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Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
gwama: I have the impression that some people use the word job and career synonymously. For me a job is regular work for which you receive payment. Having a career is more than that, involves more responsibility and oftentimes people who have careers are more passionate about them than people who have "regular" jobs and they also need to invest more time in building and maintaining their careers. Hence, it is not such a big deal to have a (part-time) job and a family but it is a big challenge for women to have a career and a family. Few women can do it and not every woman should aspire to it. It is not easy and many women who try both struggle with feelings of guilt for leaving their kids in the care of others. There are more women in leading positions without kids than with kids in some western countries. For obvious reasons. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
fatymore: How do you make money without career? Abi you don’t know what a career mean |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Mindfulness: I don’t think the fellow you quoted understand what career means |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:39pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Plead: Well, many people use the two words, career and work/job, interchangeably but I have no problem seeking for clarification. |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:39pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
chronique:Na so |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:41pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
pocohantas: The fellow you quoted (twoclans) is a male |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Acidosis(m): 3:41pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
This is a senseless/unintelligent question Doesn't matter which you put first, one will always come to obstruct the other. You cannot build a career before marriage, and can't have a successful marriage before a career. Like Rome, both are not built in a day. You can't be 30 and say you have a successful career. Same applies to marriage. At 30 or 35, you should shut up and let women in their 40s and 50s speak. If you must have something before marriage, use the word "employment", "job", or some savings in your bank account. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by joepepsy(m): 3:41pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
My kind of woman . safarigirl: |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by sharone21(f): 3:42pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
As a lady, I like to leave my options open as to the one that comes first, it will not be wise to lose both all in the name of waiting for marriage.... In many men's minds, women no marry because dem dey do shakara and want a rich man, NOT TRUE...how many men these days are as good, responsible, reliable as many of our fathers....FEW.....Also, I have seen ladies who chose marriage but still come back to beg for garri, money, clothes from her family or single ladies that they sometimes mock( like they achieved a trophy via hard work when they married)....marriage to a non- supportive, jealous man will SLOW down a woman if not make her a thing of the past for another woman to take over....If a woman embraces career and she sees a man later in life, if they can't easily have kids naturally, they can AFFORD to pay to having one or having to pay a surrogate mum or adopt a baby/child/teen( this, a lady can achieve whether married or not with her blossoming career). Pls, men should note that a woman must not propose to a man which is easier for the reverse and a woman must not die if she isn't married. Life is a gift from God and not just for marriage only....Personally, I can have kids/teens I train and call my own, no qualms. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:42pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Mindfulness: I use them interchangeably too. |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Chudivictor(m): 3:43pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
no, I am not. Do you prefer marriage to career? |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by joepepsy(m): 3:44pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Is that your son on your profile? you should be a proud mom,very handsome child mysticgal: |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by gwama: 3:44pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Career does not prevent to make children, did not say to do a dozen like our moms, but one or two was enough. |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by Nobody: 3:45pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
gwama: Making them is not the issue |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by mysticgal(f): 3:45pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
joepepsy:Eeeeeewwwww |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by solomedoh: 3:46pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Please allow God to have full control of your decision. His ways are not our ways, His thoughts are not our thoughts. We tend to make mistake when we did not allow God to lead and in turn brings tears and bitterness most cases. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by joepepsy(m): 3:46pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Talk true oo,no dey form feminist Oo Twoclans: |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by pocohantas(f): 3:48pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
chronique: I don't mind. Sebi it is me that wants to pound. Okay, what is your favourite food? |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by joepepsy(m): 3:48pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Talk true oo,you guys look alike. mysticgal: |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by 1Sharon(f): 3:48pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Career! So no man can bully me. I've seen the way men patronise their wives when they are entirely dependent on them. 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by gwama: 3:51pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Oh good? You have to make them first, joys and problems are part of a person's life. |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by akaahs(m): 3:52pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:the same reply i gat from ma lady when i asked her between marriage nd career which is she considering |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by mkoabiola: 3:54pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
ichidodo:Hahahahahahaha Ppu of naira land 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by joepepsy(m): 3:54pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
The two can't go together,you need concentration ,if you are not putting the concentration needed in marriage or career,you will not succeed. GoldenEstacy: |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by ireneidiva(f): 3:54pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
cipslim:Mating ke? As animals that we are na. All you people think about is marriage. This is why Nigeria keeps getting worse. Leave people to live their life the way they choose. So if a woman is getting old like you said and she is single, her priority is to be sleeping around until she gets pregnant? Well done. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by joepepsy(m): 3:55pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
As baby mama? gwama: |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by SmellingAnus(m): 3:56pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
AlphaStyles:you mean make she no too get close to her boss abi dey travel with am for official assignment |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by joepepsy(m): 3:57pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
We are your future husbands,we need to partake in the discussion. ambivert27: |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by chronique(m): 3:57pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
pocohantas: Starch and banga soup and pounded yam with any bad ass soup. But guess what, they are not everyday meals. If taken 2 or 3 times in a week, that's fine by me cos they take a little bit of time to fix(especially the banga soup). I'd eat anything served so long as it tastes nice and is hygienically prepared and served. I'm not too picky about what should be served but how it is made and served. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by neuroboy4: 3:58pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
MrsNwaAmaikpe: So we have Mrs NwaAmaikpe also? Interesting! |
Re: Marriage Or Career Which Comes First: Ladies Question For You All ... by bukatyne(f): 4:00pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
chronique: I think almost every man is configured to be like that till heartbreaks and other influences. |
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