the actual post.

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Lamanii22(f): 11:03am On Oct 27, 2019
TOPCRUISE:
DM me if you need sniper. It's free

C'mon we don't need this right now...

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by FreeMejoor1(m): 2:54pm On Oct 27, 2019
Affamefuna:
My own experience still gives me heart ache till date...there's this dude I used to work with at my place of work, we attended University together and eventually got employed in thesame organization. We were so close and I thought he was my friend.I notice he was always needing money and asking for loan, I asked him what the problem was and he kept on saying he was into road construction, this he tried to prove by sending me invoices of supplies he and his friend has made. I helped him secure a large amount of money from a financial house which he told me was to expand the biz. Now the unexpected happen, he was laid off in our organization for fraud. This happened a month after my wedding when I was completely broke. I have been assaulted, taken to police station and has suffered sleepless night in the hand of his creditors and in all of this, my so called friend has never called me to ask how am faring, he has blocked me on all social Media and has moved away from his house. He is currently no where to be found leaving my poor self to pay all his debts. He got the threatening mails his creditors used to send me before the arrest but wasnt moved. Thank God I am almost done with the payment as it's been over a year ago and still no word from him. Anytime I remember that incident I feel so stupid, used and foolish for trusting so much, I always curse the day I knew him.
I have left him with God to deal with him for the pain he made me go tru... It's been over a year now yet the wound is still very fresh
sorry bro next timr choode carefully who you choose to trust in this country cause this naija beings can so much frustrate you when it comes to giving you back what you lent them..have had my own experiences with this people..thank God you almost through with the payment and am sure he will come around one day ,do me a favour give him a well deserving punch in face..God heal your pains..

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 9:42pm On Oct 27, 2019
Ashawoboi27:
Spent money foolish last year and this Year
But I think I have learnt my lessons
How was the money spent?

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Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Nobody: 9:59pm On Oct 27, 2019
Rukkydelta:


My heart breeds for you dear. I am also an introvert I once made a friend with this boy in school (got attracted to him cos we were friends) . He normally comes to my place most times to eat I got uncomfortable when he started bringing friends along not one or two but like 3 to 4. I was just a student and not a charity home for hungry boys and I couldn't cope had to stop him. The bubble burst when he and his started trying to use love on me cos he thought I was a rich kid

I had to ghost him from my life.

I am glad you are fine but always learn on how to stand on your grounds and defend yourself. Cos people like taking advantage of quiet people

Thanks dear.
Other people who have helped them out are also complaining. They r only your friends once they need your help. Once they v used u....u r no longer useful.
And they cover all these whole pretense under the umbrella of Mr Nice Guy, Pastor's children

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