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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by uboma(m): 11:00am On Jan 12, 2020
Quality20:
I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures


If a lady does not talk, you will feel worried.

Not that some of them are getting more outgoing, it still worries you.

Why not go look for those who still prefers to hide under their shells and leave the ones that have chosen to come out of their shells for us.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by uboma(m): 11:01am On Jan 12, 2020
chiommy123:
I don't have any problem with them socialising, talking or looking at any guy the way they want but I have serious problem with them showing the world their boobs and bums all in the name of being sexy and you see some mothers praising them


I concur.

A lady does not need to expose her body to be liked/admired by a man.
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.
You couldn’t hide your religion bigotry.
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by luminouz(m): 12:18pm On Jan 12, 2020
Jewessgratitude:



Well....you can't generalize when you haven't met every girl.
I am still shy especially when someone I like is talking to me. I can't look him in the eyes. Like seriously at my age. But if I dont feel anything for you, wetin? I'll look on top of your head jor!! Hehehe... Though in some cases even when Im not into you and you're way older and chyking me, hey I can't look at you o. It made one man ask me one day, come how old are you, when I told him and he was like wow, mehn..I tot you're 22 bla bla you're doing like a small girl. You dont look it. Look at me when I talking to u. Still, I couldn't look at bobo's face o hahaha..

I guess its the way one was brought up. My dad was very very strict. He'll beat you up if he sees you standing with a guy those days. So we kukuma maintain.

So, yea there are still shy girls like us.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jan 12, 2020
planetx13:
How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao





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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Daviddson(m): 2:08pm On Jan 12, 2020
The hyper sexual liberality and lack of shame cut across both genders. Like how do you explain how a normal young man would register a Nairaland account choosing monikers containing the word dickk, pen*s and v*****?

Twenty years ago, no one would have imagined that anybody would be that foolish, but these guys have been shamelessly opening such kind of monikers every day.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by AryEmber(f): 2:37pm On Jan 12, 2020
Cassandra, are you shy? Why shall I shy?
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
You shy?
HahahahababHah grin

True! That is going by the post o. But if its to address a large crowd, I can cos as a sunday teacher, I take a large class. Not just a class of only members but senior ministers/pastors. in this case im not shy and is quite different from what the Op is saying.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CharlotteFlair: 3:18pm On Jan 12, 2020
Jewessgratitude:


True! That is going by the post o. But if its to address a grin large crowd, I can cos as a sunday teacher, I take a large class. Not just a class of only members but senior ministers/pastors. in this case im not shy and is quite different from what the Op is saying.
Abii.. from the cool Lagos babe of yesterday to Sunday school teacher of senior ministers today. Are you a marlian? grin
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by frozen70(f): 3:31pm On Jan 12, 2020
Quality20:
I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures

The kind of exposure girls are having these days are giving them wrong impression about life, love and relationships

They are in a hurry to taste life, alcohol, sex and wear provocative dresses to attract men, forgetting that they ate the worst heat

Men too are ready to take them to places just to prove to ladies that they are capable

All these nowade them to have high taste and loose self respect

So for them to aspire with all these, theyust remove shame and that's where they lose the grip of being discipline
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
Abii.. from the cool Lagos babe of yesterday to Sunday school teacher of senior ministers today. Are you a marlian? grin

Yeah... I'm a cool babe. I'm not razz.
Who says as a sunday school teacher i can't catch fun in a modest way? Let there be temperament in all you do.

Yes I go to Eko Hotel and suits to have their buffet just to give myself a nice treat either with my female friends or alone. Nothing more. Or is that a crime? Oh....you think the only way to enjoy life and have fun is to go out with a man.? Funny you.
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Stone03: 4:29pm On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.


