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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Xisnin(m): 10:40am On Dec 17, 2019
doggedfighter:

She's still a girlfriend. It doesn't matter if you paid her then or one week after. After her visit don't you drop something?
The only difference is that escorts name a particular price.
Everyone pays for sex whether married, single or to call girls.

It's only the mode of payment that varies
No, she is not a girlfriend.
If a girl accepts or demands payment after sex for that particular session, she is a prostitute.
Of course, some boys call them girlfriends but they don't know better.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by paradigmshift(m): 10:40am On Dec 17, 2019
GraGra247:
FABRICATED LIES!! Full stop!!


Cos your life is moving backwards doesn't mean others Won't succeed..ode
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Etinosa1234: 10:40am On Dec 17, 2019
futurism:


She is from Edo according to the story and I can tell you for fact, based on my blood link to Benin, don't count them as family,aside your siblings.

If you are even unlucky, your siblings can be a danger to your life.

Those people do not wish each other well... They compete, jealous and wish evil against one another. There is no unity...

And in Benin, its all man for himself. They can do anything to survive, absolutely anything, either good or bad.

Just had to point out "why" she may not have brother to link to such contract.



I'm sorry to say this but all u just wrote up there is complete trash

My father's family are still together despite their differences...

One of my uncle travelled to Australia in the year 2000 or so...Years later...He arranged 4 his family..then 4 some of my uncles and their children

Recently..My own visa is being processed

Even some of my family that were not able to go ,he still comes back and sends them some money in times of need

I can Even boldly say that 90%of my clothes have been bought by my family members that are overseas...

So I can't really know ur basis 4 this ur baseless assumption esp if u are not Benin

also ...that she's Edo does not necessarily mean she's Benin ...there are other tribes in Edo


And 4 ur info....Bini people respect family tradition more than u ever think

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 10:41am On Dec 17, 2019
Xisnin:

You are wrong.
Prostitution is exchanging sex for money.
If you sit your girl down and tell her that your only deal with her is the exchange of money for sex
and she agrees. That is prostitution.

However, no sane man will call to ask about a prostitute's day, how her parents is, whether she got the contract,
tell her about his birthday, whether she reached her destination safely or discuss future plans.

I admit that some men don't know the difference between prostitutes and girlfriends and you are obviously one of
them.
They are not even close.

Tell me you have not spent money on any woman you dated and I will take you serious.

Everything is business

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by paradigmshift(m): 10:41am On Dec 17, 2019
chidiebereuzoma:
Lies!! Just to garner likes

Talk Ur own lie na...
Likes they put money for basket.. ode
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by OBku4(m): 10:42am On Dec 17, 2019
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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Merimental(m): 10:43am On Dec 17, 2019
Beosten:
Have the spiritual eyes and marry someone at par with your destiny.

If I tell you this, you may see it as fiction: exact house where my wife lived and her office's exact location were revealed to me in a dream.

But I didn't go to these locations in search of her. We met somewhere else. It was when I visited her for the first time that I declared myself a seer par excellence. Then, I was to pick her up at her place of work later. I became dumbfounded upon getting to the place.

dream of a lifetime. lucky u
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 10:44am On Dec 17, 2019
Etinosa1234:



I'm sorry to say this but all u just wrote up there is complete trash

My father's family are still together despite their differences...

One of my uncle travelled to Australia in the year 2000 or so...Years later...He arranged 4 his family..then 4 some of my uncles and their children

Recently..My own visa is being processed

Even some of my family that were not able to go ,he still comes back and sends them some money in times of need

I can Even boldly say that 90%of my clothes have been bought by my family members that are overseas...

So I can't really know ur basis 4 this ur baseless assumption esp if u are not Benin

Story. I have a Benin name, I grew up among them.

When handling issues like this, do it statically and count yourself lucky if what you shared up there is true.

2 over 10 is a poor mark.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Merimental(m): 10:44am On Dec 17, 2019
Frankicent:
This is you touching oo.. No wonder people say your destiny helper might be someone you less expect... it might not be your friend, relative or family..


