₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,318,757 members, 5,112,574 topics. Date: Friday, 23 August 2019 at 04:38 PM

Single Mothers - Romance (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Single Mothers (2495 Views)

How Single Mothers In Nigeria Destroy Their Boys Lives / How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' / Time Has Change All Naija Girls Are Into Prostitution Especially Single Mothers (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 7:11pm On Aug 14
Rosay15:
.. You shouldn’t have replied him, d guy and his fans are just something else.
He think he knows it all but to me he knows nothing, I don’t just know what’s all the hype all about.
lol,my sister... I only wanted to confirm what the hype was all about. I've not been active here but recently I see how men hype him. Now I know better, smh. Dude got no functioning brain after all, it's such a shame. He confirmed it, I'm glad.

6 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:13pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Yep. Suh who's a single mum?
a lady that gets pregnant out of wedlock.

Who is not married.

Widows are alright. That's why their children are called ORPHANS.

single mothers raise brats.

4 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by Blackivy27(f): 7:16pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
a lady that gets pregnant out of wedlock.
Who is not married.
Widows are alright. That's why their children are called ORPHANS.
single mothers raise brats.
Ok.y oo. but widows still raise their kids alone
Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 7:20pm On Aug 14
ubunja:
a lady that gets pregnant out of wedlock.

Who is not married.

Widows are alright. That's why their children are called ORPHANS.

single mothers raise brats.
eeyah. A single mom who died, her son/daughter will be called what? Another word for orphan please?

2 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:20pm On Aug 14
Blackivy27:
Ok.y oo.
but widows still raise their kids alone
yar but the point is not in raising kids alone. That's where ladies miss it. It's the why? As in Why are you raising your kid alone? Where's the father? He left? So you've a bad choice in men. You're irresponsible.

That's how men process this single mother thing.

9 Likes 1 Share

Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:23pm On Aug 14
Mystic2019:
eeyah. A single mom who died, her son/daughter will be called what? Another word for orphan please?
Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 7:29pm On Aug 14
[quote author=ubunja post=81257751]a lady that gets pregnant out of wedlock.

Who is not married.

Widows are alright. That's why their children are called ORPHANS.

single mothers raise brats. [/quote:]And "In the common use, an orphan does not have any surviving parent to care for them." COMMON USE SIR!

1 Like

Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 7:30pm On Aug 14
[quote author=Mystic2019 post=81258176][/quote]
Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 8:57am On Aug 15
No I have not heard, educate me
Momoney77:



Have you heard of Baby Rabies Op, You think guys are the problem right??
Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 9:00am On Aug 15
This just confirmed you are bipolar.
ubunja:
me and sense are East and West. We don't meet. So stay away.

1 Like

Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 9:03am On Aug 15
All female anatomy are not the same. Some were raped used contraceptive and didnt work, others didn't know they were pregnant until after 3 months.
ubunja:
I tell you. Very soon you gonna hear that rubbish.

Single Mothers tho.
Why must a woman who couldn't use any of the free dozen and plus contraception available and couldn't get pregnant for a responsible man be praised as a heroine.

During our ancestral age they were shamed for their immorality

1 Like

Re: Single Mothers by DSHADOWWALKER: 9:04am On Aug 15
Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.



You guys always try to make ladies victim in every situation,the last time i checked,tgey are both the parents.And they arent satisfying anybody,they consented to the sex and enjoyed it,abeg.And who told you all ladies are expecting marriage or marriage sud be d outcome of any relation ship??

3 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by Savagethe21st: 9:28am On Aug 15
ubunja:
a lady that gets pregnant out of wedlock.

Who is not married.

Widows are alright. That's why their children are called ORPHANS.

single mothers raise brats.
what about divorcé

1 Like

Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 11:15am On Aug 15
Pascopele:
All female anatomy are not the same. Some were raped used contraceptive and didnt work, others didn't know they were pregnant until after 3 months.
so?

3 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by ubunja(m): 11:16am On Aug 15
Pascopele:
This just confirmed you are bipolar.
and?

3 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by Ryan03(m): 11:47am On Aug 15
24kmagic:
The only single mothers I love and respect are those who lost their husbands or got divorced.

