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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by gnykelly(m): 1:48pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: I have seen similar cases... but women don't think logically they're emotional being and can always be swerve with sweet word by the same monster... she deserves a second chance...but left to me, I will pass 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by richPHAROAH: 1:49pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1:u where with her for 6 years? i am not getting this. i know most single mothers are a mess 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by tegafej(m): 1:49pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: Just shut it! 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Tunagee(m): 1:50pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
We4all: But communication btw her and the Father of her child should not be all the time 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by TheRedpillguy: 1:50pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Saintmary:Here is a possibility. Maybe the romance died, maybe the women starting getting Fat. Nigerian ladies just think love is a miracle and people should just get hard and fvck them even if they are not fvckable. Or maybe the woman is talking to a guy that has been fvcking her and probably going out to see him. Anyways whatever it is I think marriage is still a bad deal for men so good riddance 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by luminouz(m): 1:52pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: Are you just a friend or you want to marry her off? Your narrative has become very very personal sis 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by livebyday(m): 1:54pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
isthatso: @bolded , you hit the nail on the head !! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by ThatKING(m): 1:54pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Another reason why it's hard to cope with single mum. Women hardly find it easy to leave the father of their child 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by DNSPro: 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Shibaraba:baba u b full street... 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy:Heheheh. You are totally right about marriage being a prison. You men wanna do all sorts of rubbish and expected to be worshiped. You guys think you are demigods that should be worshipped, well, this generation of women are dishing it back to you guys without no remorse. And, marriages will keep breaking and everyone will lose something at the end of it. I swear the guy is lucky I'm not the one, the marriage won't only end, I will so turn his kids against him too. Did I read where you said she should have discussed with an adult on how not to be flaunting his weeds before their kids? She should also discuss with him how to eat, and bath too. Since as an adult, he is an Idi..ot that don't know what to do and not what to do. With this your mindset, please, I beg you, don't ever think of ruining someone's daughter life in the name of marriage, stay single and rock your weed life to eternity. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Resurgent2016: 1:57pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
oloriLFC: Truth is there is an increased risk of having a complicated relationship when dating a single mum or dad because rather than the conventional 2-party relationship, it have as much as 4 or 5 parties in it. Any man who isn't willing to bear such especially when the woman isn't matured enough to manage all the stakeholders properly should avoid it. And probably only few men can manage such. His friends probably read him the riot act and he ignore them, hence his regret 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
luminouz:I want to marry her off to you. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by DNSPro: 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
GeniusWannabe:I swear... I know a lot of guys that got married that can't keep up with their former activities again. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by zakkxx: 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Experience is the worst teacher because its gives u d leason b4 teaching u. I just learn from your experience if I decide to learn from my personal experience then I am a very big fool. only Marry a single mother if na chinekes gal; If u go carry slay queen wey na single mother she go slay u with problem inshort hypertension is your portion. obey this commandment and thank me later. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by livebyday(m): 1:58pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: How many kids does she have ? Updated: I saw it , three kids |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Godoverevery: 2:01pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
cococandy:try and read things with ur brain and not ur eye sis .....he said "in contact regularly" but I know u will never see that....sud a man be in constant contact with is baby mama while been married to another woman?..I will never take dat. u can be in contact but regularly hell no 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: a lot of what you said is very true. it's not the poor mans fault he was born to a poor family, but guess what he lives with the consequences....shit happens!!! Nobody is saying she doesn't have a right to happiness, All i am saying is she must be prepared to lower her standards as she herself is no longer a prime candidate. She is very unlikely to be able to marry the same calibre of man she did before she got maried and had kids. Right to happiness is just a theoretical concept it has no currency in the matching game!!! Good men will tell agree she has a right to happiness .....just not with them. Good men also have a right to peace, avoid stress and baggage in a marraige. So choose your marraige partners carefully with your head and not your heart because if it fails the consequences are for life!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by henzy4life: 2:02pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
I understand how painful it is but it's not a reason to generalize it among the Single Moms. Probably the lady in question is possessed by demon cos I don't see any reason why u should still have good thought about the person that put u in d mood of single mom to the extent of still having affairs with him. It's strange,there are still good ladies whether single Mom or not, just that they can't easily be identified streetsoldier1: |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by luminouz(m): 2:02pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: Lol....thanks sis. You defended her well too But can I suggest reconciliation? U know that woman married him knowing he smokes. When things get hard or lonely,can you support her through that? What of her kids? Separation between parents affect their psyche and messes things up. Although you love your friend but I have seen that most times the blame comes from both sides. My suggestions: Family meeting Church meeting |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by LOVEGINO(m): 2:03pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
thorpido:everything changes as soon as you marry her. Na so dem be. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
I know OP is vexed,so he is probably looking for closure to know if what he did was right or wrong .The truth is there is no right or wrong way to look at this matter.If she is a single mother who has an ex ,it is just normal the ex wants to know about the welfare of his kids if they are with her and her if they are with him. You should also know that the Warri proverb Alibaba said one time still holds,if he has entered, he can enter again...so you should have zero your mind you are with a woman with two husband, except of course maybe you completely relocate to another country,where the ex can only communicate by phone. I would just advice you look at the Good side of her,don't let this issue way you down. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Walkingkilo(m): 2:04pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Another confirmation to Ubunja's Miseducations 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by richPHAROAH: 2:07pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:is this one mad? 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by TheRedpillguy: 2:08pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60:Lol am way ahead of u sis. I already know that a woman is a total waste of time. I mean come on look at the type of evil you just spilled here. Ok should I talk to an adult abt rubbing chemicals that damage ur skin on ur face, or putting up plastic on ur head? Or buying shit u don't need. You are right we all going to loose something. To that I say Amen. Let it burn. And if I feed u, cloth u, protect u from danger then best belive am a Demigod, only a Demigod can stand in front of a bullet or a charging beast. Show some respect mortal. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 2:09pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
luminouz:Lol. Suggestion noted. She is more than a friend, she is a blood. Thanks. |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by henzy4life: 2:10pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
stupidity: |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by richPHAROAH: 2:11pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
imolile:u too get sense 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by maasoap(m): 2:11pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
stupidity: To her parents in their graves? |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by luminouz(m): 2:16pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
Swinger60: |
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 2:16pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy:I will rather be in danger, than, to have the same person who protects me from danger still inflict so much harm to me. Of what use is the protection then? You talk about clothing? You talk about feeding? In which century are you living not to known that women are bringing 50%if not 70% of the financial responsibility in their home these days. My dear, she is working, she has her own money. You think if she don't have money, she will thinking of paying for her own apartment by Tuesday.? Uncle, not all women are hungry. Mr Demigod, get over yourself.!! let the marriage crash, let's all go our separate ways, I have my freedom now, you too can have yours. Simple. 5 Likes |
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