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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by mhizv(f): 2:45pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter: Are you saying that's all there is? Cooking!!? Let's speak the truth. Self development matters a lot! If he doesn't tag you along, pushes you to be a better version of yourself, pushes you to set goals for yourself,then he's not worth the time. Someone that really has your best interest at heart,won't sit back and watch you waste away. 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 2:53pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
mhizv: Yes, I totally agree with you on the bolded and thats what I have been saying. But I dont think it entails being disdainful about the ones she does already. At least the cooking was useful to him too wasnt it? I mean I purposely picked out cooking from the list that you gave because I dont think it should be among the group of "worthless" or frivolous tasks carried out for a man. At least housework should be appreciated even though we encourage ourselves to do more than that 2 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by bayodele73(m): 3:00pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz:Obvious you just a keypad warrior who doesn't understand what's up there....cant you read and understand...She called no names and she didn't say all woman....she picked just a lady....learn to read and move next time or your conscience judges you? |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Biglittlelois(f): 3:04pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
bukatyne: @ first emboldened, you do know how that sounds like don't you? @second, how is a woman suppose to jump from selling garri overnight to being investment savvy if he doesn't guide her through the process same way he did for himself? You know the problem with these set of guys who leave ladies that were with them through tough times? they don't just have the patience to bring her up to their desire, they want an immediate, at the moment, already available, tasteful lady that fit the criteria, of which, at the end, some regret that decision, while some stay with their choice no matter what, cos of the shame and embarrassment, they prefer to cry in their closet. My advice for guys who has ladies that stood by them, build her up as you build yourself, it takes guts, love and endurance for a lady to stay that long, the best feeling in the world for any couple is knowing that whatever happens, if things becomes difficult in future, she'll always be there. 5 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by bukatyne(f): 3:12pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: 1. My second paragraph clarifies the first. 2. I did not say selling garri: I said soaking garri to swell. 3 & 4: A woman should develop herself as her man is developing herself so she is still of value everytime the man leans back to look at her. It is not even a woman's thing: do you know how many men dumped after they train girls in school under the guise of 'they are not good enough'? The Bible says: Love your neighbor as yourself. Not more, not less. You love your man/woman enough to stick by them? Ensure you are also bring yourself up to speed to be at par with them when they emerge. Some people are however wicked and go for someone they know would be fine with their low state and when they emerge, they discard the person and find their real 'spec'. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 3:17pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
cococandy: Damn right! The stay at home partner, most of the time the woman, is undervalued, always has been and always will be and it has put women in a vulnerable position for far too long. This is why I will always encourage women to have a plan B and be self-reliant, not only financially but intellectually as well. And it's not only that, I believe that everyone should aspire to be the best they can be, learn, develop and grow. There’s no end to threads pulling women in every different direction as to what it means to be a good woman. One day housewives are awesome because they prioritize the needs of the man over their personal aspirations. The next day they are sloths and leeches depending on men for their livelihoods. Anything to diss on women. Completely true! And for me, it’s not so much the articles themselves that are irritating (I understand people will have preferences) but it’s just more irritating when the same set of dimwits are the ones all the over the place on each thread as long as the purpose for that day is to see how well they can insult women. I have been watching them for a long time and came to the conclusion that they are the most useless and insecure creatures walking this earth. This is why I don't understand why any woman would choose to depend on them in any way, shape or form. 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by TheCOOLEST(m): 3:27pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: Did you say 80%, of"nowadays" gals? Damn, that's way too much I agree with you that not all girls demand, but I disagree that 80% hustle, what most want is a ready made man Take or leave it |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Rigel95(m): 3:36pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Riele:So you're into women then No wonder, that explains a lot. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by SavageResponse(m): 3:38pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Very good write-up |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
samdavjustin:Incase u don't know, that's the most bitter girl on NL.. Ain't it obvious she's pained and broken.. dem done use her heart play ping pong taya. Just allow her space to rant and release her frustrations bro. Pay her no mind 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by yetunsbay(m): 4:33pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Nobody: 4:43pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ishilove: Even though you are yourself not free from your condemnation. Always claiming I TOO KNOW, Jumping from thread to thread with stench of ignorance and toxic stupidity while glowing in pride in such stench. My dear you are very much guilty of your own condemnation. We will be glad to see you go on a long vacation. WE DARE YOU TO TAKE A BREAK. OF COURSE YOU CAN'T BECAUSE WITHOUT NL, LIFE MAKES NO MEANING TO YOU, LIKE SOME FOLKS ON HERE WHOSE LIVES REVOLVES AROUND NL, IMPRISONED. NL, A PLATFORM FOR IGNORANT AND TOXIC STUPID PEOPLE AS YOU HAVE DESCRIBED. Ain't you a mod or once a mod?! And with no effort in sanitizing NL because you ain't any different either from your condemnation. 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Casemiro(m): 4:47pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
