Simplep:
My dear,you think I have mortar and pestle in my house? I dey crase?....i was only saying whenever we visit our old people who still uses them,there is no harm in helping out(if you can).

Sorry about your friend.

Preshy561:

Now, the op is better than you.
Yeah, you pretending and acting all nice when you are dieng inside for how long? For how long will you continue like this? As we all know, human behaviour will at some point, rebel against its oppressor when the mind can no longer contain it. And why tolerate what you don't want in life? Why start what you can't finish? There are simple blending/grinding machines the family can afford, yet you want to act all nice and heroic.
I know my husband won't even like to see me in that condition abeg.

eduman365:


Keep your perverse opinion to yourself sir.

eduman365:


Would you allow your own sisters do that in their boyfriends' house... Someone who hasn't paid her bride price, asking her to pound yam with mortar and pestle that the whole world has left behind. If it was poundo or rice or eba they asked her to prepare and she ran away, that would have been a different thing, but mortar and pestle... Ogini di? That family is a very wicked one.

I can't even imagine my own wife doing that talk less of girlfriend.

eduman365:


Would you allow your own sisters do that in their boyfriends' house... Someone who hasn't paid her bride price, asking her to pound yam with mortar and pestle that the whole world has left behind. If it was poundo or rice or eba they asked her to prepare and she ran away, that would have been a different thing, but mortar and pestle... Ogini di? That family is a very wicked one.

I can't even imagine my own wife doing that talk less of girlfriend.

Lilbest3:
even people you don't know do assist in preparing food for ceremony. The girl is lazy and unserious. You can't even try that in my place.
Nobody said she should kill herself. Just do what you can and let's at least see you made effort. Sat and watch movies while everyone else is busy cooking What nonsense. If na me sef I no go even pick her calls again

kitone:

But your mother and sister should pound the the yam for you abi? Mtshewwwwww.the children of the generation.

yanabasee:
Feminist will support this lazy brat.. .




Shut up..... Many of you guys will be beating up your gf/wives at home for not cooking for you and will come online to spill trash....

I have a sister that often will pound yam at home to eat. And she's not lazy. She can do it anywhere. She's the only female amongst six boys. She's been mothering us all...

The lady was just being lazy... She has the right to pound to her capacity. Assist them to her strength. And not with a mindset that she's doing it just so she'd be applauded.

This generation is a total mess..

Preshy561:

Now, the op is better than you.
Yeah, you pretending and acting all nice when you are dieng inside for how long? For how long will you continue like this? As we all know, human behaviour will at some point, rebel against its oppressor when the mind can no longer contain it. And why tolerate what you don't want in life? Why start what you can't finish? There are simple blending/grinding machines the family can afford, yet you want to act all nice and heroic.
I know my husband won't even like to see me in that condition abeg.

eduman365:


I actually prefer her discrete approach because human beings always have a tendency to reject direct truth... She deployed wisdom and that's better. If the boyfriend is a labour master, let him look for a village girl biko... I no go overwork my own woman lai lai... Na love I want abeg, not suffer the poor girl.

Preshy561:

Now, the op is better than you.
Yeah, you pretending and acting all nice when you are dieng inside for how long? For how long will you continue like this? As we all know, human behaviour will at some point, rebel against its oppressor when the mind can no longer contain it. And why tolerate what you don't want in life? Why start what you can't finish? There are simple blending/grinding machines the family can afford, yet you want to act all nice and heroic.
I know my husband won't even like to see me in that condition abeg.

funmisticqueen:
she's a pick me, ignore her. Op was a guest for heaven's sake. She is not supposed to lift a finger. Someone that hasn't paid bride price. What the boyfriend's family did is wrong biko.

To the men out there, please remember that you will have daughters one day o.

Preshy561:

There are jobs that are peculiar to men, and the ones assigned to ladies.

That pounding of yam is too Herculean to start with, the men in the house should help out if they want it to be done manually. I don't support such subjugation abeg.
How about looking appealing to your husband rather than having muscles up and down.

MedicH:


Pussy ass niggar spotted. One thing is naija girls know how to deal with your type. The stories are everywhere and its a complete disaster and wreckage.


My family is doing anniversary or even when i was inducted and licensed and neighbours were around to help cook food for visitors, i mean very fine girls and the one i call my babe is in the sitting room watching a movie. It beats my imagination. Wake the fvck up niggar.

eduman365:


Dr. Flat head, see as you be like SpongeBob...

MedicH:


Lol

Preshy561:

Now, the op is better than you.
Yeah, you pretending and acting all nice when you are dieng inside for how long? For how long will you continue like this? As we all know, human behaviour will at some point, rebel against its oppressor when the mind can no longer contain it. And why tolerate what you don't want in life? Why start what you can't finish? There are simple blending/grinding machines the family can afford, yet you want to act all nice and heroic.
I know my husband won't even like to see me in that condition abeg.

funmisticqueen:
she's a pick me, ignore her. Op was a guest for heaven's sake. She is not supposed to lift a finger. Someone that hasn't paid bride price. What the boyfriend's family did is wrong biko.

To the men out there, please remember that you will have daughters one day o.

yanabasee:
Feminist will support this lazy brat.. .




Shut up..... Many of you guys will be beating up your gf/wives at home for not cooking for you and will come online to spill trash....

I have a sister that often will pound yam at home to eat. And she's not lazy. She can do it anywhere. She's the only female amongst six boys. She's been mothering us all...

The lady was just being lazy... She has the right to pound to her capacity. Assist them to her strength. And not with a mindset that she's doing it just so she'd be applauded.

This generation is a total mess..

jojocity:
Nairalanders, check this out. See what this lady did at her boyfriend's parents anniversary.

My Opinion
This Lady was wrong on all level. Everyone was busy and she was watching cartoon network. That's not right for a matured lady. She was called to pound yam and she ran away. It's still not right. Let's assume she doesn't know how to pound yam, of which doesn't, she should have told her boyfriend sister that she couldn't pound yam. She should have asked for another house chores.

I still think the way the Sister surprised her with the yam is not nice at all.

What's your opinion on this matter
#Let'sTalk

funmisticqueen:
she's a pick me, ignore her. Op was a guest for heaven's sake. She is not supposed to lift a finger. Someone that hasn't paid bride price. What the boyfriend's family did is wrong biko.

To the men out there, please remember that you will have daughters one day o.

MedicH:


Pussy ass niggar spotted. One thing is naija girls know how to deal with your type. The stories are everywhere and its a complete disaster and wreckage.


My family is doing anniversary or even when i was inducted and licensed and neighbours were around to help cook food for visitors, i mean very fine girls and the one i call my babe is in the sitting room watching a movie. It beats my imagination. Wake the fvck up niggar.

Simplep:
Fake story.No girl can be this lousy and insensitive..