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Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Ochuksbaba(m): 1:07am On Aug 07, 2019 |
ubunja: this advice is the perfect best,, worked for me 100%,,you cannot catch a monkey with bare hands without knowing how to jump 2 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by madridsta007(m): 1:10am On Aug 07, 2019 |
SingleGuy9999: “22 years old and in your final year....” You should be thanking God that girls have rejected you. Why don’t you forget about girls and focus on your studies? Graduate with a First Class. Get a decent job or attempt a scholarship + Masters abroad. Get into a decent job. Ladies will be at your beck and call. Ignore them, bro. They are not worth it. Not at your age and level. 5 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by iLegendd(m): 1:10am On Aug 07, 2019 |
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Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by adeboi1: 1:11am On Aug 07, 2019 |
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Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by luminouz(m): 1:23am On Aug 07, 2019 |
meobizy:Hmmmmm 1 Like
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Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by BeLookingIDIOT(m): 1:24am On Aug 07, 2019 |
SingleGuy9999:Okay,but you will fail again. |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by iLegendd(m): 1:40am On Aug 07, 2019 |
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Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by iLegendd(m): 1:42am On Aug 07, 2019 |
BeLookingIDIOT:Yes, he will fail again, but after reading one or two of the books above, he won't fail again. |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by citruslimited(m): 1:48am On Aug 07, 2019 |
My brother never allow your your present situation change the good person in you. Period. 2 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by deltateam: 1:50am On Aug 07, 2019 |
TemmyT002: Make sure she's not single? Na mistake abi make op dey pursue married women? |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by micflo28(m): 1:54am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Youngman, you don't need harem of women to feel less lonely, Make yourself soooo happy to green envy of the ladies that they will wanna be part of what gives you so much joy. Dress very well and stylishly, walk shoulder high, use very good perfumes, read books that will help you to speak eloquently. Ladies love men who are happy with themselves first. Don't be boring around them, don't be always available to loose your value. choose your ladies, don't let them choose or fall for just any lady. Be confident, grow some beards and go out more often. 3 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by panch001(m): 2:01am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Just do u make money and be a complete a$$ hole they will fall for you. Believe me I experienced what u are experiencing now. |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Nobody: 2:02am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Someone has said every thing already.99% of girl/woman problems balls down to MONEY,even in MARRIAGES. Do You Have MONEY?! |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Ndubuisipaul1: 2:13am On Aug 07, 2019 |
SingleGuy9999: I disagree with some contributions here. Some are saying dude is too young to have sex, When most girl even in nairaland started enjoying sex from the age of 14. If a small girl of 14 is enjoying sex why won't op enjoy too. Some guys that started having sex late started at age 18 . 4 years down the line and you are telling me op is too young . Some are telling the guy to make money first. So if he doesn't make money he should not have sex ? I have a younger brother even when he was jobless he was sleeping with so many girls I was even the one feeding him at that time. So lets leave money aside Some said he should focus on his studies, this dude is in school and this opportunity may never come again and you want him to waste it. If he passes through school and school did not pass through him wetin em gain ? Bro I feel your pain , one nairalander once said, the worst thing life can do to you, is to deny you money and sex at that the same time. And I agree with him. Dude want to have sex so as to feel like a man, he want to be loved and cared for, like every other man. so any contribution you make should be channeled to that. Now to my contribution, Sometimes you can't say why ladies fall for people they do. Till now I can't explain why a girl will fall for an average married man and say No to a single guy ( no matter how poor he may be ) but that's life mystery. Now to the main advice. Let me ask you have you fought with a girl for one hour just to make her give in to sex ? The pride of a girl lays in her waist and that is the last thing she would want to give you. Sometimes you need not take no for an answer. let me stop here before I get a barn from nairaland.. I really feel sorry for you. I wish I was a lady I will just take your number. pls let's keep our comment on point.. 5 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Gerrard59(m): 2:20am On Aug 07, 2019 |
pansophist: E.O.D! The discussion continues after the commercial break. 3 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by oboy81: 2:25am On Aug 07, 2019 |
So this is your problem in life single guy? Lol ok oh |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by geedot: 2:28am On Aug 07, 2019 |
TemmyT002:There we go! Our brother here has approached the subject matter from the theological point of view.. Hehehe. This thread is really funny, starting from the way the op was lamenting bitterly, followed by some crazily funny comments. Judging solely on how the hope lamented up there, your attitude reeks DESPERATION; which is a huge turn off from ladies. You're desperate to get a gf, you are desperate to get laid, girl gave you number; you've started calling as if you got her the sim, a girl replies you with one word chats and you're responding with epistle. etc. These attitudes above are what you potrayed in dealing with them, and you expect them not to avoid you. My only advice for you is relax, and see ladies as freestyle. Don't take it too serious and don't imagine things. Just keep an open mind, call them only once, if they missed it, there's another day (we have 365days a year). Because you really need to know how to deal with the opposite sex; without money of course (remember even girls have sex with animals because of the money involved and not for affection) so money will bring them for sex, but probability of them loving you is so tiny. So those telling you money is everything are not helping you, rich dudes also get dumped! Just bone the school parol and brace up for NYSC, girls are cheaper to get there if only you've learnt your lesson in how to deal with the ladies. All the best bro. 3 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Nobody: 2:36am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Have being there too, that's i made a promise nt to talk to gals, due to this most of my guys percieves me to gay but i don't care. |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by vicsongreat(m): 2:43am On Aug 07, 2019 |
