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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Naanlong01: 9:31pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
ornicus: Thank you for your contribution sir. Of course am not planning to marry now neither will i continue to earn same amount till the next two years, remember its business and not salary. My question is, to the married men, how much was their monthly saving before going into marriage. And if you are yet to marry, how much would you advise to be my target? Thanks 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Youngzedd(m): 9:31pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
9jayes: Even in my village you can't get this your 35k. 3 bedroom apartment in Onitsha, Anambra state ranges from 180,000 - 360,000 NGN per annum. In Onitsha, you can barely see face me I face you for 35k per annum. 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by bonnyhope: 9:31pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Naanlong01: Educate your kids in Lag?? Not a good plan, private schools fee in lag are on the high side. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Youngzedd(m): 9:32pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
xcelentattitude: Religion is man's attempt to manage his confusion about God>>>>>>Christianity is not a religion, has never been and will never be>>>> It is a revelation; an experience from the Holy Spirit! ¶¶¶¶ life is spiritual, therefore I must be spiritual. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 9:37pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Naanlong01: Maybe because I am/was salaried, I do not think of saving towards marriage. Rather, I would say your income should reach a level. Your marriage is not a one off. It is a revolving expense. In 2003, I was earning 29k. I did not get married. In 2005, I was earning 50k . I did not get married. I then got a job paying. 150k, and I was married in 6 months. If course one can still lose a job, I do not look at marriage, which should last a life time, and which will ideally yield kids as something you save towards. Maybe I’m wrong. 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by bonnyhope: 9:37pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
ekestic1976: Our God is a wonderful God You are eating today not because you are wise not to pay tithe/offering but is because of the mercy of God 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by nanizle(m): 9:37pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Naanlong01: Why do you pay tithe? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by franchasng: 9:39pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Casalinda:Tell them 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 9:40pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
pocohantas: It's not the right time 2 Likes
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Jh0wsef(m): 9:40pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by YorubaPrince: 9:42pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by bigpicture001: 9:43pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Op..du u know that ur certificate can earn u 150k monthly job...? That if u know ur education decipline well enough....many times we rush to enterprenuershio even when we dont need it My take is dat...enterprenuer ship might b a very long road to no good end atyms..it only givs the self satisfaction that you dont anseer to anyone...but dt not what you need..instead, u need money.... Try and look for better job whilst u still huzle..if u get one..dump d huzle cuz earnibg and stress is too much on it... from ur wages...save! And then mayb u could try ur hand later on enterprenuership later 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by omotola90(m): 9:50pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Bbbwings: 9:50pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Self con where I dey na 115k 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Bbbwings: 9:51pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
nanizle:Help me ask am o. Inside life 30k for this Buhari economy 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Naanlong01: 9:52pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
ornicus:I get your point now, thank you sir. |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by MrHistorian: 10:00pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
What will marriage offer you that bachelorship can't? I seriously need to know! LOL. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by loswhite(m): 10:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
metrosexual:lol you make it sound like it is marriage that is the cause of the suffering...well if you must also know most single folks are also suffering too 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Grupo(m): 10:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
wristbangle: He has been tithing yet earns 30k a month. Many of us don't tithe, don't even believe in your God yet we earn that 30k in a day most times. So where is the blessing? Only an ultra foolish African believes that handing his money over to a 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Edusouls(m): 10:03pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
You still have a long way to go, and lots of work, maturity and experience to acquire, so stop thinking about marriage now... 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by iammolise(m): 10:04pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Seanteewhy: U're not serious at all |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by loswhite(m): 10:09pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
It seems everyone on nairaland leaves in Lagos...the way you all are screaming 50k for rent...lol. ppl are leaving happily in very good apartment for 50k and you all are screaming...smh... obviously most ppl don't travel to experience other environment 6 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by kollinz1234(m): 10:11pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
franchasng:lol u speak from a realist point of view, I understand. Money is good, but money doesn't save marriage. That is the mistake millions are making, that is why billionaires, millionaires etc are still divorcing. "He who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. If wait till u are 40 and u still don't make the money (from ur own view) how will u take care of ur kids when they are 20 and u are 60 and ur streght dwindled. Ur biggest mistake will be to wait till u make money and then end up not getting the money and getting married late. At that stage, its even better not to get married or have kids because they will become nuisance to the society. 5 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by stunningjudy(f): 10:12pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
9jayes: Where in anambra? 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by iammolise(m): 10:13pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Life is live and let live... We as men just worry too much about everything, carry too much weight on our shoulders every gadam minute of our lives. if I would give my advice on this is that u should just find a good girl ready to work things through with u hand in hand... Urs is better now, Shabi u still see 30k save. 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by loswhite(m): 10:13pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
gurunlocker:travel and educate yourself... Alot of cities In Nigeria you will get good 2 bedroom flat for less than 50k a month 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by loswhite(m): 10:14pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Youngzedd:are you referring to per annum or per month? |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Petjnr: 10:15pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
After making all ur savings...will mone saved gurantee u a good wife?...ur money bcome useless wen u marry 7the wrong person u7 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by loswhite(m): 10:15pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Bbbwings:per month? |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 10:16pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Small-mindedness. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by loswhite(m): 10:16pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Grupo:you can't even read...lol. he saves 30k not earn 30k per month 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Sirmuel1(m): 10:17pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
9jayes: Sounds strange. How much be self con for the same area for Katina The cheapest 3Bedroom I've seen so far is 80k 2 Likes |
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