But you see all those ones that fvcked one dude and gave birth outside wedlock? I fvcking hate them. They fvcking disgust me. I'm never having anything serious to do with them, except to add to their misery.
Na me go clean another person mess? #spits


The only single mother I will marry if I see is a widow. I will love and treat her child (ren) as mine. I will love and treat her right.
Every other category of single mother is a complete turn off.

my ex have a son for me, when she was pregnant, I wanted to marry her but we found out our genotype was not compatible, we couldn't get married. since she was already pregnant and I didn't want I to face the stigma that comes with it, I decided that if our child is not ss, I will be contented with just him. but she refused, she wanted more kids, so we broke up. we are still friends, we do all we can for our son. you don't know people's stories, it's issues like these that make people marry wrongly and later regret it

4 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Single Mothers by Tunagee: 12:01pm On Aug 15
24kmagic:
The only single mothers I love and respect are those who lost their husbands or got divorced.

But you see all those ones that fvcked one dude and gave birth outside wedlock? I fvcking hate them. They fvcking disgust me. I'm never having anything serious to do with them, except to add to their misery.
Na me go clean another person mess? #spits


The only single mother I will marry if I see is a widow. I will love and treat her child (ren) as mine. I will love and treat her right.
Every other category of single mother is a complete turn off.


This guy wicked o!! Chai!

1 Like

Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 2:20pm On Aug 15
Ryan03:
my ex have a son for me, when she was pregnant, I wanted to marry her but we found out our genotype was not compatible, we couldn't get married. since she was already pregnant and I didn't want I to face the stigma that comes with it, I decided that if our child is not ss, I will be contented with just him. but she refused, she wanted more kids, so we broke up. we are still friends, we do all we can for our son. you don't know people's stories, it's issues like these that make people marry wrongly and later regret it
you have time telling him story. Most of them just run mouths because they dunno what life is all about. It's okay to be a single dad, but not a single mom. This society is just being unfair to women. Different people have different stories, if that happens to any of their family member (I know most will say it can't happen) tell the lady never to marry again.

4 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 2:28pm On Aug 15
Mystic2019:
you have time telling him story. Most of them just run mouths because they dunno what life is all about. It's okay to be a single dad, but not a single mom. This society is just being unfair to women. Different people have different stories, if that happens to any of their family member (I know most will say it can't happen) tell the lady never to marry again.
Every bodies opinion must not align with yours . As for me I can never marry a single mother . I reject it in mine lineage.

9 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Single Mothers by Pascopele: 2:53pm On Aug 15
vingeophysicist:

Every bodies opinion must not align with yours . As for me I can never marry a single mother . I reject it in mine lineage.
Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 2:55pm On Aug 15
vingeophysicist:

Every bodies opinion must not align with yours . As for me I can never marry a single mother . I reject it in mine lineage.
first,never asked for your opinion sir. Secondly, everyone has different choices. I as a lady might also decide never to marry a single dad. It's my choice. Does that mean I'll start calling single dads all sorts of names like you men do? Men in this part of the world need to grow up. I'm not against your choice. I was quoting someone else, he has no reason to tell his story cause some people are so daft and can't even think deep to understand that several times, some situations can't just be avoided. Go after your choice and stop calling those you can't date "hoes". Let them live!
Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 3:00pm On Aug 15
Mystic2019:
first,never asked for your opinion sir. Secondly, everyone has different choices. I as a lady might also decide never to marry a single dad. It's my choice. Does that mean I'll start calling single dads all sorts of names like you men do? Men in this part of the world need to grow up. I'm not against your choice. I was quoting someone else, he has no reason to tell his story cause some people are so daft and can't even think deep to understand that several times, some situations can't just be avoided. Go after your choice and stop calling those you can't date "hoes". Let them live!
The name calling is really wrong for me . But let’s be sincere single mom and dad happens due to bad decision and they should be called for what it is.
Re: Single Mothers by Tunagee: 3:00pm On Aug 15
Blackivy27:
Ok.y oo.
but widows still raise their kids alone

