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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by topboss1: 1:20pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
cococandy: Me sef, i cannot trust u with ur baby daddy. Okafor's law. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60:You ended a marriage .. That's all I need. Have a good day 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Christafarian(m): 1:21pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Na wao. See people viewing Thread on boosting the economy 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by OyinO: 1:21pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Ebenezar2020: Leave your God out of this. Is your God not supposed to help if he decides to help? Must he be begged before doing something for someone he wants to help? |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by PointZerom: 1:21pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
stupidity: I am legally married and God Almighty blessed me with good wife and lovely children. I did both tradition, court and church wedding. I did all these without even seeing my wife's pants. Let God bear me witness. MY CHILDREN WILL NEVER BE VICTIMS OF BAD MARRIAGE. SO SHALL IT BE IN JESUS NAME ....AMEN! 6 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Christafarian(m): 1:22pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Na wao. See the VERY FEW people viewing Thread on boosting the economy. NOTE: Just one FEMALE. 1 Share
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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Nnemuka: When a lady is avoiding a broke guy, she call it standard!!! No amount of love can becloud her!!! Single mum's should please apply the same standard to avoid all single men... Let's stop lying against Love!! Leave single men alone... Let them enjoy a married life without any baggages of any woman's past marriage!!! Abeg!!! Single Dads and Widowers boku!!! 5 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Christafarian(m): 1:23pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
But Nairaland YOUTHS besiege marriage issue like ants on sugar, while gleefully dishing out unsolicited marriage counsel. No wonder they are branded 'lazy'. Very shameful. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Shiit.. U should have started early to restrict her from her baby daddy or better send the baby to live with her family member.. And if the girl still find solace in her baby daddy even when she is married... Then u married an immature girl..... Allow her to complete her cycle of lust.. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nnemuka(f): 1:26pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
eni4real:Everybody avoids broke men, even broke men hate themselves for being broke. Single moms, dads, divorcees, widowers can date anybody as long as they love them and there's mutual understanding. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 1:26pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy:Are you kidding me? She deserve beating for throwing his weed away? And, you expect us to hug him with open hands? A father of three kids flaunting his weeds before his kids and wife? Imagine she is your sister, you came, saw her face with bruises, all because she threw her husband's weed away. What would you have done? We don't care that the relationship has ended ooo, she is definitely renting her apartment by Tuesday. As far as this year is concerned, or even for life if she wants, she is definitely not going back to that marriage. Let the guy Marry someone else, why she stay alive for me. I need her more than what the world will say. You can allow your own person to be panelbeaten and let her be talking to him and begging him to stop, my own person won't do that. Lastly, he was detained in police cell and not sent to prison. Mr killer from prison, know the difference between the two. 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
PointZerom:Amen. I was just playing around sir. I wonder why you people on here take some comments too serious. Didn’t mean to be rude. Pardon my manners. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by TheRedpillguy: 1:29pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Saintmary:You make it seem like sleeping alone is a bad thing. No I wouldn't want anybody breathing in my ears, thank you. Or he can go to cityoflove. Com and order a brand new girl every night minus the BS. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Shibaraba:YES, I did. And, will do it over and over again without remorse. I will rather end a marriage and have her alive for me, than encourage a marriage that may have have her dead one day. Have a great weekend. 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by 11doubledee: 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
cococandy:Easier said,Until you are in his shoes. Every single parent should draw the lines clearly regarding custody and welfare of the child. If truly you love that child that much,you shouldn't have separated from your partner initially. Hypocrites will always have the 'perfect' excuse to justify their act. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by AreaFada2: 1:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
thorpido:Dude, even if the marriage appears to work and the lady is decent, at some point her kids that you raised will become ungrateful. Believing you did nothing for them no matter how you tried. I have seen too many of it. At close range. Almost always the case. Use your youthful years to raise your own biological kids. Why take on baggage that will be ungrateful later? Unless you are VERY rich or famous or both even if you were not a good step dad, they will be doing attache because of your name. Every guy should weigh it very carefully. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nitah1: 1:31pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1:You sef�to slap you the hungry me,how on earth a young man go for tokumbo woman...like one prophet i know who's first wife was far older than him but because she was rich. Olosho and single mama na the same. 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by OyinO: 1:32pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
