You chercha, you trouva
you trouva,you supporta

want my candid advice,if she finally comes around to accept u,then u must be very careful because if u try dat again,she could really hurt you.

do not sleep dude. she is going to cut your pecker off.

Ayeisha:

Clearly, this man is placing this woman that he cheated with and is probably still cheated with in front of you and your emotions!

He does not love you. He just does not want to lose you as it would break his manhood.

It seems he uses this art of juggling two women as validation of his manhood.

He only dangles her over your head in conversation to keep you in the place in which he wants you: Groveling at his feet, pleading with him, submissive, his pet.

If you marry this man you will suffer from years of instability, insecurity, feelings of inadequacy, and pure torture.

You will be cooking, cleaning, washing, and making love to a man who will not be making love to you!

He does not love you. He is trying to enslave you.  Don't you see he shows no remorse for what he has done. He is a jerk. Leave now while you're still young and vibrant and get with a real man.

Find a man who will love, respect, and cherish you. A man who will show you he loves you with actions not with words. We women often fall victim to the magic of words and that is just ridiculous.

I say, "You love me? So show me? I need to see this love not hear this love." Hearing something does not make it valid. These things we hear are intangible pieces of useless information.

How are you showing someone you love them by cheating on them 3 times and they have the nerve to throw it back up in the persons face time and time again. You have to corroborate your words with actions!

It's a done deal! Hands down, he is a joke and a loser. If you stick with him this is what your union would be. A downward spiral of uneccessary torture.

How can you focus on your career or raising your children while being preoccupied with the depression cultivated by the actions of a useless, adulterous husband?

Preach it sista, pr-re-ea-ach!! 

Those who have ears to hear, let them hear!

Don't mind the guy, I guess he was proving his love to his girlfriend by cheating on her. . . . . .stupidity 101.

sillyboy:

@ poster.
My guy, you can still put things back the way they should be. You'll only have to follow the theory of "iron sharpenth iron". This is what you do. Start to cheat her all over again, my guess is that, when she realises you are cheating her again, she'll be knocked off. She'll feel hurt and not justified like she's feeling right now. When you are sure she's now hurt again, you now try as much as possible to be caring.

WARNING. In as much as this could work, it could destroy whatever little thing she must feel for you right now. So you must be ready to take the worst. If you ask,I think you should try, afterall you are already loosing her.

Ha-ha-ha-ha. . . . .una no go kill person for here o! On a serious note though. . . .cheating and 'respect' do NOT go together. In fact, cheating has a way of killing any form of respect a person could have for his partner, especially when you think of the deceit, trauma and pretence that accompanies the whole thing. Someone needs to tell the original poster the whole truth.

i thought i was harsh n -ve but now i realise NLers r worse,
i will never bring my problem here,

Guy. . .you've lost her. . .accept it. . ._{As a consolation prize for yourself. . .end the relationship before she does . . .it will help you deal with the pain better}

d truth is dat, we do not realise d importance of wat we ve got until dey slip our fingers!!! I really hope she kicks ur Ass really gud cos a leopard can neva change its skin, once a cheat alwayz a cheat, CHEATER!!! Lol

see boyz who are lucky enough to have well behaved virgins recklessly misbehaving. on the other hand, nice dudes like me have not been lucky enough to find one .

oh! what a crazy world!

Why do you men behave like goats like this ehn ? How do you expect her to respect you?