God biko remember me.

I tink URS is closer. I just feel it
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Nobody: 10:45am On Dec 17, 2019
Firstorderwizard:
My instinct tells me this is a lie.
I may be wrong anyway

you are so right

Nowadays when i read a story that ends with how they went to the western world after doing a good deed here in Nigeria, i always know the stories are lies and cooked up

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by GraGra247(m): 10:46am On Dec 17, 2019
paradigmshift:


Cos your life is moving backwards doesn't mean others Won't succeed..ode

I don't blame a brain dead animal like you. Shame on you. Scalliwag.
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 10:46am On Dec 17, 2019
OBku4:

grin
I know say na from movie u hear this line.
Keep on to dey deceive urself
the problem with people like una be say u have been programmed to follow rules. So I don't expect you to agree.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Merimental(m): 10:46am On Dec 17, 2019
MPESA:


Most of them do get VVIP CONTACTS due to nature of their jobs.

fact. Cardi B was a big tym lap dancer. see her 2day being celebrated just 4 visiting Naija n Ghana.

life is mystery tho

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Realdeals(m): 10:47am On Dec 17, 2019
Human set rules and regulations brings manipulation to the world.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by King44(m): 10:49am On Dec 17, 2019
futurism:


Nobody say make u go fork ashii...

For inside this life there hundreds of ashiii happily married and faithful while holier than thou have divorced cos they are still forking dicks.

Everybody has a reason for taking certain path in life.

Plus, ashawo get standard...

When u give girl friend money after sex, what's that? Or when the only thing you gain from her is sex and you in turn do heaven and earth for her, what do you call that?

advanced olosho
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Blackicegold(m): 10:49am On Dec 17, 2019
Omo. People wet view this topic plenty oooo shocked shocked shocked
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Etinosa1234: 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019
futurism:


Story. I have a Benin name, I grew up among them.

When handling issues like this, do it statically and count yourself lucky if what you shared up there is true.

2 over 10 is a poor mark.

story...
...I also have a Yoruba name and I grew up in a Yoruba community but I dont insult the Yoruba pple based on what i see from one side

First of all.... are u Benin....and from where??

what is ur morning greeting??

U claim Benin pple don't look out 4 demselves but those Gals doing runs in Italy and the likes are doing it 4 their family



I'm sure u've also heard of Benin pple selling their family land just to help their child pay 4 visa fee and flight
I also know pple in school(Benin)that their family have a hand in their education...so pls

stop making hasty generalisation

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Conceptman: 10:50am On Dec 17, 2019
CasNova:
There are lessons in life. The soil of today can turn to be diamond of tomorrow.

very true and when one rubbish the soil because of it being just soil then getting that diamond will never be certain which means there is always a treasure in all you have, it depends on how you search for it

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by midnighter(f): 10:53am On Dec 17, 2019
24kmagic:
Thales by moonlight.

There's a difference between looking down on people and condemning what is bad.

I will always condemn prostitutes, that doesn't mean I'm looking down on her.

I know orphans who hawk pure water and other petty stuffs to make ends meet.

No be this your story go make me begin fvck ashawo, tufiakwa.

kiss
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by LyfeJennings(m): 10:53am On Dec 17, 2019
Didn't marry mine but she was instrumental to certain good things in my life.
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by ivolt: 10:54am On Dec 17, 2019
futurism:


Nope... Most girls expect you to drop something. Either immediately or after... They expect something in return.
They don't.
You are just making an assumption and are afraid of losing out to other boys.
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by officialfestus(m): 10:58am On Dec 17, 2019
40secondsguy:
Damn...what can I say... shocked

I guess life is a strange thing...that's why I don't look down on anyone ever.... Cause you never know what the future might hold for you...