imolile: God is not involved in what you're saying. You pick and marry who you choose. God chooses nothing for any man. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Nnemuka:Do broke ladies ever exist?? I wonder why guys don't avoid them!!! Ladies have standard!!! Single mum should remember that they have a blood brother too... . Please wish young unmarried guys the same you would wish your brothers!! Please apply your standards against them!! Stop changing your voice when you are around them, stop wearing that special makeup around them, stop being too cute around them, stop doing your face like that... Stop acting too caring and loving around them.. Maintain your standard.. Do all those, around single dads and Widowerz.. Please, stop turning wrong head.. Abeg!!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by LegalOpinion: 1:33pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
faithfull18: Majority are actually worthless. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by segun18(m): 1:34pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Sorry brother .Any Marriage can fail .Can you be more clear Pls? I have seen a lot of African men deceptively go into marriage with Single mums in South East London. Most of them( not all ) are for Residency purpose.They lie initially that they will father the Baby mother's kid or kids. After 3 years ,when the Guy has collected the Resident permit ,you will now start hearing strange stories like " Can't you contact the father of your daughter to buy her School uniform this term? It the same story whenever you visit New York or any State in America. My brother ,reflect very well.Learn your lessons and mistakes and move on . 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Saintmary(f): 1:35pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy:Sleeping alone is equal to singlehood. Being single is a good thing, but ending a marriage of 6 years based on hotheadedness is just plain stupid. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by faithfull18(f): 1:36pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
LegalOpinion:It swings both ways, same way we have for some men. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by wany(f): 1:37pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:I applaud your observations ,I taught I was the only that picked the pointers,dude sounds egoistic and loud. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Deltatoto: 1:37pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1:only a mad man will marry a woman that has a child before.that I didn’t meet u as a virgin u have to explain why talkless of u don born.God forbid bad thg 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nnemuka(f): 1:40pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
eni4real:You mean, do broke ladies exist? ofcourse them boku but men love broke women with no source of income Alfa men prefer broke women because they massage your ego and are very submissive whereas a rich hardworking single lady is actually a turn off for so many of you. Well back to the point, everybody deserves love, wherever you find one, you go for it. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by TheRedpillguy: 1:43pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: Lol you still don't get it. Its not a big deal to just burn a countries flag, when the president is talking just throw water on him, go ahead do it its just water no big deal. How about you walk to a mosque and give them holy communion. You friend concluded on her own to throw the guys weed out thinking its not a big deal without ever thinking the value the guy might have associated with his weed. This is why we say marriage is a prison. U women invade our spaces and flunt ur ideas restricting our life style in the process. Yeah how about I find your make up case and throw that shit out and the wig that looks like an animal why am it. When thy guy reacted to what is dear to him. What happens he got jailed. Becouse his wife who disrespect him without saying. "Hey babe, the babies don't need to see the weed less try to be careful wea we put it ok" (problem solved) is a cohort with a power hungry monster that want to send people to prison. Anyways good for the guy he can now do whatever he wants without an army of women in his face 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by phorget(m): 1:43pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
stupidity: If you don die before u reach 60 nko? |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by IJOBA2: 1:44pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
OKAFOR’S LAW |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by verycheese: 1:44pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: You are so rude and that's a fact. The exact crime of this single mother, we do not know, just an umbrella excuse, contacting her ex, how? Sleeping with him, talking about their child or what?? Mind you, you still have some growing up to do, advising everyone to not marry a single mother, imagine? So cis you had a bad experience now, all single mothers are bad? Where lies the wisdom? If one man has drowned, the rest of mankind should never swim again?? Anyways o rude and contrary to the saintly image of yourself that you have painted here, I know damn well you as well as the woman fell short in your maturity and look at childish you trying to emphasise her single mum status to score points. I pity the next gal that enter your trap. Mtw 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by OyinO: 1:44pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
First and foremost, IT IS NOT ONLY SINGLE MOM WHO CONTACTS THEIR EXs. Even a non-Baby-mama can still contact their former guys. What was the contacting about, is what really matters. If they're busy contacting the Ex for emotional or secual purposes, then, there's a BIG PROBLEM. Dear OP, you didn't elaborate on the nature of the contacts between your Woman and the father of her child. Was as she contacting him for sexual or intimate reasons, or just for the welfare of the kid(s)? If it was for the welfare of the kids, and you went ahead to suspect and expel her, then you're NOT WISE AND ALSO IMMATURE. Even if you marry a fresh lady without kid(s), remember she may be a repentant ashawo with multiple abortions and may still contact her own Ex. Contacting the Ex Baby Daddy is not the problem but the reasons for the contact is the main problem. And that, you didn't tell us. YOU CAN'T STOP YOUR STEP-KID from the Daddy-Kid relationship they should enjoy with their real father. If you try to stop it, you'll stop so many things because you have stopped a flow. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by livebyday(m): 1:46pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: Agreed 1 Like 1 Share |
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