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How Single Mothers In Nigeria Destroy Their Boys Lives / How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' / Time Has Change All Naija Girls Are Into Prostitution Especially Single Mothers (2) (3) (4)
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 7:11pm On Aug 14|
Rosay15:lol,my sister... I only wanted to confirm what the hype was all about. I've not been active here but recently I see how men hype him. Now I know better, smh. Dude got no functioning brain after all, it's such a shame. He confirmed it, I'm glad.
|Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:13pm On Aug 14|
Blackivy27:a lady that gets pregnant out of wedlock.
Who is not married.
Widows are alright. That's why their children are called ORPHANS.
single mothers raise brats.
|Re: Single Mothers by Blackivy27(f): 7:16pm On Aug 14|
ubunja:Ok.y oo. but widows still raise their kids alone
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 7:20pm On Aug 14|
ubunja:eeyah. A single mom who died, her son/daughter will be called what? Another word for orphan please?
|Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:20pm On Aug 14|
Blackivy27:yar but the point is not in raising kids alone. That's where ladies miss it. It's the why? As in Why are you raising your kid alone? Where's the father? He left? So you've a bad choice in men. You're irresponsible.
That's how men process this single mother thing.
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|Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:23pm On Aug 14|
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 7:29pm On Aug 14|
[quote author=ubunja post=81257751]a lady that gets pregnant out of wedlock.
Who is not married.
Widows are alright. That's why their children are called ORPHANS.
single mothers raise brats. [/quote:]And "In the common use, an orphan does not have any surviving parent to care for them." COMMON USE SIR!
|Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:30pm On Aug 14|
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|Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 8:57am On Aug 15|
No I have not heard, educate me
|Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 9:00am On Aug 15|
This just confirmed you are bipolar.
|Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 9:03am On Aug 15|
All female anatomy are not the same. Some were raped used contraceptive and didnt work, others didn't know they were pregnant until after 3 months.
|Re: Single Mothers by DSHADOWWALKER: 9:04am On Aug 15|
You guys always try to make ladies victim in every situation,the last time i checked,tgey are both the parents.And they arent satisfying anybody,they consented to the sex and enjoyed it,abeg.And who told you all ladies are expecting marriage or marriage sud be d outcome of any relation ship??
|Re: Single Mothers by Savagethe21st: 9:28am On Aug 15|
ubunja:what about divorcé
|Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 11:15am On Aug 15|
|Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 11:16am On Aug 15|
|Re: Single Mothers by Ryan03(m): 11:47am On Aug 15|
24kmagic:my ex have a son for me, when she was pregnant, I wanted to marry her but we found out our genotype was not compatible, we couldn't get married. since she was already pregnant and I didn't want I to face the stigma that comes with it, I decided that if our child is not ss, I will be contented with just him. but she refused, she wanted more kids, so we broke up. we are still friends, we do all we can for our son. you don't know people's stories, it's issues like these that make people marry wrongly and later regret it
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|Re: Single Mothers by Tunagee: 12:01pm On Aug 15|
This guy wicked o!! Chai!
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 2:20pm On Aug 15|
Ryan03:you have time telling him story. Most of them just run mouths because they dunno what life is all about. It's okay to be a single dad, but not a single mom. This society is just being unfair to women. Different people have different stories, if that happens to any of their family member (I know most will say it can't happen) tell the lady never to marry again.
|Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 2:28pm On Aug 15|
Mystic2019:Every bodies opinion must not align with yours . As for me I can never marry a single mother . I reject it in mine lineage.
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|Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 2:53pm On Aug 15|
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 2:55pm On Aug 15|
vingeophysicist:first,never asked for your opinion sir. Secondly, everyone has different choices. I as a lady might also decide never to marry a single dad. It's my choice. Does that mean I'll start calling single dads all sorts of names like you men do? Men in this part of the world need to grow up. I'm not against your choice. I was quoting someone else, he has no reason to tell his story cause some people are so daft and can't even think deep to understand that several times, some situations can't just be avoided. Go after your choice and stop calling those you can't date "hoes". Let them live!
|Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 3:00pm On Aug 15|
Mystic2019:The name calling is really wrong for me . But let’s be sincere single mom and dad happens due to bad decision and they should be called for what it is.
|Re: Single Mothers by Tunagee: 3:00pm On Aug 15|
Can't compare to a widow.
A single mum got pregnant unexpectedly, and the father absconds or denies it; so she probably brings up the child alone in a frustrated way cos of pain and agony of being left with an unwanted child to take care of alone.
|Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 3:09pm On Aug 15|
People are emotionally imbalanced oo. A lady having sex with an irresponsible man knows the consequences before she engaged in the act but her fleshy desire pushes her to do otherwise.
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 3:30pm On Aug 15|
vingeophysicist:thank you, at one point in our lives, we've made bad decisions. We are bound to make mistakes. When I was younger, used to say I would never do such to bring shame to my family. When it happened, I couldn't do a thing. I wasn't a divorcee or widow, I had the child out of wedlock. I took responsibility for my actions. Isn't that better than having series of abortion? I've heard of ladies who got their wombs damaged through this. You as a man claiming "I can't marry a single mom",remember to put this in your prayers too "God, don't let me meet those ladies who have damaged their wombs through abortion" cuz trust me, the former is better than the latter. Last last, it takes two to tango. But na woman get wahala, SMH. You will never see women on forums like this calling single dads names.
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 3:38pm On Aug 15|
vingeophysicist:see,not all irresponsible men show it. some men can pretend ehn, likewise women too. May we not fall into wrong hands. Besides that, a guy just told his own story. These single parents might not be irresponsible. Some situations warrant it.
|Re: Single Mothers by Olas00(m): 3:39pm On Aug 15|
You know that nowadays gels don't love guys that love them. Na until the guy gave them pregnant is then there eyes go clear :Dquote author=Pascopele post=81245765]Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....
If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.[/quote]
|Re: Single Mothers by Olas00(m): 3:40pm On Aug 15|
You know that nowadays gels don't love guys that love them. Na until the guy gave them pregnant is then there eyes go clear :
|Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 3:40pm On Aug 15|
Mystic2019:Yeah I praise single mothers for theirs strength and courage to corrects and take responsibility for their mistake . I pray God see them through.
|Re: Single Mothers by AstroG: 3:40pm On Aug 15|
Society is not unfair to women,its what the women do that makes them to be judged..
SHAME ON ALL SINGLE WOMEN IN NIGERIA AND BEYOND (Excluding the widows and divorces)...
All of the above are HOEOLOSHOS..
|Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 3:43pm On Aug 15|
AstroG:one celebrated fool spotted, lol.
|Re: Single Mothers by AstroG: 3:47pm On Aug 15|
And a slowpoke(olosho) replied him
SHAME ON YOU,
Keep up the good works of spreading your Legs like Wildfire,its your right
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