ashewoboy:


that is why I like you. wife material. you write in a subtle way. I wonder if you speak that way also.

Of course I do. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh and my hands typeth

Esthered:

Of course I do. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh and my hands typeth

esthered. nice then.

LordKO:
@OP

Discard her and look elsewhere for a sane woman - actually, you've been a slave to your longings all this while, strive and conquer yourself. She's both egoistic and egotistic, her kind of woman is a perfect definition of toxicity, irrespective of her financial standing, and she'll remain a toxic woman even if you're to assume her and all her lineage financial responsibilities.

And don't allow anyone to gloat and guilt trip you into thinking that there're no financially emancipated women who're independent and submissive - that's, if you're bent on marrying only a woman who's financially emancipated. Submissiveness is a product of good attribute (sane moral and psychological health), something small-minded women can't possess or give - the same way small-minded men can't possess or give love. It doesn't depend on richness or poverty - it's a product of class that money can't buy, the ethical class.

In fact, the more successful a sane woman (or man) is, the more ethically sound she'll become - it's only a small-minded woman who will become contentious in particular and more toxic in general after achieving little success. The real success isn't loud and toxic, it's humble and invigorating.

this is very sound...

Esthered:

Thay abound and the man can change or improve the mentality if he's not fine with it. If she ticks all the boxes except that, will you leave her for the one that may be putting up a show to secure your ring? If it were my brother that confided in me, I'll tell him to see how he can help influence her views on money in relationship and if it's to no avail and dangerous for the journey ahead, he can pull out.

Error u cannot change Adult that's the mistake people always make.
yes u cannot see any perfect woman,but there are obvious red flag you need to run from immidiatelly you see it cos it not goono change

bayulll011:


Error u cannot change Adult that's the mistake people always make.
yes u cannot see any perfect woman,but there are obvious red flag you need to run from immidiatelly you see it cos it not goono change

Okay

Lol!!!

toprealman:

Is she a banker? Does her name start with J?
Is she from Imo state?

Peaceagain:

Lol!!!

I'm serious ooo

pocohantas:
I don't know where everyone is telling the OP to run to. I thought I always read here that Nigerian women are wired like that- to be fully dependent on men irrespective of their earnings.

So, where exactly is he running to?
To another dependent Nigerian woman?
Or a foreigner?

Biko marry her. Isn't she submissive, homely and non-feminist?

Nice statement my dear, you have seen a dependent and submissive woman so stay with her....simple