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Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 8:25pm On Jul 04, 2019
So I went to the mall today to buy some groceries after the day's tussle.
I was really angry today after some series of arguments with some people I went to have a meeting with.
So after shopping for my groceries,I just left the mall,was hanging out at the parking lot a little to watch people do their thing and smoke my cigarette.
So I lit my cigarette and was blowing my thing jejely in the cold weather when this young boy(about 3yrs old) ran towards me and we started playing.
Seriously I've missed being with kids and I love them and I can play like a baby too.so I put off my cigarette and we continued our play.
We were having fun till the mom came and yanked him off from me arrogantly and flung the boy in the car.
Gave me one kind of bastard look and entered her car undecided
I was seriously angry and was waiting for her to say something derogatory make we burn down that mall today.would have poured all my anger on her today.
She didn't anyways.
So I thought about in and figured all of that display might be because she saw me smoking a CIGARETTE for heaven's sake.
People here are something else.but her boy was very handsome sha!
Life sef

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 8:28pm On Jul 04, 2019
Shut up. Bad influence. Since you chose to destroy your life yourself,you have no right to destroy a third party's oga. Smoke your cigareete in peace and don't blame their reactions to your actions. BTW cigarette smoking ban in public is already or has already been passed to law in Lagos

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by izzou(m): 8:28pm On Jul 04, 2019
grin

You didn't mention where she judged you

She only took her son.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by izzou(m): 8:30pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:
Shut up. Bad influence. Since you chose to destroy your life yourself,you have no right to destroy a third party's oga. Smoke your cigareete in peace and don't blame their reactions to your actions. BTW cigarette smoking ban in public is already or has already been passed to law in Lagos

Where did you see Lagos in the story?

Or when did Lagos laws become a national issue?

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 8:33pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:
Shut up. Bad influence. Since you chose to destroy your life yourself,you have no right to destroy a third party's oga. Smoke your cigareete in peace and don't blame their reactions to your actions. BTW cigarette smoking ban in public is already or has already been passed to law in Lagos
destroy my life?really?how undecided
And what makes you think I am in lagos?
And you didn't read where I said I put off the cigarette because of the boy?
You are like the woman.the only luck she get be say she no talk rubbish!
We for battle seriously.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 8:34pm On Jul 04, 2019
izzou:
grin

You didn't mention where she judged you

She only took her son.
yanked her son.
And the kind of look she gave me was derogatory tbh.
N.a. her son come meet me o,I no invite or entice the boy at all.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 8:38pm On Jul 04, 2019
Iogobenz:
destroy my life?really?how undecided
And what makes you think I am in lagos?
And you didn't read where I said I put off the cigarette because of the boy?
You are like the woman.the only luck she get be say she no talk rubbish!
We for battle seriously.



Leave kids out of adult issues. You made your decision, the kiddo deserves to make his choice over been influenced by a damaged dysfunctional adult

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by izzou(m): 8:39pm On Jul 04, 2019
Iogobenz:
yanked her son.
And the kind of look she gave me was derogatory tbh.
N.a. her son come meet me o,I no invite or entice the boy at all.

You should be glad that you now know that a person's lifestyle doesn't define his character

So many people still don't know that.

I've met devils with Bibles and angels with tatoos

Na so this life be

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 8:50pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:




Leave kids out of adult issues. You made your decision, the kiddo deserves to make his choice over been influenced by a damaged dysfunctional adult
oh don't worry,I get it now.
You are an idiot smiley

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 8:52pm On Jul 04, 2019
izzou:


You should be glad that you now know that a person's lifestyle doesn't define his character

So many people still don't know that.

I've met devils with Bibles and angels with tatoos

Na so this life be
yeah yeah sure.
I knew that from inception.was just surprised at her reaction anyways.
I am changing a lot.else the usual me would have said something that would have caused a scene.
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Oyindidi(f): 8:55pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:
Shut up. Bad influence. Since you chose to destroy your life yourself,you have no right to destroy a third party's oga. Smoke your cigareete in peace and don't blame their reactions to your actions. BTW cigarette smoking ban in public is already or has already been passed to law in Lagos
Calm down, una get beef before?

