I actually have a truthful feelings towards one of my female students infact my mindset is to support and guide her through her educational advancement.

How do I convey & convince this to her without thinking negativity & premising am only after taking advantage of her ? Most especially guiding against being rude & disrespectful to me after having divulge my intention.

Thoughts Preceed Actions (and God judges by this)

Mature Advice ONLY. Thks

Omar09:


You bonked her as planned? N did most importantly talked to her about how you want running things?

No, I didn't bonk her.

I took her for a night walk, and while we were doing some random discussions about personalities and how we both are improving on ourselves, she quickly told me that I'm too commanding for her liking. She said although she likes it, but now could I have commanded her to be my girlfriend? As in who says "be my girlfriend" and expect the girl to say yes? "Anyways, lemme not talk further, go work on yourself" she added.

I smiled in my mind cos I remember saying that, just like I remember also saying it in another way. I immediately understood that she was playing me. In her little mind, she has put me in that hanging position expecting me to still pick myself up and ask her out later. (I think she's used to it)

All my reply was "hmmm, really?"

As if nature was with me, it started drizzling which ensured that we took our discussions to a dry place. I then suggested that we go inside the car. (Trust me, I had it all planned. Had it not rained, I would have still said to go inside the car cos of cold. Lol)

Inside the car, we talked some cheap talks and then we started our usual smooch before we finally went inside the house.

I noticed that she had one suspicious call one time she was taking her bath. Also, she quickly grabbed her phone from my front when she thought I was going to reach for it.. (swears, it was not even in my mind cos the girl was flushed from my mind already). Very unlike her though.

I've made up my mind already and nothing does she know about it and little did she know that I was just willingly dancing to her song.

Ufedolove:


No, I didn't bonk her.

I took her for a night walk, and while we were doing some random discussions about personalities and how we both are improving on ourselves, she quickly told me that I'm too commanding for her liking. She said although she likes it, but now could I have commanded her to be my girlfriend? As in who says "be my girlfriend" and expect the girl to say yes? "Anyways, lemme not talk further, go work on yourself" she added.

I smiled in my mind cos I remember saying that, just like I remember also saying it in another way. I immediately understood that she was playing me. In her little mind, she has put me in that hanging position expecting me to still pick myself up and ask her out later. (I think she's used to it)

All my reply was "hmmm, really?"

As if nature was with me, it started drizzling which ensured that we took our discussions to a dry place. I then suggested that we go inside the car. (Trust me, I had it all planned. Had it not rained, I would have still said to go inside the car cos of cold. Lol)

Inside the car, we talked some cheap talks and then we started our usual smooch before we finally went inside the house.

I noticed that she had one suspicious call one time she was taking her bath. Also, she quickly grabbed her phone from my front when she thought I was going to reach for it.. (swears, it was not even in my mind cos the girl was flushed from my mind already). Very unlike her though.

I've made up my mind already and nothing does she know about it and little did she know that I was just willingly dancing to her song.

You guys didn't talk about your love life. Tell you what check my siggy for my number n let's chat there.

iPrevail:
Never trust a Nigerian lady below 30yrs.. Don't say I didn't tell you

Hmm,words, is happening to me now,i thought i could get them young.

StarScream95:
While going through my girlfriend phone days ago,I saw her taking pics with some ugly guys...She kept showing me more of them so as to get me jealous....I then told her if she was ever going to cheat on me she should do it with a handsome guy.....she collected her phone from me angrily n kept quiet after a while she gave me back the phone with a fine guy pic on it and ask if he is fine enough?
Wtfffffffffffff sister na joke o don't cheat o

Both of you are insecure. You because you were going through your girlfriend's phone like a magazine and your girl because she keeps showing you pictures of different men she takes selfies with.

dancok:
Hmm,words, is happening to me now,i thought i could get them young.

Yes, you can get plenty of them. Just don't "invest" in them wholeheartedly.

iRepNaija1:


Both of you are insecure. You because you were going through your girlfriend's phone like a magazine and your girl because she keeps showing you pictures of different men she takes selfies with.

Smh bro I carry her phone dey check pictures into boredom n now I'm insecure...
Very annoying comment

Apination:

What do you want us to do?