Can't compare to a widow.
A single mum got pregnant unexpectedly, and the father absconds or denies it; so she probably brings up the child alone in a frustrated way cos of pain and agony of being left with an unwanted child to take care of alone.
Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 3:09pm On Aug 15
People are emotionally imbalanced oo. A lady having sex with an irresponsible man knows the consequences before she engaged in the act but her fleshy desire pushes her to do otherwise.
Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 3:30pm On Aug 15
vingeophysicist:

The name calling is really wrong for me . But let’s be sincere single mom and dad happens due to bad decision and they should be called for what it is.
thank you, at one point in our lives, we've made bad decisions. We are bound to make mistakes. When I was younger, used to say I would never do such to bring shame to my family. When it happened, I couldn't do a thing. I wasn't a divorcee or widow, I had the child out of wedlock. I took responsibility for my actions. Isn't that better than having series of abortion? I've heard of ladies who got their wombs damaged through this. You as a man claiming "I can't marry a single mom",remember to put this in your prayers too "God, don't let me meet those ladies who have damaged their wombs through abortion" cuz trust me, the former is better than the latter. Last last, it takes two to tango. But na woman get wahala, SMH. You will never see women on forums like this calling single dads names.

2 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 3:38pm On Aug 15
vingeophysicist:
People are emotionally imbalanced oo. A lady having sex with an irresponsible man knows the consequences before she engaged in the act but her fleshy desire pushes her to do otherwise.
see,not all irresponsible men show it. some men can pretend ehn, likewise women too. May we not fall into wrong hands. Besides that, a guy just told his own story. These single parents might not be irresponsible. Some situations warrant it.
Re: Single Mothers by Olas00(m): 3:39pm On Aug 15
You know that nowadays gels don't love guys that love them. Na until the guy gave them pregnant is then there eyes go clear smiley wink :Dquote author=Pascopele post=81245765]Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.[/quote]
Re: Single Mothers by Olas00(m): 3:40pm On Aug 15
You know that nowadays gels don't love guys that love them. Na until the guy gave them pregnant is then there eyes go clear : smiley wink
Re: Single Mothers by vingeophysicist(m): 3:40pm On Aug 15
Mystic2019:
thank you, at one point in our lives, we've made bad decisions. When I was younger, used to say I would never do such to bring shame to my family. When it happened, I couldn't do a thing. I wasn't a divorcee or widow, I had the child out of wedlock. I took responsibility for my actions. Isn't that better than having series of abortion? I've heard of ladies who got their wombs damaged through this. You as a man claiming "I can't marry a single mom",remember to put this in your prayers too "God, don't let me meet those ladies who have damaged their wombs through abortion" cuz trust me, the former is better than the latter. Last last, it takes two to tango. But na woman get wahala, SMH. You will never see women on forums like this calling single dads names.
Yeah I praise single mothers for theirs strength and courage to corrects and take responsibility for their mistake . I pray God see them through.

2 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by AstroG: 3:40pm On Aug 15
Mystic2019:
you have time telling him story. Most of them just run mouths because they dunno what life is all about. It's okay to be a single dad, but not a single mom. This society is just being unfair to women. Different people have different stories, if that happens to any of their family member (I know most will say it can't happen) tell the lady never to marry again.



Society is not unfair to women,its what the women do that makes them to be judged..



SHAME ON ALL SINGLE WOMEN IN NIGERIA AND BEYOND (Excluding the widows and divorces)...
All of the above are HOEOLOSHOS..
TUEH!?

4 Likes

Re: Single Mothers by Mystic2019: 3:43pm On Aug 15
AstroG:




Society is not unfair to women,its what the women do that makes them to be judged..



SHAME ON ALL SINGLE WOMEN IN NIGERIA AND BEYOND (Excluding the widows and divorces)...
All of the above are HOEOLOSHOS..
TUEH!?
one celebrated fool spotted, lol.

1 Like

Re: Single Mothers by AstroG: 3:47pm On Aug 15
Mystic2019:
one celebrated fool spotted, lol.



And a slowpoke(olosho) replied him undecided undecided


SHAME ON YOU,
Keep up the good works of spreading your Legs like Wildfire,its your right cool cool

3 Likes

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (Reply)

10 Things To Avoid If You Want A Lasting Relationship / Guys, Can You Wash Your Girlrfiend's/wife's Under Wears (pants,bra,)? / He's A Robot

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (0) (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2019 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 145
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.