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 8:58pm On Jul 04, 2019
Oyindidi:
Calm down, una get beef before?


Get lost

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by sholay2011(m): 9:18pm On Jul 04, 2019
Iogobenz:
yeah yeah sure.
I knew that from inception.was just surprised at her reaction anyways.
I am changing a lot. else the usual me would have said something that would have caused a scene.
The woman made the right decision, it seems. Nonetheless, Nigerians are judgmental.
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 9:21pm On Jul 04, 2019
sholay2011:

The woman made the right decision, it seems. Nonetheless, Nigerians are judgmental.
It seems?
You come to me and act rude and you expect.me to be happy about it?
I was just not my usual self.that's it.
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Oyindidi(f): 9:22pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:



Get lost
Mtcheeeeeew....

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 9:23pm On Jul 04, 2019
Oyindidi:
Mtcheeeeeew....


Go fvck yasef
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 9:23pm On Jul 04, 2019
Oyindidi:
Mtcheeeeeew....


Go fvck yasef.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Oyindidi(f): 9:24pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:



Go fvck yasef
Mtcheeewwww....

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 9:32pm On Jul 04, 2019
Oyindidi:
Mtcheeewwww....


Take your son to a beer parlor. You worthless woman

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Oyindidi(f): 9:48pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:



Take your son to a beer parlor. You worthless woman
See as you dey foam for mouth, you will only wish your mother is like me.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by SageMK: 9:50pm On Jul 04, 2019
Wouldn't you let your kid play with a random stranger that just finished smoking in the park? My guess is No.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 9:51pm On Jul 04, 2019
Oyindidi:
See as you dey foam for mouth, you will only wish your mother is like me.


Hahaha e no work dear kiss Mother diss doesn't work on me dear

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Oyindidi(f): 9:53pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:



Hahaha e no work dear kiss Mother diss doesn't work one dear
Dont call me dear next time cos I'm not your mother.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 9:53pm On Jul 04, 2019
Oyindidi:
Dont call me dear next cos I'm not your mother.



Okay baby. Such a good girly tongue
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Oyindidi(f): 9:56pm On Jul 04, 2019
Na so una dey insult for no good reason. Dey insult people dey go. Make sure sey you insult person first thing tomorrow morning.
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by ifyalways(f): 9:57pm On Jul 04, 2019
With all the child kidnapping happening now in this Country

If play hungry you, go born ya own.

Woman is prolly wondering if you want to kidnap her cute child as opposed to judging you

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 9:58pm On Jul 04, 2019
Oyindidi:
Na so una dey insult for no good reason. Dey insult people dey go. Make sure sey you insult person first thing tomorrow morning.

Shut up. I get reason for being on your case. Since the day you turned, I've turned against you too otondo
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:59pm On Jul 04, 2019
What a thread.

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Oyindidi(f): 10:02pm On Jul 04, 2019
Please don't mention me again
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 10:03pm On Jul 04, 2019
ifyalways:
With all the child kidnapping happening now in this Country

If play hungry you, go born ya own.

Woman is prolly wondering if you want to kidnap her cute child as opposed to judging you
With who na?you get wife for me?
I am not good with women ify.it's so bad and I am now lonely as hell.
I had everything I needed some months back but I think I pushed and bullied her too much tbh.not physically though.
And I treated her like she was insignificant or not important.
In fact I don't know,she had her own issues too.
Remember when I was having issues with business?
That was when I lost my sweetie o.
If I tell you the story ehn...
Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by kunleweb: 10:07pm On Jul 04, 2019
Iogobenz:
With who na?you get wife for me?
I am not good with women ify.it's so bad and I am now lonely as hell.
I had everything I needed some months back but I think I pushed and bullied her too much tbh.not physically though.
In fact I don't know,she had her own issues too.
Remember when I was having issues with business?
That was when I lost my sweetie o.
If I tell you the story ehn...



You see why I said you were damaged n dysfunctional. Oya o Oyindidi food don don

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Re: Why Are Nigerians So Judgemental? by Iogobenz(m): 10:09pm On Jul 04, 2019
kunleweb:




You see why I said you were damaged n dysfunctional. Oya o Oyindidi food don don
look guy,leave me alone na.
Is that too much to ask? undecided

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