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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by gurunlocker: 10:19pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
loswhite: What's this one saying? What amenities will you get in a 50k 2bd house? How many states have you visited? Maybe you will see that in the North... That 50K is an Agent fee on a 2bd flat. 3 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Youngzedd(m): 10:23pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
loswhite: Per annum. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Grupo(m): 10:28pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
loswhite: What's the difference? That's still peanuts. If he adds the 10k or so he gives to a fraudster called pastor, it would make a lot of difference. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by jlomz: 10:35pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
9jayes:Bros are you serious? 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Bbbwings: 10:43pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
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Re: Before You Marry As A Man by millionboi2: 10:58pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Blogfarms:hahaha....if Pampers cost,condom cheap |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by yomi007k(m): 11:09pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
xcelentattitude:u need migrate. |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Sagay212: 11:10pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
So long as you don't live on Lagos, abuja or any expensive city. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Jhamzy(m): 11:25pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Bro calm down. If not anybody at least he has to take care of his mom at his own capacity per time. Smile4mee01: |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by kelvindj98: 11:30pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Grupo:Africans are dumb. They believe that God will bless them miraculously yet their pastors require their donations to survive. Why doesn't God miraculously provide for the Pastor's need, why should the congregration do it. They go to their pastors for healing, yet the Pastors that pray for them travel out for medical care. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by ugonna1054(m): 11:46pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
kollinz1234:tf you saying bruh If you like, don't go and work your ass to make a living, be yarning trash, God ll come down and put the money in your hands. Y'all really need to see this video so you stop having mindset like this man right here https://twitter.com/PhilipObin/status/1186756829575028737?s=19 @op, Honestly speaking, i think you are limiting yourself.... C'mon, doubling your 30k savings to 60k per month by next year ending .... Like someone said before, you probably need to leave your current environment, or change the kind of people you roll with. "You can only achieve as far as you can think" Always aim for the best, if you don't get the best, you'd get the better, if not you'd get the good. Set challenging AND realistic goals mehn, I am not up to your age, you are way older and one goal that i have in my mind is that i never want to live in a rented apartment... I want to build/buy a house; for this to happen i know roughly how much i should expect to be making/saving to achieve that goal Although our goals in life will definitely differ, one sure common thing is that people will always want the best out of Life.. The point is, it's not about wanting it, it's more of doing your possible best to make that want or need as the case maybe a reality!! So how does 120k per month savings by the end of next year sounds?? P.S. These are just my opinions, you don't necessarily have to follow them 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by toplinetrtrend: 11:52pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Naanlong01: In which village do they get 2 bedroom flat for 50k? 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by kollinz1234(m): 11:55pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
ugonna1054:ur reasoning is far below what's worth answering u |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Vega100: 12:05am On Nov 07, 2019 |
ekestic1976:I stopped reading the rubbish when I saw that. Very u serious human being 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by GOOOGLE504(m): 12:23am On Nov 07, 2019 |
[/size][size=8pt] Acidosis:A practical situation of reaching for the Sun and if eventually failing will land among the stars. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by GOOOGLE504(m): 12:28am On Nov 07, 2019 |
Vega100: Yea I blame the OP for giving us the unnecessary tithe information. If you don't believe in tithing and think God is a money doubler you may be doing it wrong. |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by ehinmowo: 12:37am On Nov 07, 2019 |
kollinz1234: Smiling. Never say never. I saw a 2 bedroom flat in Shendam, Plateau State in 2017 for 55k. The flat has not been occupied since it was built because the neighbors felt it was kind of expensive. Note: I am almost sure I was the only "none indigen" that knew this. Because at the Federal low-cost (can't remember the spelling now), in the same Shendam, a self contained was around 70k. By the way, the flat was like about 15 minutes ride from the Local government Secretariat. I knew this because i mingled with the indigenes there. But before you say it's cheap, Shendam is a place where a married graduate receives 15k as a salary working as a teacher. It's either you do that or you farm or do some small businesses like barbing salon, food selling etc. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by stagger: 1:16am On Nov 07, 2019 |
I invested 97,000 into a crypto trade and earned 400,000 in 3 days. Am I saying you should do Cryptos? No! (I studied this market and know it well enough to pull off trades like this). You can do other things. I recently heard of a student who made N68m from mini importation in Buhari's own Nigeria. A student! OP, I suggest you read this book: The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco. It will help you think big. Saving is for dummies and is old school. What you need is to learn how to make money on demand. 4 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by InvertedHammer: 1:29am On Nov 07, 2019 |