Cums out of thread
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 17, 2019
When I see a sex worker,what i ask her first is "do you really "love" this work?if she says yes,I leave her alone..,if she says NO then we would talk and see how to help her in any way possible.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by WrathOfHadez(m): 11:03am On Dec 17, 2019
futurism:
In this life, I will never look down on anyone and it has always been my motto. Those who do can always learn the hard way. I have seen a lot to stick to this.

Happy Reading folks.



Source: https://web.facebook.com/newallahkaduna.nzeogwu/posts/615893265906729

Nice moral. We should all accept a girl with no morals or sexual honour because of money.

Nice way to teach the kids.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by tck2000(m): 11:05am On Dec 17, 2019
Vortex369:
So, what do you want us to do about this story? Start fuccking prostitutes?
Hahahaha guy you are damn funny!
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by Nobody: 11:05am On Dec 17, 2019
doggedfighter:

She's still a girlfriend. It doesn't matter if you paid her then or one week after. After her visit don't you drop something?
The only difference is that escorts name a particular price.
Everyone pays for sex whether married, single or to call girls.

It's only the mode of payment that varies
I had a girlfriend who always demanded for sex but never one day has she asked me for pin.In fact I sent her recharge card and she was very angry,saying"I didn't ask you to send it to me".If she wanted something from me,she borrows and repays later

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by lollybizzu(m): 11:05am On Dec 17, 2019
[quote author=jaxxy post=84983713]When Ure more irresponsible than a prostitute it’s highly possible she can change ur life. The prostitute is just poor and needs the money if not she won’t be in it.[/quote]

Yes your first sentence is good and beautiful but I stand to disagree with the second.

I think it's lack of good moral foundation and values.
There are other hustles she can engage in; not selling her body for money.

This life is a mystery.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by midnighter(f): 11:06am On Dec 17, 2019
It is a lovely story...makes me consider...

The only thing they did wrong was disrespect the woman and call her names. That part was looking down on her

Discouraging their friend from marrying a prostitute was not looking down on her. But their destinies became entwined because if youre ready to sleep with prostitutes then by rights they should be good enough to marry. Water finds its level

The reason that they were in that predicament in the first place was that they were parochial and small-minded with low ambitions, choosing to spend their money on unworthy pursuits.

And another point in this story is the element of dehumanisation ... being a prostitute didnt stop her from being an intelligent, resourceful and engaging person, which is actually what helped her to marry that guy and work those contracts. She was more versatile and forward-thinking than they were, and she commanded more respect (by refusing to be treated poorly in the first instance when he neglected to tell her that he had room-mates)

If they were serious with their lives after graduating they would still have made it to Australia or wherever without having to rely on all of that.

But all in all it was an cool story to read...I often wonder about the spiritual connotations of prostitution...this profession appears a lot in the Bible for various reasons...so much tends to rely on them....they carry a lot of heavy symbolism...

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by officialfestus(m): 11:07am On Dec 17, 2019
futurism:


She is from Edo according to the story and I can tell you for fact, based on my blood link to Benin, don't count them as family,aside your siblings.

If you are even unlucky, your siblings can be a danger to your life.

Those people do not wish each other well... They compete, jealous and wish evil against one another. There is no unity...

And in Benin, its all man for himself. They can do anything to survive, absolutely anything, either good or bad.

Just had to point out "why" she may not have brother to link to such contract.

you are some how right
Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by cocolacec(m): 11:08am On Dec 17, 2019
SocialJustice:
L
Well in the end, almost every girl out there is a hooker. We just have to settle for the one we're most compatible with.

Hookers exist because men keep patronisizing them.The customer of a hooker is the male gender not ghosts.

The men who sleeps around and prostitutes are both hookers.The society only blames the women as if it doesnot take two to tango.

In Sweden ,the men patronisizing prostitutes are arrested if caught on the street. So the Johns do it coded.

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Re: How A Prostitute, Club Girl Changed My Life by futurism: 11:16am On Dec 17, 2019
ivolt:

They don't.
You are just making an assumption and are afraid of losing out to other boys.

They do, oga. Don't spend and watch her leave.

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