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Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by MrFly(m): 9:04am On Jan 15, 2020 |
travel and meet her parents, open up and hear their response then make a choice |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by grandstar(m): 9:06am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Platini7 Is your wife so jealous? It doesn't add up. Has she caught you cheating before? There seems to be a lack of trust. I don't think she trusts you. That maybe tte fundamental problem. The threat may be an empty threat to drum a message into your head that she won't tolerate cheating of any kind. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Youthleader22(m): 9:06am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Platini7: The only thing I can tell you is that I think you made a mistake marrying her in the first place. You knew she had a relationship back in the states. Did she tell you she quit it before marrying her. I can never marry a woman who feels she's the one dictating the pace. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by midnighter(f): 9:10am On Jan 15, 2020 |
freshvine: Thank you dear People trying to dig holes in the mans post and interrogate him over nothing...he will answer them..they will still keep repeating the same question again instead of giving reasonable advice Facebook post that I will be monitoring without telling the guy is what somebody will use to voluntarily eliminate herself back to America smh some people are kids |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by sisisioge: 9:13am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Madam bin wan port...good luck sire. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by statusquoante: 9:24am On Jan 15, 2020 |
freshvine: God bless you ma... Coming from a lady, I am impressed... It's obvious the lady is tired of the marriage and looking for the simplest/flimsiest excuse to leave. When a woman is tired of a marriage and wants to leave, the marriage is OVER! |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Tajudeenogele: 9:32am On Jan 15, 2020 |
She has her own motive which is unknown to u, she just use that has excused to carry out her plan |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by MANNABBQGRILLS: 9:36am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Youthleader22:Look at others above you making intellectual contribution. But look at what you just posted! Do you at least have any meaningful contribution to make? This is an intelligent forum for crying out loud. Don't you have any reasonable contribution to make? Stop typing for typing sake. Shame! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Greatfullheart: 9:38am On Jan 15, 2020 |
SmellingAnus:shekpe 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Liposure: 9:40am On Jan 15, 2020 |
2 be frank, Your wife is being childish. She has no case here. Make sure u recover child |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by capnies: 9:41am On Jan 15, 2020 |
If her parents are alive tell them the truth and watch their reactions. Don't be on the begging side that could mean your guilty. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Ladycewhy(f): 9:41am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Are you sure this is the case? Cos i don't see the issue here o, i am sure facebook shows the date the comment was made except you skipped something cos me i don't understand this one at all. If this is really true ,i think the best thing for you to do is to go and tell her people what is going on.if she was sure it was serious she should have told her family. You better travel down to her father's house and let them know what their daughter is up to.This lady needs to tell you the real reason cos this one nor follow at all. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by statusquoante: 9:46am On Jan 15, 2020 |
cococandy: That exactly is the case. The lady has been managing him thus far. She just got the perfect excuse to leave... |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Greatfullheart: 9:47am On Jan 15, 2020 |
pocohantas:she's looking for excuse to leave, over a mistake and the guy on the other his silly jokes has come back to hunt him
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Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by kiddkash(m): 9:49am On Jan 15, 2020 |
pocohantas:chai! na mannabgrills nai grill that plantain wey turn black?
