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| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Renegadefrank(m): 9:53pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
The fact that you still talk to him says a lot about your tolerance of name calling from your ex. That relationship was toxic, cut all contact with him. Yes, you loved him and maybe, he did you as well; the fact remains that he disrespected you with the name calling. You tolerating it speaks volumes about your self esteem Break the cycle of toxicity pls and let the nigga go. He must learn human respect and the consequences of taking loved ones for granted. You, for your part, need to love yourself more, build your self esteem and confidence in yourself. Focus on this present relationship and the good part of it. The new isn't your ex, stop comparing and give him a chance. If not, every relationship you have will always have problems of abuse and toxicity. (Not that there are perfect relationships sef) All in all, work on your self and dump the ex, ( the nigga is as toxic as he is annoyingly misogynistic). If the new guy doesn't take you back, know it's your fault because you weren't ready. If he does, focus on both your growth as a couple because communication with the ex is disrespectful to the new guy as it is annoying. Put your self in his shoes and imagine you were him. Besides, your actions are just pulling you back. Finally, if the new guy leaves, build your confidence and self esteem so you know who you are and what you deserve before going into another relationship. Best wishes 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by webngnews: 9:55pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Move of course |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by jaxxy(m): 9:58pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214: I think u need to take a complete break from dating and find ur worth!!!! A guy embarrasses and disgraces u everytime in public for no reason and u say he’s is good? Yes he is good maybe bt definitely mot to u. I look at actions not words and the good shud outweigh the bad. A dilemma isn’t a great place to be u need to know ur Value 1st cod I think putting up with the verbal abuse from ur ex has made u loose sight of urself. Then secondly know what u want and what is good or best for u. People have flaws not for their partners to tolerate their nuisance bt to be sensible to work on them selves and be better people. Anyone who can’t work on his or her flaws to an acceptable point isn’t ready to date anyone. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by ZooOga: 10:02pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
mumu gets insulted and called a prostitute in public and she still loves him na. we know what u miss.  1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by boomssey(f): 10:03pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214:seriously girl u don't know what you want. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by zeedof(m): 10:06pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
In a nutshell, two people have legally sample you while there some illegal people too... This life inside life |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Xisnin(m): 10:14pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214:Don't be confused. This has nothing to do with love, people who love each other breaks up every now and then and move on. If you go back to your ex, you can never leave again and he will treat you worse than a slave when he discovers that you are too weak to find another. You are supposedly in a relationship yet you update your ex about everything going on in your life and you blame "love". The truth is that you don't want to move on. I wonder why you broke up with the good guy in the first place even though you didn't tell us what makes him a good guy. I guess your new boyfriend couldn't match up to some of his resources. My advice is that you quit all relationships until you are mature enough. Take 2 to 3 years break. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Mydazz(m): 10:16pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
The only detail missing here is "How is the Sex",......... Women can complain about a million things when the only majoreason problem is the Sex 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by abbiboy: 10:17pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214:U dont need advice then,select wich eva that suits ur taste. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by osazsky(m): 10:23pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Y not make a sex video of u and ur ex knocking, then make another video of u and ur new guy knacking we want to see the one dat knacked better so that we can now advise u to choose one or be servicing both ashawo,greedy one for that matter 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by abbiboy: 10:30pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
PopeFlatino:U ave seen maga abi,y cover d name ur help line is long like river Mississippi..otondo! |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by abbiboy: 10:38pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
daviesmania:Speak for ursef...a weak link. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by PopeFlatino(m): 10:43pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Bro did u request for d uncovered result privately and I said No?.. please don't joke with everything abbiboy: |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by abbiboy: 10:44pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214:Like dey said op DIckology has destroyed ur mental capacity to think straight..u re just speaking grammar enjoy d fuckery why it last n las las u will be fine. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Homguy(m): 10:48pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214:so why are you bothering us if he's a good guy.? |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Emmytrill(m): 10:48pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
'My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws' Aunty wey mumu.  |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by efeski(m): 10:49pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Okafor's law at play folks 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Toks2008(m): 10:49pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214: You are indeed very confused. Your case can be likened to someone who is given a bony meat to eat and you complain that it is full of bones so you can't eat it..they asked you to throw it away but you turned around to say it has some meat. Sorry you need to help yourself...all the best. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Banter1(m): 10:50pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
