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Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Reelstudio8: 4:48am On Aug 24, 2019 |
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Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Jilo83(m): 4:57am On Aug 24, 2019 |
conscience.
They need it because d rate at which ladies cheat now... |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Ominimercy(m): 4:58am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Beauty with brain |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by lordweezy(m): 5:14am On Aug 24, 2019 |
If your woman only has sex and food to contribute then I suggest you to dissociate. A woman must be kind to enable relationship or marriage work, what is kindness ? A kind person knows the condition of a situation and thinks how best to salvage it, a kind person doesn’t waste another’s sweat cause she recognize how hard life or wealth can be and so will always think how to support to earn more, women naturally think when they demand from a man and he gives you that he is a mumu, some people give because they feel it’s their way of showing kindness , but any woman who is not kind,whole hearted loving, pls I know we confuse respect to be love, it’s two different things but a woman must never give excuse or I don’t know how to cook cause if the guy says I don’t know how to marry e go be like relationship abuse So better be kind |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Unrated900(m): 5:35am On Aug 24, 2019 |
truthsayer009: What about moral behavior Plenty fine face girls out there But no moral behaviors Never marry a club girl or street girl or social media girls She would show you club attitudes 1 Like |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by princfred(m): 5:36am On Aug 24, 2019 |
AreaFada2:Exactly but society has deceived many to believe that boyfriend girlfriend orientation applies to marriage. A girl can be dated for her big this and biiger that but if mentality same is carried into marriage, stories follow because that's a different ball game. 1 Like |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by ValentineEkpezu(m): 5:40am On Aug 24, 2019 |
all she need is
responsibility.
pure heart of love
good husband 2 Likes |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by agbitaj(m): 5:41am On Aug 24, 2019 |
A lady should have sense.. the common sense LillyVal: |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by princfred(m): 5:43am On Aug 24, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:First I wouldn't want my wife working like a father hence I don't woe ladies with such jobs. Then did the man marry her to earn her own living (which may not even translate to our living) and be just a bed thing to him while he manages the household? If she wants to do both she can. Like mama or not is a different story after all is she not a mama? What is the difference between a woman who won't take responsibility of the domestic duties and a sex object? Or one who insist unless its shared with a man who insist on not paying rent unless its shared? If I marry such it will be a that she stays in her own house earning her own living I will marry another woman who knows how to be useful beyond earning her living then always visit for sex rump since that's mainly what you are willing to offer if you have a problem being domestically responsible. I no spend time, energy and money to marry just to come spend another time and energy dey drag who go cook today when their are lots of women that know their duty looking for husband abi na you dey shelter, cloth and feed me? What I can do is make your job easy by say buying household appliances like washing machine dish washer etc so it won't be too stressful to do domestic duties like mamas of old. 2 Likes |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Deepthoughts: 5:49am On Aug 24, 2019 |
LillyVal:Good character!. |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Phenomenal16(f): 5:56am On Aug 24, 2019 |
fcdgrand:...wowwwwwww......a virgin?? Interesting....... |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by XhosaNostra(f): 5:58am On Aug 24, 2019 |
princfred: Why can't you be domestically responsible too is all I'm asking? There're women out there who also won't marry a man that is useless with his hands. If you won't help her with house chores, then go change a lightbulb or fix a leaking tap like a man. Sex can't be the only thing you're offering either, when there're guys who're Jacks-of-all-trades. So basically, you can go fùck yourself if you expect to sit around doing nothing in a house you also live in. 2 Likes |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Emmycute30(m): 6:02am On Aug 24, 2019 |
To me, once a woman is beautiful, homely and loyal...i'll stand by her to achieve everything achievable. 1 Like |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by princfred(m): 6:05am On Aug 24, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Of course there are domestic responsibilities of a man like fixing bulbs etc and those were not the ones you were referring to when talking about working like "mama". Those mama job are still your job for which you were married and if they are beyond you then what's the difference if the man brought in a paid sex peddler regularly instead? She earns her own living too. And sex is not the only thing I'm providing when I'm providing shelter, food and clothing unless she insists on providing those too which is akin to her living on her own then we meet for sex now and then. Otherwise why should a man spend his time energy and money to marry only to end up wasting another energy dragging who will cook today with the wife. With white ladies were that is obtainable, its usually the woman who spends most time energy and money to marry and shelter the man. If you can't do that while not opting for the traditional way then thats selfish. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by ACE1010: 6:11am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Magnoliaa:
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Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Freedom234: 6:13am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Vagina and big breast. |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Ugosample(m): 6:15am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Magnoliaa:indeed for an empty head |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by ibawon(m): 6:20am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Nothing much most men believe they'll provide basic needs. Mostly a woman just have to be RESPECTFUL, PATIENT AND CONTENT. Then surely she will live a very peaceful and comfortable marriage life |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by XhosaNostra(f): 6:21am On Aug 24, 2019 |
princfred: I said help with house chores, I wasn't specific. Moreover, you can't be expecting someone to be all these wonderful things around the house for you, when I'm sure you don't come fully-equipped either. If you can't pick up a hammer & build something from scratch with your own two hands like a man, then fall back, because there's a man right now, somewhere, building a new coffee table for his home, while you're sitting on your heinie, daydreaming. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by princfred(m): 6:30am On Aug 24, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Like a man abi because that was always a Father's job. It's all too clear you were talking about sharing "Mama" job but since you want to obfuscate that I will let you be my point is all too livid already to be flogged and I'm sure you can get it if you want but goodluck with your quest for a man who will do a father's job and share " Mamas" job a house boy of a husband may suffice if hypergamy will allow you settle for that and also pay the price like white ladies do. ..................As if Mama's then were not earning a living yet doing their Mama's job without complaining.... ... Lazy feminists. No the man should build a kitchen (provide household appliances in modern time) and still be the part time cook because he is goat or dog abi and you are the one sheltering him. 2 Likes |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by XhosaNostra(f): 6:32am On Aug 24, 2019 |
princfred: Lol, did you know that "in the good old days" to this day, some schools still teach needlework + home economics to girls so they can grow up to be useful human beings. It doesn't stop there, they also teach woodwork + electrical studies so you also won't slump around being idle. The two go hand-in-hand. If she must cook etc, build her a kitchen to cook in or zip it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by XhosaNostra(f): 6:38am On Aug 24, 2019 |
princfred: I never said I'm looking for a houseboy because I'm capable of running a home. I earn my keep. Can you say the same about your efficiency with tools & doing a man's job? |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by liver123(m): 6:39am On Aug 24, 2019 |
She must have a functioning brain |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by micxwell(m): 6:41am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Glink2018:Being 'virtuous' sums it all up... |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by micxwell(m): 6:42am On Aug 24, 2019 |
12inchDickson:Lol |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Tripletimmy(m): 6:48am On Aug 24, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by Foodforthought: 6:52am On Aug 24, 2019 |
MannieA:You seem really triggered. Calm down. Some people don't take Nairaland seriously so they can comment anything...no man actually marries for sex alone. |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by BlueAir: 6:53am On Aug 24, 2019 |
truthsayer009:I hope u arent serious with this! I fit curse u for endangering my future |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by BlueAir: 6:55am On Aug 24, 2019 |
virgoquin:see what I'm reading from naija females this country is doomed indeed |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by princfred(m): 6:57am On Aug 24, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Now you are making a circus out of this. You are not looking for a houseboy but talk about Mamas job and sharing it with husband? Why not keep earning a living and expect you husband share mamas job with you? Or you want obfuscate your talk about Mama job no longer being for mamas abi na the gods you wan sharam with since you don't need a houseboy husband? I said a woman should be able to run a home you explicitly imply that Mamas job must be shared because a woman earns a living (as if mamas of old weren't earning a living and was still doing Mama job) only to start giving examples of non-Mamas job only to go further to insist you don't need a houseboy (Mamas job sharing) husband and you can run a home. How can you be this confused this early in the day? Go the traditional way if you can fully do oyibo way una no go hear see how you are confused now. Do you want a husband to share Mama job with since you earn a living or not? Well seems you've learnt a couple and come around so no need for further engagement as this thread is about what a woman's needs going into a marriage and you've just stated my point - not needing a houseboy (Mamas job sharing) husband and capable of running a home. Thanks |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by fait10(m): 6:58am On Aug 24, 2019 |
LillyVal:who told u a man must have a car before marriage rubbish 1 Like |
Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:01am On Aug 24, 2019 |
princfred: I asked you a simple question. Don't shuck & jive around it, to take away focus from your own inability to do the things you're supposed to be capable of doing as a man. Can you build a chair for us to sit on while I serve a home cooked meal? |
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