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Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by DMerciful(m): 10:59pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
You dont seem to realize men and women dont have same liberties! Who marries who? nanauju: 1 Like |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by pryme(m): 6:44am On Dec 13, 2019 |
bukatyne: Your post is more refined, I understand the Op, But you only missed the part she said "money will GET you respect from men" This is what I think is misleading, even women can't stand a man that is rich but is very disrespectful to women. Same thing with men, just because a woman has money they think men will feast on their shiit. If you want respect give respect, the world still have men that respect women because of who they are, not what they have. |
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Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Nobody: 7:40am On Dec 13, 2019 |
nanauju: Preach it!! |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by nanauju(f): 8:13am On Dec 13, 2019 |
bukatyne: The message hurt the men here simply because it's an advice for ladies to be financially independent. They came here to banter.. They're looking for hungry girls who will be impressed with their 5k 2 Likes |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by bestdudes: 9:09am On Dec 13, 2019 |
AfroKnight:She dey camp there too. |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by nanauju(f): 11:43am On Dec 13, 2019 |
pryme: You're probably lacking in understanding, and don't go about saying someone else's post, which totally agrees with mine is more refining because we're saying the same thing. How u understand is utterly Ur problem to deal with 2 Likes |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Ryan03(f): 1:28pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
samdavjustin:even if a woman have respect and is as submissive as submissive can be, without a level of financial stability, she will be very prone to abuse in relationships and marriage. We are talking about financial stability here, what's all these respect and gbogboyen that I am seeing? We have been preaching how women should stop depending totally on us, now someone posted about it and what are the male folks doing? Its like most of us don't really want our women to be financially independent cause that is their only strength in marriage 3 Likes |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Ryan03(f): 1:30pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
nanauju:dont bother dear, they all know the truth 2 Likes |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Ryan03(f): 1:46pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
nanauju:now you understand |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Ryan03(f): 1:48pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
bestdudes:nobody is talking about a rude lady with money, the topic is about a lady providing for herself so that when choosing a husband, she will look beyond the man's money. I dont know if I we all read the same thread 2 Likes |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Ryan03(f): 1:58pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DMerciful:so because you are marrying her so she have no right to look for qualities she want in a man or demand respect from him? Do you even understand the word "respect"? |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by DMerciful(m): 3:24pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
She should look for and demand respect no doubt but thinking the liberty of range of choices men have when it comes to marriage is same as women is a great fallacy. Her option is technically limited to the men that comes for her or that wants to marry her! Ryan03: |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by pocohantas(f): 3:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
bukatyne: You didn't. This is romance section, they always deflect. You begin to wonder what exactly is their problem. They whine all day about broke women, you advise women to get up and work, they will say it is character. Talk about character, they will move on to spirituality... There is no satisfying them. That said, money doesn't equal respect, but it sure makes life easier and refines your choices, If you have a good head on your shoulder. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by nanauju(f): 3:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ryan03: I'm still saying the same thing. Elaborating for people who have problems with understanding |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by DMerciful(m): 3:44pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
A man can increase his sample space to get more possible outcomes. Comparing the average man with the average woman with regards to marriage options is ludicrous! pocohantas: |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by pocohantas(f): 3:46pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DMerciful: A woman has a wider sample space. Except she is locked up in solitude. She would be approached by way more men than a man can. I don't even know why you people claim to call all the shots, but everyday there is wailing thread from your younger brothers who just got dumped. So much for technically being unlimited. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by DMerciful(m): 3:53pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Check the age range of girls giving them wahala 19-22yrs. They have themselves to blame. Leave matter for Mathias! How you dey my personal person? pocohantas: |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by pocohantas(f): 3:55pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
DMerciful: So, after all their talk online, they can't apply it offline ehn? I am fine, looking for husband.
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Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by DMerciful(m): 3:57pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
They will learn. Looking for husband, dont worry, God go do am soon. pocohantas: |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by emmaodet: 5:47pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
pocohantas: Without money, a woman will have more bedmates than a man easily. She can sleep with 5 men before the day runs out but an average man will find that difficult. With money, the game changes. Give each 1m and tell them to sleep with 30 people before the day runs out and i can bet you within 6 hours a man will sleep with 30 prostitutes on 10k each why the woman struggles to net 10. It doesn't matter if he only dip his dick 5 times and changed to the next lady. Money is really the power of men. 1 Like |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Nobody: 5:57pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
LordKO: Character don’t pay the bills |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by pryme(m): 8:23pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
nanauju: No, I understand you. When you are handed exactly what you mean, and you find that you goofed, you want to change the narrative. Being independent is not the only way you can get respect from a man. Obviously your experience about men is limited. |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by nanauju(f): 8:43pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
pryme: When your esteem enables you to eventually meet a financially successful woman, (not the riff raff your 5k can afford) after she finishes picking u like beans and finds that you have nothing to offer her, she's gonna thrash you in the can. |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by pryme(m): 8:46pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ryan03: No you don't get, It's about respect, will you respect someone that is rich but have a repulsive personality? Man or Woman? This is what we are trying to drum into the person that created this thread. Financial Independence can never get you respected if you don't give respect. They are many homes that the man is the bread winner with a wife from a poor background, yet the wife enjoys more respect from the husband, why is that? Was the woman financially independent before marriage? No. So how come she commands so much respect in the home? Your guess is as good as mine. The problem here is most young girls in their early 20s or late teens will come here opening misleading threads from their limited and immature experience about life. 1 Like |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
nanauju:thank you. most men don't know what to do with a woman that has it all, money, beauty, brains, good character. ALL of a sudden, the bare minimum they are used to contributing in a relationship isn't enough anymore. She sees beyond the facade he puts on. Most become emasculated and behave in a cowardly manner to bring down her self esteem and dumb her down to thier level in life. My prayer for such a woman, is to be found by the man, who can rise to the occasion, who has that extra. who can build up instead of break down. MAY THEY GROW IN LOVE AND HAPPINESS TOGETHER. Those men are almost nonexistent on romanceland 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by pryme(m): 9:03pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
nanauju: True, But where does respect come in? Will you respect a billionaire that calls you a rat because he feels you are just a cheap LovePeddler that you can't afford Rolex watch? Even though that man is the richest man in the planet you will NEVER respect him because of how he treated you. It's the same context here, you have money but will that automatically bring you respect? (consider the above paragraph) How many female celebrities have landed the perfect man? Your young experience is too limited to think money equals happiness and a perfect life partner. I have read your order post, if they are anything to go by, then you have to edit this thread to "Ladies being financially independent will make you less dependent on men" |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by emmaodet: 11:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
pocohantas: Refine your choices ? It is always about you ladies.... U..u...u...and U Ladies are really selfish and self centered mehnnnnn.....Damn!!!!! You educate a man and a woman, the man becomes refine and looks around to pick a local gal to dust up but a girl looks around for a better/more refined man to marry. No impact to humans Alllllll about them God forbid...... Despite all the resources available to them, the empowerments, it won't really have any impact in the society. A crazy world 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Pussywar(f): 12:03am On Dec 14, 2019 |
AfroKnight:But the thread isn't even about you or what you want. Its for women. You could for once not make it about men. |
Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by Pussywar(f): 12:05am On Dec 14, 2019 |
Jersuiyjoe:
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Re: Women, Being Financially Independent Is The ONLY Way We Can Have Our Respect by udder: 5:26am On Dec 14, 2019 |
Nairaland feminists have sufferred. You guys won't let them plan their scheme in peace . 2 Likes |
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