I need a girlfriend |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Nobody: 10:53pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214: the first rule when you break up is to give yourself time to get over the other person before you get into another relationship. probably the only reason you are with this new guy is to use him to get over the first guy. whatever the case may be, you need to cut off all contacts with that first guy. no, he isn't a good guy. have you ever heard of domestic violence before? this is how it starts. he doesn't respect you otherwise he'll never insult you or shout at you in the presence of others or in public. this is just a step from when he'll start to beat you. you guys are not yet married o, just dating now. this is the time both of you are supposed to put up your best behaviour for each other, yet he's abusing and torturing you psychologically, which may eventually degenerate to physical abuse. first thing, delete all his contact that you have. block him everywhere blockable, facebook, instagram, twitter, 2go, whatsapp, IMO, everywhere. use true caller to block his calls and sms. you may need to change your number. remove little mementos that remind you of him, like the gifts he bought for you during your birthday, like the songs that remind you of him. do your utmost best to avoid him as if he's got Ebola. tell your family you guys are no longer together and they should not remind you of him anymore. if he comes to your house to look for you, they should tell him to leave you alone. then finally, don't go back to the second guy. you don't love him. that's the truth. now, give yourself time to heal from the wound. this is the time to hang out more with your girlfriends. don't get in a relationship for another 8-12 months. all the best. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by RealityShot: 10:53pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214:
go back to him.. you clearly don't know anything better than him. will you.like it if your next relates with his ex? |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by lastempero: 11:00pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
I luv the guy that just broke up with you,my regards to him. He is the boss, I am sure you are one of the people that voted Buhari because of ur inability to choose right from wrong. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by sogud(m): 11:01pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214: since u knw u cnt let go of ur ex feelingz, y did u acept anoda guy since u stil love ur ex. u re a confuse human lo to |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Oiza131(f): 11:11pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
"His family knows me" "his family calls me" is NOT marriage... My sister, a violent man is not difficult to tell. That man has a very high tendency of beating you. And I'm sure that's not what you want to experience in marriage. A man that want you, must want everything about you, including your friends ( except those who are not making good impact). It takes more than love to keep marriage o... I left a relationship of 8years because of something similar to yours. Though he doesn't abuse me. I love him, no doubt. But our compatibility was weak. Always having misunderstandings, not coming to conclusion on important issues and other things... Until I stopped thinking with my p**sy and started thinking with my head, I gave myself brain. And that's like the best decision I've ever made so far. And I'm happy where I am now. Whatever it is that your ex does and you like, and this your present bf doesn't do, mould him to it.. Delete anything that has to do with your ex, first taking the bold step of frankly telling him you have someone else and you love him and willing to settle down with him. I wish you well 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by ikevictor: 11:20pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Have you actually tot about three-some? |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by dober(m): 11:25pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Queentee214: From the bolded, no advice given to you here can change your mind from going back to your ex. I know you will surely go back to him. You are at a high risk of being abused again, even worse. At the end, you will end up losing both of them. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Samuels90: 11:30pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
chenzen:  Ubunja don turn medication/Prescription...Ubunja hope u have Nafdac number  Cut ties with ex and stick to the new G... |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by deeva1: 12:00am On Nov 23, 2019 |
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| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by golddare: 12:01am On Nov 23, 2019 |
That's why they say head wey no think must carry load. Let's say you are used to embarrassment but if you really want to do the right thing you will walk away from that toxic relationship before it's too late. Men loves it when they control your life, they even boast by saying she cant do without me. Dont play with your time and life, relationships is like investment, you ought to make a good one with your life because to me every time you spent with this guy, it's a bad investment. |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by sdcf(m): 12:07am On Nov 23, 2019 |
come on just move on .lol https://www.facebook.com/100019795274547/posts/421820888487750/?app=fbl |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by OMOTOWO(m): 12:08am On Nov 23, 2019 |
KanuSE: A dey tell u. The girl prefers the ex prick to the new prick.. She think we don't know what's up. Advise ko,advance ni 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by MrCodeSolo: 12:16am On Nov 23, 2019 |
my 2kobo take it or leave it....take a long 6-8 months break from all dz relationship tin...cut all ties with both exes..channel a fresh start and meet someone new: don't rush it, just let it glow from within...go on multiple dates with other ppl superficially... don't invest much emotionally and pls set boundaries straight like you don't owe anyone anything and disagree to be labeled girlfriend or such politely ...the goal here is to identify with the one that will be down to make you smile all the time and want to move or shake earth for you...and will not draw negative remarks or throw condescending blows at you...you deserve a toxic-free and healthy relationship...mark me this day...if peradventure you end up with either of your both exes..you will be engaging in a tro and fro loop of abuse and insecurity....you deserve better than dz, don't you think...listen to the voice in your head and not your heart...a man that is truly for you will never put you in any of this sorry-ass state...you deserve more... |
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