SingleGuy9999:bro, it may be ur behaviour, ur altitudes, try and work on urself pls. From my secondary to university, I never stayed without girls, infact, girls fall over heels to be with me, they r d ones chasen after me, they spend on me, check on me, do the calls and always want to please me, as for Bleep, na me they run... Many of my friends even blvd I was using charms on girls. Mind u, am just a poor broke guy from a very poor family, though I do appear like someone from a well to do family and am smart and presentable, many guys that have money end up loosing girls for me. Yet I dnt give them shishi, they beg to visit and give em conditions. So try and up ur games cos I dnt see anything difficult on getting a girl u like. 1 Like |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by lalanice(f): 2:43am On Aug 07, 2019 |
MrWTF:SingleGuy9999 trust me you will never get a good girl like this, if my man did any of this he'll still be single and would probably be making a post like this. If I knew you I might have been able to help. First you need to know that this is normal, and there is nothing wrong with you plus you're 22, not everybody finds love early but going with the flow makes it easier than trying to follow other people's rules or doing what works for others when y'all are not the same or chyking dsame woman. |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Nobody: 2:52am On Aug 07, 2019 |
SingleGuy9999 make you no waste ur time woh, all these small small girls no ready for real relationship, unless of course you are just looking for sex and fun. Personally am just like you, but with a difference, am actually NOT INTERESTED in wasting time on a relationship, So i don't approach just any girl but when I do, I make myself, clear, am looking for a wife not a sex friend. D m ok moment she starts misbehaving, I just move on. But to be honest, what I observed, most girls below 25 ain't ready for any serious relationship, they always think they are young, wanna flex & try different guys. In summary, grow a bit older & avoid small small girls way no sabi what they want in life 2 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by bleskid: 2:59am On Aug 07, 2019 |
go and make money is the ultimate solution ... |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Fragility6: 3:10am On Aug 07, 2019 |
OmoAlata1:Your comment just describes your type of person. Saucy and ...... |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Fragility6: 3:25am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Omega30:Dated for long? You no dey wit the girl again be that |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Fragility6: 3:27am On Aug 07, 2019 |
chronique:Make e carry country problems for head? Every mallam with e kettle o 1 Like |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Fragility6: 3:31am On Aug 07, 2019 |
uchechefaith:You made a valid point bt were i don't agree with u is when u said he is not ready for marriage probably bcoz of his age u mentioned |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Obason22(m): 3:42am On Aug 07, 2019 |
I just see that u have a minor issue, (1) minimize the way u mingle with girls, (2) always keep ur standard high b4 girls (3) Don't toast any ladie close to u and (4) Don't be desperate. after all these and it continue then contact ur right hand guy that knows wat up to help u out or call 08161......... ? towing van |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by BlackPantherCri: 3:48am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Who asks girls out nowadays? Girls are wired to say No. So just go with the flow and when things get heated, bam! Enter the place and claim territory. |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Forumalicante: 3:51am On Aug 07, 2019 |
No fork dey hungry you?adamu go and find money. quote author=SingleGuy9999 post=80980928]Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through. My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart... That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected... I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth. I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before. When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc.... So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection. I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection. Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for. Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get... Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help[/quote] |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Wildivy(f): 3:51am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Reading through it, I felt your pain... I understand how that can actually take a swipe on your self esteem.... So I'll drop a little more point to what you've seen here Don't be predictable.. No woman will take a man serious if he's easy to read Be fun... Be spontaneous... Act more on body languages than actually the wooing itself... She gives the light.. Go hard, fast.. Tease... Leave.. Let her always guess your moods... Throw compliments to other girls in her presence... The more you make it about you and less about em.. The more they find you attractive.... Reason why bad guys or flirts are always with the great girls.... Lastly... Build your confidence... Desperation is a no no.. And it shows without you even being aware..... Good luck 2 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by Goalnaldo(m): 3:54am On Aug 07, 2019 |
Fear catch me! I never knew that two different people can be so alike. Everything you wrote there is what am passing through. In my own case am 27. I have never had 100% failure in anything before except this relationship matter. Surprisingly I haven't given up on love. So I will be looking at this thread to see reasonable advices cause we are practically the same. 3 Likes |
Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by GoldPencil: 3:57am On Aug 07, 2019 |
"No girl is out of your league. it's the guys chasing her that are not your mate" - moyodre 2013 if you want a girl, all you have to do is be the highest value/status male on her radar currently and pay her no mind. Humans are naturally greedy and want what they cant have, because scarcity creates value. a Lamborghini is not begging to be sold, rather people beg to buy it. So demonstrate high value by not bothering with asking out. get money, Bleep your targets friend and remain detached. your target will chase you instead. then you'll get bored. it's not abt looks, though that's important. learn life chess 9 Likes 2 Shares |
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