Girls forgive guys more than the way guys forgive girls in terms of cheating. God wants us to forgive constantly, and it is good. Now, even if guys forgive, they hardly continue with a relationship were the lady cheated, and even if they continue, they may never focus it towards marriage.

See reasons below why a guy may/will hardly take back a lady that cheated.

(1) A guy got a lady after serious hard-to-get and long wooing, then another guy slept with her easily without sweat. Painful to take.

(2) The remembrance of the escapades and the moaning during the cheating is a huge turn off. Painful to take.

(3) The fact that another guy will be bragging that he slept with a guy's girlfriend is painful to take.

(4) The fear of a repetition of same cheating...Painful to take.

(5) The fear that a girl that cheated may have developed emotions with the guy she cheated with.. Painful to take.

(6) Unnecessary insecurities...

them say once a hoe always a hoe. We will find it difficult to trust her again.

The cheating is never my problem....wetin dem go don discuss about me as dem dey straff,na em be my own problem.

Shyluck:
them say once a hoe always a hoe. We will find it difficult to trust her again.

A pussy once bleeped cannot be un bleeped and once u bleep a pussy u av an edge to bleep the said pussy anyhow anytime anywhere.

...The above quote alone has psychologically effect on guys that alone can give once brain & emotion trauma....

let me add mine .fear of been infected with a disease

never you take back a cheating girlfriend,
because




when a woman is bad ,she's worst than a man..

If you really love her you look beyond that

Why do you think fathers smile when they hear their son has hammered some girl...while the father of the girl hammered gets angry and even feels ashamed.
Traditionally, guys are allowed to have multiple women at once....but for a woman, it's a taboo.

chiommy123:
If you really love her you look beyond that

Naaaa a guy can't look beyond it, he will always imagine anoda man's deek down her throat when kissing her. Ayama

Ifakiland:

Naaaa a guy can't look beyond it, he will always imagine anoda man's deek down her throat when kissing her. Ayama

but most women forgive their husband's

chiommy123:
but most women forgive their husband's

Its difficult. Except she is slutty, ladies attach emotions to sex. There's an 80% chance that under same circumstances she will still sleep with that same guy.


On the other hand, guys have sex for fun without emotions. Under same circumstances there's a 50% likelihood of reoccurrence. Note that for consensual sex to happen, the girl must fully agree.

So if sex happens anywhere, the girl permitted it.

Its the reason it difficult to forgive a cheating babe

freedomest:
Girls forgive guys more than the way guys forgive girls in terms of cheating. God wants us to forgive constantly, and it is good. Now, even if guys forgive, they hardly continue with a relationship were the lady cheated, and even if they continue, they may never focus it towards marriage.

See reasons below why a guy may/will hardly take back a lady that cheated.

(1) A guy got a lady after serious hard-to-get and long wooing, then another guy slept with her easily without sweat. Painful to take.

(2) The remembrance of the escapades and the moaning during the cheating is a huge turn off. Painful to take.

(3) The fact that another guy will be bragging that he slept with a guy's girlfriend is painful to take.

(4) The fear of a repetition of same cheating...Painful to take.

(5) The fear that a girl that cheated may have developed emotions with the guy she cheated with.. Painful to take.

(6) Unnecessary insecurities...

My father's advice...Drop a cheating girlfriend or wife...no matter the condition, because ladies don't open legs for men they don't have emotional attachments to...Only Prostitute do that( don't bring a prostitute in the name of love...I will curse you)...You die slowly immediately you stay with a cheating girlfriend or wife...
And Don't marry an Edo girl... Their head dey shake..

boiz2men:

Its difficult. Except she is slutty, ladies attach emotions to sex. There's an 80% chance that under same circumstances she will still sleep with that same guy.


On the other hand, guys have sex for fun without emotions. Under same circumstances there's a 50% likelihood of reoccurrence. Note that for consensual sex to happen, the girl must fully agree.

So if sex happens anywhere, the girl permitted it.

Its the reason it difficult to forgive a cheating babe

this is the reason our society is the way it is. A guy is married and has like four concubines outside and he tells his wife he's not emotional attached to them. Who are you fooling if not yourself

It’s almost 2020 and men are still using the excuse that females cheat with emotions as a pass for their infidelity and a reason to rake females over the coals for the exact thing they do

”WelL I oNly chEated beCause shE wAs fine and aM a mAn,we Are visual creatures blah blah blah....but I sTilL lOve AnD reSpect u’. At the end of the day, a person still gets hurt, no matter how you want to rationalise it. To add to that, you can’t paint all females with the same brush when it comes to their reasons for cheating, sure some cheat with emotion but there are plenty who don’t. If she cheats on you with a guy who has more money purely for monetary gain, will you give her the same pass? And will it hurt any less? Probably not by much so cut the crap and just admit that you’re just hypocrites lol

I don't forgive cheating men...

