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Re: Advice Needed! by budaatum: 2:43pm On Aug 25, 2019
CyberWolf:
OP said he sent her funds in good faith.. That’s a fat lie. OP wanted to nack and got played by a smarter girl.
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Re: Advice Needed! by larryking540: 2:45pm On Aug 25, 2019
dude u are have been calling a teenager,wake up bro, it seems u didn't date much or ask girls out while in the university, cus u would have understood how they reason by now
Re: Advice Needed! by DenreleDave(m): 3:12pm On Aug 25, 2019
SouthSouth1914:

Go ahead as the bairdbrain you are!

Atleast be kind to me na.. Na Sunday we dey na
Re: Advice Needed! by BrainArk(m): 3:19pm On Aug 25, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Because this is a faceless forum doesn’t give you the right to jump at the slightest instance to insult. I do not move with your kind, and you can as well shove your advice down your ! Goodluck while doing that.
You be ode jor. you are not moved by her kind, yet you are fooling yourself with a girl of lower iq compare to her. the girl self dey type like underage, only God knows if the girl is a minor.
Re: Advice Needed! by BrainArk(m): 3:21pm On Aug 25, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Perhaps he's helping without wanting anything in return. Purest form of giving
and he is inviting her to his place, the man ozuor with low self-esteem.

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Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:23pm On Aug 25, 2019
BrainArk:

and he is inviting her to his place, the man ozuor with low self-esteem.
How? So men that are inviting ladies to their place got low self esteem?
Re: Advice Needed! by BrainArk(m): 3:32pm On Aug 25, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
How? So men that are inviting ladies to their place got low self esteem?
is only a guy with low self-esteem that will be begging a girl with money to come see him, he believes the girl can't see anything good in him and maybe he could win her attention with his money.

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Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 3:34pm On Aug 25, 2019
dogtails:
Bro please can u assist me with 10k,i need to purchase a post hnd form here in ph,I can pm u all the details u need,Will really appreciate anything u can send...The form is 25k tho but i have saved 15k already and its expiring on d 30th of this month...

Go ahead!
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 3:38pm On Aug 25, 2019
CyberWolf:
OP said he sent her funds in good faith.. That’s a fat lie. OP wanted to nack and got played by a smarter girl.

Lol.., dude we have been dating.., if I wanted to do anything, I could as well go to her.. I just haven’t been chanced. Please try and get details very well before commenting so you don’t sound like a clown. Cheers
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 3:40pm On Aug 25, 2019
BrainArk:

You be ode jor. you are not moved by her kind, yet you are fooling yourself with a girl of lower iq compare to her. the girl self dey type like underage, only God knows if the girl is a minor.

Can’t exchange words with you. Thanks for the comment
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 3:44pm On Aug 25, 2019
BrainArk:

is only a guy with low self-esteem that will be begging a girl with money to come see him, he believes the girl can't see anything good in him and maybe he could win her attention with his money.
Ok lipsrsealed
Re: Advice Needed! by CyberWolf: 4:56pm On Aug 25, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Lol.., dude we have been dating.., if I wanted to do anything, I could as well go to her.. I just haven’t been chanced. Please try and get details very well before commenting so you don’t sound like a clown. Cheers
Go and send the 20k and stop whining like a pig here

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Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 5:50pm On Aug 25, 2019
CyberWolf:
Go and send the 20k and stop whining like a pig here

You should stop bleating like a goat! I could spare you the 20k if want.
Re: Advice Needed! by united442(m): 7:45pm On Aug 25, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Lol.., dude we have been dating.., if I wanted to do anything, I could as well go to her.. I just haven’t been chanced. Please try and get details very well before commenting so you don’t sound like a clown. Cheers

hahahaha...nairaland guys ar laughing at you..

dude, i swear, you really do not know how stupid you aregrin

if you knw, you will laugh at urselfgrin

come here they form pro and big mangrin

nothing dey headgrin

hand go still meet you before you meet the right woman, enough milking and sucking will be done on you to restore your stupiditygrin
Re: Advice Needed! by nelklyn(m): 9:08pm On Aug 25, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Lol.., dude we have been dating.., if I wanted to do anything, I could as well go to her.. I just haven’t been chanced. Please try and get details very well before commenting so you don’t sound like a clown. Cheers

I beg to differ...the excerpt from your chat clearly states otherwise

"Oga
na wa too
Shuu
What do you expect me to say now?
U r dragging d matter.pls abeg.
Sorry sha
This one u r now ignoring....u 4 no text me na.Horr
Anyway....take care."


Chai some guys shocked ...smh grin
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 10:03pm On Aug 25, 2019
nelklyn:


I beg to differ...the excerpt from your chat clearly states otherwise

"Oga
na wa too
Shuu
What do you expect me to say now?
U r dragging d matter.pls abeg.
Sorry sha
This one u r now ignoring....u 4 no text me na.Horr
Anyway....take care."