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Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by poik(m): 9:52am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Platini7: If the unbelieving depart, let them depart. A brother or sister is not bound in such cases. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Chubhie: 9:53am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Just last week, she stumbled on those posts i made in 2010-2011 and got really heartbroken and upset. Right now, even after pleading with her, she says she wants to quit the marriage. She packed a few of her stuff and travelled home to Abia state from our base in Lagos. So far, what she told her family in the east is that she just came back to visit them for a little while because she couldn't come back during xmas.Men are really suffering in marriages. One just have to be extremely cautious when making that single decision to live out your life with someone. I've seen this theme play out in different scenarios. When a woman arrives at that emotional conclusion, There's nothing you can do about it. Let her go or you spend the rest of your life explaining and apologising. Some women and manipulation with the excuse of being on their period is mad oh.... |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Manero(m): 9:53am On Jan 15, 2020 |
The reason she got married to you is to have a Son, now she got what she wanted. It's better you look for how to get your son back and move on with your life. Inside Life............Ninu Aye |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by dasauce(m): 9:54am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Easy brah....you should drink water excessively today...cuz it's obvious your blood dey hot mikezuruki: |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by cococandy(f): 9:55am On Jan 15, 2020 |
statusquoante: I see. I thing absolutely wrong with his 10 year old troll account aka hidden identity account that he’s still operating huh? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by nnaeyes6: 9:56am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Choi. Ogbanje has taken over ur wife. Besides, u are seen this issue. Men nowadays are just weak o. In fact, I recommend u start watching old Pet Edochie films again. As she has travelled with ur child, no long thing. If u allow her to just come back like that, she will be doing this rubbish every time u have issues. Break her wings. Move all her belongings to her village and warn her not to step foot in ur house again and be mean about it. Change it for the family not to even think of coming with that silly woman 100meters from ur home. Bull shit. Get a fucking woman and be charging ur battery and if is possible, just get another wife. Which kind witch be this? |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by statusquoante: 9:57am On Jan 15, 2020 |
cococandy: Has he used the account to flirt since they got married at least |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Chubhie: 9:58am On Jan 15, 2020 |
mikezuruki:Or maybe OP is a yahoo boy. Operating dating accounts. Op, better come clean. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by cococandy(f): 9:59am On Jan 15, 2020 |
statusquoante: Ask him. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by statusquoante: 10:01am On Jan 15, 2020 |
cococandy: He already said so. My question was a rhetorical one... |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by grandstar(m): 10:03am On Jan 15, 2020 |
pocohantas: You heard his story--what about hers? The story is incomplete. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by dasauce(m): 10:03am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Madam, you go get problem gan oo... He already explain that he doesn't want to be seen on Facebook, so he created a decoy account to chat with mutual friends.. na wa to you oo Jewessgratitude: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by grandstar(m): 10:04am On Jan 15, 2020 |
izzou: I don't think he told us everything? It's deeper than that. Hear the other side 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by laiza(m): 10:05am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ogbeni you have no case to answer joor. If she is threatening to leave you over a 10 year old comment ogah ade let her go. That is after fulfilling all righteousness oh. Plead with her to stay and all, but if she insists abbeg bye bye to rada rada in this 2020. That being said, women are wired differently shaa. If your woman dont get angry at stuff like this then she doesnt really love you. Let her have her time, pet her and woo her again. This advice is only when you realize it is needed oh, no be default setting I take God beg you oh. Someone more deserving of you will come along. All the best sir, but most importantly, hustle so no woman will ever threaten you like that ever again. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by MMXX: 10:09am On Jan 15, 2020 |
simplepee:what are you on about now Marriage is for better n for worst or has this saying gone extinct.Even at that sef,what kind of flimsy n stupid reason she gave for wanting to leave after one year of staying with him.if she makes a fuss n leave for something as trivial as this,how much more when something significant hit them |
Re: My Wife Wants To Leave Me by DeeMain(m): 10:15am On Jan 15, 2020 |
There may be another perspective to this story. Why would you open multiple fake accounts on Facebook?Why don't you want people to see you on Facebook but like to monitor others? What are you hiding from or running away from all these years? What is the nature of your businesses online and offline? Who are you? Maybe the reason your wife ran away is deeper than she's letting on? What she says and what she feels may be two different things. Maybe it's a huge trust issue or maybe she doesn't know nor understand you, the guy she married, because of some of your antecedents. This Facebook chyking story may not be the full story but just be a tip of the iceberg that triggers her to plot her escape. Nothing personal bro. May be wrong. Just playing devil's advocate and trying to make sense out of this conundrum. 2 Likes |
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