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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by SendAbroad: 9:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Okay |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Munzy14(m): 9:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
nice thread... |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Blogfarms: 9:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Please tell me where you live.... If you are in Lagos, it's possible but it has to be face me I face you, where they pay 2500/month My candid advice no matter where you stay is 1. Double or tripling your current savings is the way forward 2. Multiple source of income will help you 3. Marry a lady that brings something to the table Marriage no be beans o Don't be pushed, do it at your own ease Pampers cost o Baby food is gold Hustle first, don't let your children curse you 9 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 9:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Worry about climate change |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Solsix(m): 9:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Most importantly marry someone who has something doing or who has dream and it's working towards or better still marry a woman who will support your dreams, because even if you save I billion a wrong woman will bring you down. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by vickydevoka(m): 9:01pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
U must be staying in kaduna, jos or nasarawa keffi 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Getting married is beautiful and it comes with it own little blessings. But I dnt feel it will be nice settling down with your present income. Well it depend on your location, because it seem accommodations at your location seem cheap and affordable. But dnt settle down yet. Give your self a little more time to grow financially I and I do not support people who bring in kids into this world and are not able to meet those kids needs Wish you all the best and pray you succeed 6 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by BornToSucced(m): 9:03pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
I am 30 and seriously looking forward to settling down now and next year.......no babe, lol. I think you’re on track. My piece of advice in the mean time: 1. Develop yourself. Learn a good skill, not paper qualification. 2. Save and invest wisely. 3. Take care of your family When you’re ready to marry, please go for a working class lady .....don’t even date any lady that aint working, otherwise, you will compound your struggle. About me: I live and work in Lagos. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by MiniImportation: 9:03pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
that's a wonderful plan bro |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by isholak21(m): 9:04pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
all these u must acquire this acquire that b4 u get married are bullshit.. do ur best and leave d rest to God... 6 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by quinnboy: 9:04pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
OP....hope you'll get a woman that share your dream and aspiration in life. You need a helper as you are on the right track already. Wish you all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by dhoney007: 9:06pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Jh0wsef: These are lovely! please I will love to learn how can you help me �� |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by pussyAvenger: 9:06pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Nonsense!... find lady wey get her own money too If she do strong head later because of her money, kick her away... don't kill yourself o 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
What's the fuss about? Some people don't have half of what you have and are happily married. Pray God gives you a good woman! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Ijawwomaninoyo: 9:07pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Ok 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by pocohantas(f): 9:07pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Go and marry biko. I am sure money is not your problem. You are busy screening women upandan. 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by faithfull18(f): 9:08pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
9jayes:Is this a joke 4 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by wristbangle: 9:09pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
ekestic1976: Naanlong1, please ignore this statement. There is blessing when you are a tither as it paves way when situation becomes tough 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Zombiekiller010: 9:09pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Pentools:1k likes for this 4 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by abukuru(m): 9:12pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Space booked |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by franchasng: 9:12pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
kollinz1234:This is why black African nations, especially Nigeria is so backward and poverty infested the way it is today....it is this stupid mentality of marrying with the hope of getting lucky even without plans. Don't plan your life on luck, if not, life will teach you a sad lesson, be careful.....have a defined goal and financial plan/stability before you go into marriage if not, you will likely be producing children that will continue with the black African nation rat race of struggling to survive everyday and migrating to anywhere they hear about just to make ends meet, be warned! Marriage is not compulsory if you as the man and your would-be wife are not financially okay to take care of a happy home 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 9:13pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Naanlong01: I cannot advise you to marry on those earnings. I say this because even if you do not plan on having children, unless you and your wife use condoms every single time, you may find your self with a child in short order. That money cannot even cover diapers , much less baby clothes, baby food, wipes etc. and it is all uphill from there. You will rapidly become frustrated and miserable. Unless your hustle brings in significant income, I can’t advise it. Don’t believe all that story of you can live on 30k per month. You will be barely subsisting, and you and your wife will grow old fast 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Smile4mee01: 9:13pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Brother... Listen... You are a good man with a good heart. I am the only male child as well... Many unsuccessful men today are what they are because they assumed responsibilities that is not thiers. Why do u feel prompted to settle your sisters and mum. Bro... Survive.first, grow and flourish. Then seek out what you can do to help your family not at your detriment. Be careful with women bro. Dont be in a hurry.... regardless of how good it looks man. It's still a risk. You could either turn out better or worse. Just go MGTOW. 19 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by 2kurupt(m): 9:16pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
50k for a 2 bedroom apartment 12k annual shop rent What location are you @ OP 11 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by jaxxy(m): 9:17pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Take ur time, make solid plans and find a good gal who understands. |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Youngzedd(m): 9:20pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
ekestic1976: Suffer no dey tire him Instead of him to save his money and get a good life. OP, you need to start dreaming like a man. Just get out from your location, go out and take a walk around a developed area. If what you see doesn't motivate you, then your matter will be needing general beating. Don't enter marriage with such peanut, those who are advising you won't be there to feed you tomorrow. Get a good life first then talk about marriage. I wish you success in all your LEGIT endeavours. 8 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by michaellovaldo(m): 9:22pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Seanteewhy:Guy u wicked die 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Cutehector(m): 9:24pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
kollinz1234:pls come to Niger state, and see for yourself 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by MusaDanladi1: 9:24pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
2kurupt:Me sef dey wonder.. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by xcelentattitude(m): 9:26pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
9jayes: And I am paying 70k here for one room. 6 Likes
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by xcelentattitude(m): 9:28pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Youngzedd: *Clap for yourself* If I may ask what is your definition of a good life? I suppose you're leading a good life right now and it's because you aren't paying your tithe and offering right? 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by gurunlocker: 9:28pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Did you say 50k for 2 bedroom flat? I want to know your village o.... 2 Likes |
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