Chi59:


"Your point being?" is a question
"That's a stupid point" is an insult.

I created this thread to deal with the issues concerning what females need in a relationship.
He raised the issue of security and I wasn't exactly getting his point so I asked to know.

You, my friend have no point. A taste of my medicine? Bollocks. Take several seats, please.

Do not attempt to derail this thread any further.

Where do I even start from?

Questions can be insults. Questions can be rude. But you know what? You’re right.

Chi59:
In my opinion, what ladies need in no particular order
1. Love and support
2. Honesty/ Transparency
3. A listening ear
4. Money

What do you think ladies need in a relationship?

You are very correct

Apart from no 4, every other things are just within a man, yet they will act as if its not important

And they want the relationship to sail without storm

MrBrownJay1:


The fact remains that women need security in their r/ship.... You need to know/feel that your man is yours, you need to know that your man is there for the long run, you need to know/feel that your r/ship is stable, this is what SECURITY is.... Aka that you ain't a step away from being single.



I wasn't remotely talking about that type of security, as I certainly do NOT believe that this is what women need in a r/ship. The same physical security that this woman needed while single, is exactly the same she needs when dating.

Lol, you are correct.

Chi59:
This thread is not a male Vs female shindig.
Neither is it an opportunity to bully one another.
I believe we women are highly misunderstood most times.
For many women, I'd say, we do know exactly what we want from a relationship most of the time.
The problem is communicating our needs effectively.
More often than not, guys and ladies do not think alike. Hence the problem decoding the information we ladies try to convey.

- Money is key.
-We ladies aren't looking for a man to save us/change us. But someone who recognizes our differences and how to handle it.
[b]-"No" is not "yes" to many ladies [/b]out there.
And "yes" isn't "no" either.
- Ladies lie about losing their virginity to rape mostly cos that's what society prefers to hear.
Heck, the only women who are open about their sex life and body counts are called ashawo.
- No, women aren't Saints. And yes, we can't do without the men.

Except you are referring to foreign women, but if its the naija gurls NO ! stop jor means YES i can drag these with you from Nl to ur bedroom.

ericsmith:



Except you are referring to foreign women, but if its the naija gurls NO ! stop jor means YES i can drag these with you from Nl to ur bedroom.

Why my bedroom?

frozen70:


And they want the relationship to sail without storm

That's not very correct.
Whoever wants that is still immature and without the knowledge and understanding that it is storms that establish a relationship.

Chi59:


Why my bedroom?

someone is already in my bedroom ... i can please say No ! stop ! stop in a voice note

ericsmith:




someone is already in my bedroom ... i can please say No ! stop ! stop in a voice note

Not funny

Chi59:


That's important, within the confines of marriage.

God bless you

Chi59:
In my opinion, what ladies need in no particular order
1. Love and support
2. Honesty/ Transparency
3. A listening ear
4. Money

What do you think ladies need in a relationship?

@bolded

Too ambiguous.

Chi59:


That's important, within the confines of marriage.

Good to know , your type still exist . am amazed

MariaLavina:
So having a man proves all these wrong?

That guy you are replying must have left his brains in the pit latrine at his home.

Paxie55:

-Secure me from what? Some of you can't even stand a woman stronger than you let alone man, So, what's your point there?

Ppl like you are always very miserable. You need to learn how to go easy. Type how you feel on first impulse then delete all of it, breathe in and out deeply then type the next thing that comes to ur mind. You could have tried to understand the meaning of security here.

Chi59:
In my opinion, what ladies need in no particular order
1. Love and support
2. Honesty/ Transparency
3. A listening ear
4. Money

What do you think ladies need in a relationship?

I think you ladies are in the best position to answer thah. you gurlz should tell us.


wha happened to your fb account dear?

Paxie55:

-Secure me from what? Some of you can't even stand a woman stronger than you let alone man, So, what's your point there?

That security he's talking about is quite different from what your thinking. Money in it self is security

Correct me if I'm wrong

emmyskies:

I think you ladies are in the best position to answer thah. you gurlz should tell us.


wha happened to your fb account dear?

I got a new one

Chi59:


I got a new one

okay. that's fine. i goh posted to serve at wannune tarka. u still ah Gboko?

emmyskies:


okay. that's fine. i goh posted to serve at wannune tarka. u still ah Gboko?

Yeah

Chi59:

Yeah

Alright dear. Can I have your contact? Hope you don't mind?
08033403668
drop me a message

from experience , if you have better dick and you can Bleep her to satisfy her nothing is needed...

money is not much important than to Bleep her better..