I will only act like I have forgiven him because I need time to perfectly execute my plans.

You go fck outside and you bring back same prick to me? Claim you cheated without emotions. Watched me give you head on the same prick you chooked inside a random pussy?

Oh, heaven will receive a soul and it won't be mine...

chiommy123:
but most women forgive their husband's

turn to a man..

Like I, mivida use to always say, "In my next life, I must be born a man AGAIN."



LYF'S GUUUUUUDDD! #LicksLipz

Never forgive a cheating boyfriend/husband as well.Next!

chiommy123:
this is the reason our society is the way it is. A guy is married and has like four concubines outside and he tells his wife he's not emotional attached to them. Who are you fooling if not yourself

lol madam turn to a man...our society is not bleeped up. The society you are probably admiring found away to tell us that a man with four wives or concubine is not normal but a man and a man is perfectly ok... please tell me which society is bleeped up?
Stop trying to be a man

Funmmyastic:
Never forgive a cheating boyfriend/husband as well.Next!

haha... Especially when the guy is so good in bed... I understand

niaralandtopuser:
a man's heart is capable of loving many women same time but women only love one man. if she is to love another, she transfer the love she had for you to him

Naso!

loswhite:
lol madam turn to a man...our society is not bleeped up. The society you are probably admiring found away to tell us that a man with four wives or concubine is not normal but a man and a man is perfectly ok... please tell me which society is bleeped up?
Stop trying to be a man

iam not trying to be a man just saying if women forgive their husband's infidelity why won't the man do same

loswhite:
turn to a man..

what's special in being a man

pocohantas:


No mind them. Men cheat without emotions indeed. That was what they told Ned's first wife, he added the second, third, fourth, Regina. Now the poor woman's son is ranting on SM, say e no fit pay sch fees.

That was what Okoya's first wife thought before he brought in Sade and made her controller of his estate.

Over and over men have abandoned their women/kids for the other women, men have married the other woman. Yet I keep hearing how they cheat without emotions. Sure they cheat without emotions- but with lots of wickedness and total disrespect for the woman.

Just another way to dodge accountability, then they’ll have the nerve to be ‘deeply troubled’ and ‘uNaBle 2 aCcept’ when the same happens to them lolz boy bye

pocohantas:
I don't forgive cheating men...

I will only act like I have forgiven him because I need time to perfectly execute my plans.

You go fck outside and you bring back same prick to me? Claim you cheated without emotions. Watched me give you head on the same prick you chooked inside a random pussy?

Oh, heaven will receive a soul and it won't be mine...

God forbid bad thing.
No be me go suck prick wey don turn to community property.

chiommy123:
this is the reason our society is the way it is. A guy is married and has like four concubines outside and he tells his wife he's not emotional attached to them. Who are you fooling if not yourself

Whatever you typed up there, is it a reason why men find it difficult to forgive cheating gf?

Cos that's what the thread is about. Except I must have interpreted the op's post wrongly

If your actions are less likely to have consequences, then you’ll have no problem acting upon your desires.
In other words, if you know you can have an affair and get away with it, what’s stopping you from cheating?
Unfortunately, this sends out the wrong kind of signal to many nigerian men, and many take advantage of it.

If the cycle continues in this manner women still have a lot more forgiving to do and men will keep forgetting to return the gesture..but thank God this ain't the 90s anymore and more nigerian women are wising up and not accepting the bullshit double standard

Reason why average women do forgive cheating partner is they actually cherish the materials gains more than their Men body.they can endure a cheating husband so far he has not failed in his responsibilities but will easily dump a struggling loyal husband cos what they cherish most is no longer available.

The only thing men cherish and value from their partner is the body. It is like a bragging right for men as the only one who have access to it.
Once another person gain access to their most cherished asset ,that is the end of it.
The ones that forgives will never forget and the relationship will never be the same again

donbachi:
The cheating is never my problem....wetin dem go don discuss about me as dem dey straff,na em be my own problem.

hahaha

chiommy123:
If you really love her you look beyond that

look beyond what? why pay for something another man like you is getting for free.

pocohantas:


No mind them. Men cheat without emotions indeed. That was what they told Ned's first wife, he added the second, third, fourth, Regina. Now the poor woman's son is ranting on SM, say e no fit pay sch fees.

That was what Okoya's first wife thought before he brought in Sade and made her controller of his estate.

Over and over men have abandoned their women/kids for the other women, men have married the other woman. Yet I keep hearing how they cheat without emotions. Sure they cheat without emotions- but with lots of wickedness and total disrespect for the woman.

a man's heart is capable of loving many women same time but women only love one man. if she is to love another, she transfer the love she had for you to him