MOBO444:

^^^ Your words tell me your heart, you a strong hearted black woman.

Yorisb:

I'd berra remain silent, Master!

saridon_p:

The best thing about having a beautiful white girlfriend is that she is ready to earn her own income and She need nothing from you except to love her and be around for her whenever she needs you.My girlfriend is white and I feel more relax for the first time in my life in a relationship.You also have to know that I earn more than her and somehow have more needs than her but she just dont give a damn about my money.I always pay the bills when we go out,even now that we are living together,I also pay the rent but she try to make me understand that she need to contribute but I didnt allow it and I gave the usual African culture thing.But she is not asking for money to shop from me or to give to her parents,she never talk about any problem that needs money.Believe me if you can find a girl that is not demanding any money from you except love,you will have some relief in your life!Maybe not all but it is very hard to cope with most black women!If you found one that is less demanding and self reliant then cherich her whether black or white.

saridon_p:

The best thing about having a beautiful white girlfriend is that she is ready to earn her own income and She need nothing from you except to love her and be around for her whenever she needs you.My girlfriend is white and I feel more relax for the first time in my life in a relationship.You also have to know that I earn more than her and somehow have more needs than her but she just dont give a damn about my money.I always pay the bills when we go out,even now that we are living together,I also pay the rent but she try to make me understand that she need to contribute but I didnt allow it and I gave the usual African culture thing.But she is not asking for money to shop from me or to give to her parents,she never talk about any problem that needs money.Believe me if you can find a girl that is not demanding any money from you except love,you will have some relief in your life!Maybe not all but it is very hard to cope with most black women[b]!If you found one that is less demanding and self reliant then cherich her whether black or white.[/b]

MzDarkSkin:

Pretty pathetic when black men, especially African men, have white women and believe they have a prize. If you are honestly going to tell me there are hardly any down to Earth BW then you are delusional.

I love Christmas; has nothing to do with any girl nor woman

yunafa:

any man who feeds on a woman is a ''GIGOLO''. I don't care if the white pieces of trash spend all their parents pounds on u black naija man. i hope u know the reason why they spend on u black men, it is mainly for sexual favors and gratifications!!!!!!!!!! ThankGod, we the black naija women have extremely rich naija men who can still take care of us not minding if sex is involved or not!!!!!!!!!

i hope u know the reason why they spend on u black men, it is mainly for sexual favors and gratifications!!!!!!!!!!

tpia@:




one lady who was scammed even said her black guy wasnt that good in bed.

see the story here:


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-546834.0.html



maybe she was wrong?

Ranoscky:

I 'somehow' disagree.

I believe they have a prize b'cos, when datin a white gurl, both of them knows that the bills are 50/50 (unless the Naija guy decides to pay for all the bills as a normal Naija culture just like what Saridon quoted). But in Nigeria, the man does all the billins. The other way round, Nigerian gurls are far more better than white gurls interms of behaviour. Sometimes, when those white gurls starts actin shaddy and you try to talk sense into them, they'll go 'Gaga' and turn it to something else, feelin like they can never be wrong but ALWAYS RIGHT !!! 

MzDarkSkin:

@SaridonP you should go jerk yourself how about that. Simple task. If you need Vaseline I can supply you. I am not Nigerian btw so your "exclusion" tone is an epic fail. I dont get when you I.R. dating folks cry "accept us" but then feel the need to put down the opposite gender of your own race. If it is your thing, then so be it. Be happy but keep the bullschit out of it. ShyOne ONLY agreed with your LAST line, so don't get too happy. Again, do you need Vaseline? Good. When you are done chuck off a bridge.

And I WOULD respect your point of view if I understood it clearly. I mean you stated you see white women as a prize because they help pay bills unless the Naija men decide to pay them all. So then you say in Nigeria is it normal for the man to pay the bills so I am asking you if it is "normal" wtf makes it more worth the while to pay bills for Ivory but have an issue with doing so for Ebony? Surely you are more educated and sensible than SaridonP. & surely you are equipped with enough sense to know not all black women are shallow. Am I right?

I am definitely not shallow. Honestly any man that I have dated can attest, declare and TESTIFY that I tend to their EVERY wishes and I believe in staying in my place in the relationship. I am one sister who cooks, cleans, caters to her man and asks if more is needed, not to mention I am willing to contribute financially. Black women like myself (whether African, A.American, Afro.Latin, Caribbean; etc) are NOT hard to find. We are not aliens and should not be put in the shadows for the others who are selfish and sad mistakes for women. Nor should we be dismissed to justify lusts for non-blacks. If white is your choice then be proud but do not blame "attitudes of sistas" for your preference because it has already been internationally established as bullschit.

This also goes for the black women who refuse to date black men because they are "lazy, broke and sorry" (<--that bull of an excuse is VERY popular in the States). I know ALOT of hard working and respectable black men, I wouldn't stand for them to be disrespected as an excuse to date I.R. either! I am not prejudiced, I am just no-nonsense. Do not disregard or accuse ALL for the actions of some. SaridonP is an ignorant man. His first line explains his view on the issue ALONE. "Best part about having a beautiful white girl blah blah", not to mention the garbage that followed about black women, and tried to patch it up with the last line. Puhlease! HE brought race up in the issue indicating his ignorant shared views with the OP of black women, which I am one of. I do not rate such a man.

MzDarkSkin:

And I WOULD respect your point of view if I understood it clearly. I mean you stated you see white women as a prize because THEY HELP PAY THE BILLS unless the Naija men decide to pay them all. So then you say in Nigeria is it normal for the man to pay the bills so I am asking you if it is "normal" wtf makes it more worth the while to pay bills for Ivory but have an issue with doing so for Ebony? Surely you are more educated and sensible than SaridonP. & surely you are equipped with enough sense to know not all black women are shallow. Am I right?

Ranoscky:

Ermm. . .Sorry, I stand to correct the capital lettered line above (the one I myself highlighted). i said, and i qoute: "when datin a white gurl, BOTH OF THEM KNOWS THAT THE BILLS ARE 50/50" (and thats the only prize i meant when datin a white lady and nottin else). And YES, you'r right, not all black women are shallow minded, infact, I love black women more than white women!!!

saridon_p:

@MZDARKSKIN,I dont know why you are so bitter about my post.My opinion is obviously from my own personal experience and if you can read from couple of other posts,no one is saying that all white girls are good because there are horrible ones too among them,only the horrible ones among them wont hide their attitudes.But among Nigerians girls especially,the ones that I had experienced concentrate more on what the man can do for them than what they can both do together as couples.I also make it clear that there are more pressurre dating a Nigerian which mostly comes from financial demands e.t.c which as a result of the kind of background that we have.I have not said anything bad to deserve your horrible insult.But you have to know that we have good girls too but not much and if anyone found a good Nigerian girl that is ready to concentrate more on the romantic side of their relationship,then you must love and adore such a girl.Only assholes jerk themselves,You should go s-cr-ew yourself if you find it hard to convey a sensible post.

That's not what you said yesterday but oh well. I said what I needed to say. I do not hate you but you were MORE than deserving of my reply, had I not said anything you would not have clarified but unfortunately for you, the right black woman read your post in depth and it was NOT called for. As for screwing myself I have a man so I don't need to ciao!