And just for the fear of being tagged boring, the girls are yielding to these risky erotic demands of men?. What about the female dancers that dances nude while the male singer is on suit and tie? Sweetie, the preservation of the world's morality is primarily the responsibility of the women. Their failure is the failure of the men and family. Try to understand the foundation upon which the world is built.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by kindy51(m): 6:19pm On Jan 12, 2020
planetx13:
How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao





You own craze no be here I swear
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CharlotteFlair: 6:57pm On Jan 12, 2020
Stone03:


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And just for the fear of being tagged boring, the girls are yielding to these risky erotic demands of men?. What about the female dancers that dances nude while the male singer is on suit and tie? Sweetie, the preservation of the world's morality is primarily the responsibility of the women. Their failure is the failure of the men and family. Try to understand the foundation upon which the world is built.
I agree, but it's a man's world remember. Demand is commensurate with supply. Meaning, if the men don't patronize prostitutes, they gonna go out of business.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Auladimeji(m): 8:10pm On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.
This is result of watching blue films
I'm someone that can't give head to a girl but since I started watching porn,I always try to practice what I watch in the porn with my Gf.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Phenomenal16(f): 8:50pm On Jan 12, 2020
Jewessgratitude:



Well....you can't generalize when you haven't met every girl.
I am still shy especially when someone I like is talking to me. I can't look him in the eyes. Like seriously at my age. But if I dont feel anything for you, wetin? I'll look on top of your head jor!! Hehehe... Though in some cases even when Im not into you and you're way older and chyking me, hey I can't look at you o. It made one man ask me one day, come how old are you, when I told him and he was like wow, mehn..I tot you're 22 bla bla you're doing like a small girl. You dont look it. Look at me when I talking to u. Still, I couldn't look at bobo's face o hahaha..

I guess its the way one was brought up. My dad was very very strict. He'll beat you up if he sees you standing with a guy those days. So we kukuma maintain.

So, yea there are still shy girls like us.
....ahhhh!!!....I av seen my colleague....
Do u know that it got to a point I was reading a book on how to be bold to guys ...especially if I av a thing for u
I can be so shy ehhhh....most ppl know me for that....
My ex will always hold my face upward to look at his face..lol.....it can be this bad shaa
But now it's reducing small small...but am still shy...
Anyway its well
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:42pm On Jan 12, 2020
OmoAlakija:
Youruba girls will form shy for you even when they want ur d*ck , Igbo girls are the real deal and best to date. Note I'm a Yoruba guy.



Naso
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:44pm On Jan 12, 2020
Jodha:
Why should a girl be shy?

What about niggurs.... previously it'll take 7 Eke market days for a guy to brace up and ask a girl out...

But now niggurs get mind....even small boys no dey fear again..


Right from time niggurs no dey shy, na the cowardly one dey shy
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Ryan03(f): 10:41pm On Jan 12, 2020
planetx13:
How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao





you happen to be the fool and the senseless one here. Your mention will not be replied, shove it up your dirty ass
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Jodha(f): 12:42am On Jan 13, 2020
Tajbol4splend:



Right from time niggurs no dey shy, na the cowardly one dey shy

Right from which time...?... Back in the days niggurs be just be in one corner crushing on yhu...they hardly muster the courage to speak...


Lately some niggurs can even foolishly walk to yhu and boldly demand for sex...the world don spoil
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by profilemessages: 4:35am On Jan 13, 2020
I downloaded inmessage app yesterday, omo come and see plenty girls for there, I was like, what the hell? even above 40 women too were there, are all women now who.res?
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:19am On Jan 13, 2020
Jodha:


Right from which time...?... Back in the days niggurs be just be in one corner crushing on yhu...they hardly muster the courage to speak...


Lately some niggurs can even foolishly walk to yhu and boldly demand for sex...the world don spoil


Even lately some grown up niggurs can't woo a woman
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:22am On Jan 13, 2020
profilemessages:
I downloaded inmessage app yesterday, omo come and see plenty girls for there, I was like, what the hell? even above 40 women too were there, are all women now who.res?



What's the app do?

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