Fry beans maybe

Ufedolove:


No, I didn't bonk her.

I took her for a night walk, and while we were doing some random discussions about personalities and how we both are improving on ourselves, she quickly told me that I'm too commanding for her liking. She said although she likes it, but now could I have commanded her to be my girlfriend? As in who says "be my girlfriend" and expect the girl to say yes? "Anyways, lemme not talk further, go work on yourself" she added.

I smiled in my mind cos I remember saying that, just like I remember also saying it in another way. I immediately understood that she was playing me. In her little mind, she has put me in that hanging position expecting me to still pick myself up and ask her out later. (I think she's used to it)

All my reply was "hmmm, really?"

As if nature was with me, it started drizzling which ensured that we took our discussions to a dry place. I then suggested that we go inside the car. (Trust me, I had it all planned. Had it not rained, I would have still said to go inside the car cos of cold. Lol)

Inside the car, we talked some cheap talks and then we started our usual smooch before we finally went inside the house.

I noticed that she had one suspicious call one time she was taking her bath. Also, she quickly grabbed her phone from my front when she thought I was going to reach for it.. (swears, it was not even in my mind cos the girl was flushed from my mind already). Very unlike her though.

I've made up my mind already and nothing does she know about it and little did she know that I was just willingly dancing to her song.

This story just dey get d right seasonings

Omar09:



You guys didn't talk about your love life. Tell you what check my siggy for my number n let's chat there.

Hey I'm enjoying d gist too

iPrevail:
Never trust a Nigerian lady below 30yrs.. Don't say I didn't tell you

my brother,

NEVER TRUST A NIGERIAN WOMAN ALL YOUR LIFE

StarScream95:

Hey I'm enjoying d gist too

Let's do em here then.

Ufedolove:


No, I didn't bonk her.

I took her for a night walk, and while we were doing some random discussions about personalities and how we both are improving on ourselves, she quickly told me that I'm too commanding for her liking. She said although she likes it, but now could I have commanded her to be my girlfriend? As in who says "be my girlfriend" and expect the girl to say yes? "Anyways, lemme not talk further, go work on yourself" she added.

I smiled in my mind cos I remember saying that, just like I remember also saying it in another way. I immediately understood that she was playing me. In her little mind, she has put me in that hanging position expecting me to still pick myself up and ask her out later. (I think she's used to it)

All my reply was "hmmm, really?"

As if nature was with me, it started drizzling which ensured that we took our discussions to a dry place. I then suggested that we go inside the car. (Trust me, I had it all planned. Had it not rained, I would have still said to go inside the car cos of cold. Lol)

Inside the car, we talked some cheap talks and then we started our usual smooch before we finally went inside the house.

I noticed that she had one suspicious call one time she was taking her bath. Also, she quickly grabbed her phone from my front when she thought I was going to reach for it.. (swears, it was not even in my mind cos the girl was flushed from my mind already). Very unlike her though.

I've made up my mind already and nothing does she know about it and little did she know that I was just willingly dancing to her song.

Tell you what, let's do em here... Forget the WhatsApp thingy.

Omar09:


Let's do em here then.

So what happened earlier?

Omar09:


Tell you what, let's do em here... Forget the WhatsApp thingy.

Lol! Oya na

Ufedolove:
Lol! Oya na

You will call her on the phone, and ask here what you guys are doing. She'd tell you she doesn't know or she'd tell you, you guys are just friends. Then tell her plainly that you don't want friends. That if you want a friend, you'd buy a dog. Tell her you are not okay with it. She'd still tell you that you are not doing it right asking her out. Then tell her you are not gonna continue like that anymore. That it's better you both move on. N for Christ sake move on n let her be. You didn't get her pussy the first time, you won't get again. There are other pussies out there ready to be beeped.

StarScream95:

So what happened earlier?

Check this out. https://www.nairaland.com/5436088/where-did-go-wrong/2#82578453

StarScream95:

Smh bro I carry her phone dey check pictures into boredom n now I'm insecure...
Very annoying comment

The fact that you're bothered by my comment and chose to respond is more telling than anything else.