Chai some guys shocked ...smh grin

For specifics, I know you will still disbelieve doubting Thomas.. cheers

Re: Advice Needed! by dogtails(m): 10:42pm On Aug 25, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Go ahead!
Can i have ur whatsapp number?? This is mine this
Re: Advice Needed! by nelklyn(m): 11:43pm On Aug 25, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


For specifics, I know you will still disbelieve doubting Thomas.. cheers

By all means Carry on wink
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 12:15am On Aug 26, 2019
nelklyn:


By all means Carry on wink

Not until you apologize
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 5:38pm On Aug 26, 2019
dogtails:
Bro please can u assist me with 10k,i need to purchase a post hnd form here in ph,I can pm u all the details u need,Will really appreciate anything u can send...The form is 25k tho but i have saved 15k already and its expiring on d 30th of this month...

Please send your details here. I’ll send you 10k, hopefully you can get the balance. Goodluck
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 5:41pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Ok lipsrsealed

Please send your details too, I want to send you a token if it’s okay! You have been exceptionally sensible.

Most Nairalanders commenting on this issue have had a poor sense of judgement and easily resort to insults which is totally unwarranted! Shame
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 6:01pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:
I am a guy in my 30’s, very comfortable and good looks. Met this girl couple of months ago at a business function at Asaba.., we chatted etc. Before going back to my base in Lagos, I gave her 20k to come and see me she agreed. Aside that, I have been sending her 10k, 5k non stop for plentora of things.. recharge cards, this and that..

Whenever I ask her to come see me, she will give one reason or the other which I normally brush off, but her financial demands remains constant. It got up to a point that I figured she is playing hard to get, I told her point blank that I won’t communicate again and she said okay! Only for her to send a message yesterday asking that I send her 20k. What do you think my NL brothers and sisters??
This is my advice: YOU ARE MAD!!!!
I don't believe these types of men abi na boy still exist.
Re: Advice Needed! by SouthSouth1914: 6:10pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
This is my advice: YOU ARE MAD!!!!
I don't believe these types of men abi na boy still exist.

Cheers
Re: Advice Needed! by dogtails(m): 6:32pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Please send your details here. I’ll send you 10k, hopefully you can get the balance. Goodluck
Tnx alot bro i appreciate 0170876039 gtb
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 26, 2019
SouthSouth1914:


Please send your details too, I want to send you a token if it’s okay! You have been exceptionally sensible.

Most Nairalanders commenting on this issue have had a poor sense of judgement and easily resort to insults which is totally unwarranted! Shame
I don't mind at all
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 8:08pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
This is my advice: YOU ARE MAD!!!!
I don't believe these types of men abi na boy still exist.
You just went overboard. You should know the exiltent men go to get what they want.
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 8:18pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
You just went overboard. You should know the exiltent men go to get what they want.
He's a guy, so he knows how guys relate with words. He understands. But that aside, you ladies can be frustrating sha.
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
He's a guy, so he knows how guys relate with words. He understands. But that aside, you ladies can be frustrating sha.
Necessary evil ryt cheesy.. You men too can bring out the evil in ladies. Afterall everyone started out as an innocent baby so what went wrong for some?
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 8:42pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Necessary evil ryt cheesy.. You men too can bring out the evil in ladies. Afterall everyone started out as an innocent baby so what went wrong for some?
baby , na una nature went wrong from the beginning of times. We guys are just receiving the cumulative effect of evil from u guys. U guys are normal when alone , but when u guys see men, abnormalities set in.
Finally, many of u guys don't truly love a man, but what he has!!

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Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 8:53pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
baby , na una nature went wrong from the beginning of times. We guys are just receiving the cumulative effect of evil from u guys. U guys are normal when alone , but when u guys see men, abnormalities set in.
Finally, many of u guys don't truly love a man, but what he has!!
Well, from time immemorial women are drawn to men who can care for them while men gravitate towards beautiful women who are fruitful. The degree of care may vary but thee care itself inspires true feelings and loyalty... Men mostly go for sex while the ladies use that as an advantage to go for money.... That's how it is in this society for now.
Re: Advice Needed! by Omega30(m): 9:01pm On Aug 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Well, from time immemorial women are drawn to men who can care for them while men gravitate towards beautiful women who are fruitful. The degree of care may vary but thee care itself inspires true feelings and loyalty... Men mostly go for sex while the ladies use that as an advantage to go for money.... That's how it is in this society for now.
Brilliant. However, you guys say u want care but don't really need it. For example, if I am dating you for the first time, both of us will be on our best behaviours. I will be treating you as my guardian angel, my knight in my shining armour.
The one that makes me see rainbow on a sunny day,
Your affection without reception is deception.....
Once, you know that Omega30 is in love with Awkaetitibabe, you start manipulating and taking advantage of me, is that fair? Why o why?
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 26, 2019
Omega30:
Brilliant. However, you guys say u want care but don't really need it. For example, if I am dating you for the first time, both of us will be on our best behaviours. I will be treating you as my guardian angel, my knight in my shining armour.
The one that makes me see rainbow on a sunny day,
Your affection without reception is deception.....
Once, you know that Omega30 is in love you start manipulating and taking advantage of me, is that fair? Why o why?


Don't be a puci when in love and love someone who loves and respect you.

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