lavylilly op, you have done well! ladies need to contribute something, no matter how small. luminouz: guy, your head get oil! This has been on the internet as far back as 2015.. I'll send a few links to support your claim.... op, you tried, but try to quote the source you got it from next time! it's been on nairaland since.. see one link>> https://www.nairaland.com/2801533/ladies-wise-up see another link>> https://www.nairaland.com/2794994/dear-girls |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 5:18pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Ginaz: Every man is automatically bent on making it in life. It is you ladies with your annoying sense of entitlement who have refused to work for and own your own. Even if you want to help establish them, that mentality of having things easily is sooooo permanent in their heads that they would reject anything requiring too much effort. No be Naija here we dey again? Nigerian girls are a problem to themselves. I have seen enough. And their fake feminism and toxic attitude in addition can make a man lose interest in them almost instantly. They will try so hard to immediately make you understand that they have options. Na their appearance be their only concern. Before you find the exceptions you will find among them, e go tey. Nigerian girls still have a very long way to go and serious work to do on themselves. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 5:29pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter: The reason why the matter gets worse is because people like you keep defending something wrong. We are talking about the woman working on herself to be profitable to herself and also assist her partner, you are talking about cooking food that the man can cook by himself too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 5:32pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 5:43pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Gordieshegz: That's how they are - small brain, or fish brain as they are referred here. Help a woman, she will remember you when another problem comes. The enough appreciation you did not get for your assistance will be completed when her head enters Gear 4 in an altercation and she tells you to your very face "what have you even done?" even if you gave her your own eyes. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 5:47pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
DenreleDave: Bros na where I give up on Nigerian girls be dat o. They tend to think that sex is a favour offered to guys/men by them...that mentality among many other mentalities they have is crazy. I no just know why Naija girls/women different. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by cococandy(f): 5:50pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Same here. I wouldn’t encourage any woman to stay home. It’s a lot of work with little to no credit Mindfulness: 3 Likes |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by webngnews: 5:57pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
hmmmm |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 6:05pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter: Rubbishing her efforts comes when she refuses to bring more to the table even when told to do so and she thinks the cooking and other added things are enough already. Such stubborn ones are capable of making the man die quicker because the load is all on him. And that there is the picture of most Nigerian homes. Before you see exceptions, e go tey. Why? They've gotten used to getting things easily while single when they made every man feel that they've got options. Worsestill, the few ones allowed to work would spend their salaries on themselves alone, leaving the burden of the family on the man as the head alone. The small brain women have is responsible for such mentality. Head here means to coordinate affairs of the family. Nigerian girls/women have a lot of work to do on themselves. The girls/women elsewhere don't have the mentalities Nigerian girls/women operate with. 1 Like |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 6:11pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
ngwababe: Make una dey defend bad thing make e worse. Can you not see that the mentality of Nigerian girls/women is different from the mentality of other girls/women elsewhere? In fact, Naija girls/women mata taya pesin, same thing with everyone of them. Before you see the very few exceptions, e go tey. Everyone is meant to be ambitious and to be working on becoming successful. Men are automatically wired that way already. Women should be too, but sadly they are not. The very few ones that are (I mean very few) would not contribute their money to the well-being of the family. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 6:12pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by showafrica(m): 6:24pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Davash222: Lol, this ur small statement reduced the OPs advice to nothing . My own be say I want a "maid" with brains, thats a definition of a real wife in Africa. I dont need a workaholic who wont have time for my kids. There is always a way to balance work, income and family. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 6:29pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter: The Nigerian men's mentality you think is different is actually reaction to Nigerian women's obstinate, manly and entitlement mentalities. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 6:35pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Lightangel65: 6:52pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Riele: Ladies too have unhealthy egos, accept it Hurt by a man lol, guess that gateman did quite a good job |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by MNDY(m): 6:53pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter: Like the apple in the garden of eden, Lucifer has devised another means to make the Woman rebel against God's natural order. Feminism and especially the fake one by Nigerian women will get them nowhere. Why? Because there is no oppression anywhere in the first place. God's scheme of things can never be changed. The man is and remains the head. Women equating themselves with men under the guise of liberation from whatever oppression is an experiment that will never work but lead to chaos. Except you are an atheist, whichever faith you practice goes in line with my submission above. Christianity and Islam have no traces of Feminism even though Christians exhibit it majorly because Islam condemns it vehemently. |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by JUBILEE2000: 6:58pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Davash222: ��� hahahahahaha. Mehn u are wicked!!! |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by midnighter(f): 7:05pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
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Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by ngwababe(f): 7:45pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
MNDY: How did you come to this conclusion? It's funny how you guys talk like this, but , in every street, every road, offices, politics, you see women hustling. Our mothers, sisters, aunties are out there, helping their families and someone like you is telling me what? |
Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Lightangel65: 8:18pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Lol then why did your mom meet your dad, women are not undervalued they have no value. Women depend on men cause they are livestock. Tell me why do women get married or date if not for Cash. Stop blindly supporting trash |
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