Naanlong01:/ I have serious doubt that you will ever make it in life. But then...I could be wrong. / 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 2:08am On Nov 07, 2019 |
stagger: You should be a Billionaire by now, don't you think? |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by abelwealth(m): 2:37am On Nov 07, 2019 |
kollinz1234:oga u wicked, u are stingy. Put a smile on ur parent face first.! Marriage involves money..use it on dem first,so dat wen u talk abt marriage everyone will b happy. 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by CsRockefeller(m): 3:05am On Nov 07, 2019 |
ehinmowo: You are telling the truth Sir. Served in Jos and later had a vacation at Shendam |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by mcayomind: 4:12am On Nov 07, 2019 |
marriage is different from relationship, @29 you should've had a companion cos you cant just jump into marriage just like you want to buy a pack of sweet..... on your financial situation , 30k monthly expectations is not enough considering you're on a monthly budget out of the 30k. families, church, owanbe, shelters and food... all I could advice you is to look for a way to expand your business, join thrift meeting around you like market day meeting , or weekday meeting, 2000 every market day is 200k a year... at that you can borrow money to expand your business or wait till the meeting is over collect your money and venture into another businesses after all many ways enter a market.... through that you will definitely overcome the hustling..... N.B the most important is that at 29 you should've had a girlfriend, marriage is not a something you can just into anytime you so wish 1 Like |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by MisterKings(m): 4:24am On Nov 07, 2019 |
Naanlong01: This might help. I got married earning 50k. Out of that 50k, I had 15k to myself after expenses. Including feeding, transportation, house rent and tithe. I proposed with 6k in my account and living in my mother's apartment which I pay for after my dad's death. I started planning wedding 1year in advance with the coins I had and my gf then now my wife supported me with all she had. I prayed and fasted for about a month and Next thing I got a better job paying me more . I got support for my wedding and got my apartment 3 days to my wedding day. When it comes to marriage. For some reason it just seems like that is the prayer God likes to answer. If you get the right woman and she is willing to stand by you. Just jump in the ocean if you don't know how to swim and you will get a life boat somehow. It is not the smartest thing to do, I know but sometimes faith is all you need. Years ago I said to myself. I will never marry till I have 30 billion for account. But I noticed life does not work that way. You go plan everything finish and in the end things will go awry. In your case you still have a couple of years to plan. But when you see the right woman don't let your over planning get in the way. Just an advise. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by jeff1607(m): 4:32am On Nov 07, 2019 |
buy land and build your house no matter how small. all the money saved can finish just looking for a wife, courting a lady in Nigeria will gulp up half or more of your savings and pray you marry a good woman who has the same dreams as you, because if you don't nothing you can do to grow |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by MiddleDimension: 5:05am On Nov 07, 2019 |
Youngzedd: that's exactly what christianity is, a RELIGION! the story oc christianity started with a confused attempt to explain the existence of man and the suffering he has around him. so christianity made the poor theory that a god formed man in absokute bliss and then he fell therefore a redemption by a scape goat, Jesus Christ is needed so that those who believe in him might have eternal life. all of which is complete confusion and absolute falsehood! it is so funny how christians of today make failed attemps to try to remove christianity from the list of world religions simply because the word ''religion'' has got a negative conotation. 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by MiddleDimension: 5:25am On Nov 07, 2019 |
ornicus: your supposed progression is hardly an increament. by how much did your disposable income increase as you 'progressed'? i believe there is hardly an increment! the measure of one's financial freedom and stability is in the amountvof disposable income they have |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by MrJonny(m): 5:27am On Nov 07, 2019 |
GeneralPula: Wetin dey to rock about talk? |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 5:36am On Nov 07, 2019 |
MiddleDimension: please keep your foolish entrepreneur PS to yourself. unfortunately, in your empty bid to appear intelligent, you assumed that my salary would remain static going forward. |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by chieme123(m): 5:42am On Nov 07, 2019 |
faithfull18: Maybe its per month |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Nobody: 5:57am On Nov 07, 2019 |
kollinz1234: Don't say that money don't save marriage. It does. Infact, marriage can't survive without money. That billionnaire divorce is strictly their personal and individual differences not because of money. There are equally many billionaires that are in happy marriages. But most of the time a poor man divorced, its mainly because of money problem. No money for food, he don't take care of me, children are out of school, all he does is climb me everyday cos he is jobless, she is a liability etc. All these because there is no money. U only fantasize about the life I want. If a man is comfortable at a certain point in his life, don't care to expand or look for more opportunities to better his life as a single dude, I will be miles away from such person. The same is applicable to woman. U can't live a successful.life without money. Even the oyibos that have everything virtually handed down to them free still struggle to make money to ease out on most life's problems. But,a man who isn't afraid of expanding even at 50k a month is a very good marriage candidate anywhere in the world. 2 Likes |
Re: Before You Marry As A Man by Naanlong01: 6:02am On Nov 07, 2019 |
InvertedHammer: Of course you are wrong. Because its not your word nor anybody's that will make me stop tithing. For your information, even if my earning is #1000 sir, i will still pay my tithe of #100. Thank you. 1 Like |
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