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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by lovchalice(f): 8:00pm On Jan 21, 2020
Depending on the agreement you have at the beginning of the relationship
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by timothydare(m): 8:00pm On Jan 21, 2020
QueenSuccubus:
Me: NO.

We should have the freedom to choose who we want to marry sha..
freedom to choose who we want 2 marry bt no freedom 2 choose who we love 2 Bleep abi?.Bleep u
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 21, 2020
How on earth can a man be forced to marry? Especially a woman of such easy virtue.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 21, 2020
Yessssssssss
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Gudlite: 8:04pm On Jan 21, 2020
I would not support the idea of forcing a man to marry somebody, any man that is having sex with a lady is not ignorant of the likely outcome and will be wicked of him to destroy the future of the girl after impregnating her. Men hardly marry a single mother.
Our ladies should be matured enough to know what they want in a relationship and not just to have sex.
Forceful marriage is bad and
Single mother is bad too

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Sam2310(m): 8:04pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?
wait till one happen to your daughter, then u will understand better.
Note:am not wishing u bad sha.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by captain247: 8:08pm On Jan 21, 2020
To every action there is equal and opposite reaction.
If you're not responsible enough please don't go near any woman period!
Many of them clamouring child support how many percentage of men keeps to the child support law? And what about the damage to the woman's body, emotions and pains of heart break with her future that will then take a twist of faith by this incident?

Even the constitution supports Child rights.
The right of a child to identity, origin, and self-actualization.
A man had been married under customary and statutory laws to several women at different times but was divorced from all, formally or at will. He also happened to have a son born out of marriage. Now an adult, this son was the only one among all the man's “legitimate” children who dutifully stayed by the man's bedside and at his burial. As he attended to his father's last rites, this young man was inevitably faced with the question of his status and identity.
If you pregnate a lady please ensure you do the right thing life require from you.

In Exodus 22:16 the bible says
"If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife.

But here we are talking about forcing a pregnant lady to a man. May God have mercy on us all.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by tck2000(m): 8:09pm On Jan 21, 2020
N2B2:
No.

But, they should be forced to pay child support. No one asks if the lady wants to marry the guy? Guys forced to marry ladies they impregnate often take their anger out on their wives.

Forced Marriage should be a No. If you give her bele, then you pay Child Support till that kid turns 18. If you no get money for child support, then you gast go find work.

Do it this way and there'll be lesser unwanted pregnancies.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by TemmyT002(m): 8:12pm On Jan 21, 2020
If the guy cannot be forced to marry the babe, punishments should be given to such guys.
Wetin concern me sef

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by dazzlingd(m): 8:12pm On Jan 21, 2020
Yes...

U see girl, u toast am, u bury ur prick inside raw, u pour inside and u no wan marry..you dey mad

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nwaonyishi69: 8:15pm On Jan 21, 2020
Nothing is absolutely right or wrong it is the thinking and circumstances that guide actions and judgements.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Funkybabee(f): 8:16pm On Jan 21, 2020
Lols!!
So that the woman will bear all pregnancy pain, or to be tag an irresponsible single mom..


Yes to your question as far as he could meet with her to result to a child.. He must be forced
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by fabienjoe: 8:16pm On Jan 21, 2020
Splinz:
Yes. shocked

If coercion is the only means of prevailing on one, an irresponsible fellow at that, to take up responsibility for his genital-controlled-sense, then that's fine.

Or who is there among fertile men, wanting to have an unprotected sex with a woman, wouldn't know that chances of getting her pregnant is high?

I can only think of a dickhead.

Getting someone pregnant is a biological process. It naturally takes its course. Marriage is a lot more complex...above all, it goes with consciousness and responsibility. You can't ghost through it. It cannot work if both parties don't commit to it. At the risk of sounding sexist, I think women should be the ones to make the biggest decisions in these matters because they're the ones to live with the pregnancy and all its disruptions. Men of course should equally be responsible but I don't think any woman would be pleased to carry the baby of an irresponsible man who most times, walk away unscathed. Any woman sleeping with a man unprotected must be sure she can deal with the consequences. It cannot be a trap for marriage.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by DavidEsq(m): 8:17pm On Jan 21, 2020
stupidity:
this guy sef, I hope you are now a professor of English and corrections in Cambridge. angry
U and everyone who liked ur comment are the reason Nigeria is where it is, educationally, today.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Jehar: 8:18pm On Jan 21, 2020
[No be small shop grin ;Dquote author=funmisticqueen2 post=85990443]Gbam. Ladies should also close shop[/quote]
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Airoflaw(m): 8:19pm On Jan 21, 2020
GrammarNazi1:

Were Davido and Wizkid...
as long as money is coming in for the baby mama, what else
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by samwash(m): 8:19pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?





"You Know Nothing, Jon Snow"
I think you don't know the emotional, physiological, social-status, spiritual,.... Damage the man(the woman also) has cause to both families.
Op I don't pray it happens to you as a father,
Then you will have a better answer ( judgement) to this question or suitation.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by fortran12: 8:20pm On Jan 21, 2020
Say no to fornication
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by dermmy(m): 8:20pm On Jan 21, 2020
GrammarNazi1:

Were Davido and Wizkid...

A true grammar Nazi.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by grandstar(m): 8:21pm On Jan 21, 2020
Shotgun marriages don't work. If a pregnancy is involved, a love child is the outcome of an immoral life.

Marriage should be based on compatibility and love and it shouldn't be through coercion.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by DavidEsq(m): 8:22pm On Jan 21, 2020
captain247:
To every action there is equal and opposite reaction.
If you're not responsible enough please don't go near any woman period!
Many of them clamouring child support how many percentage of men keeps to the child support law? And what about the damage to the woman's body, emotions and pains of heart break with her future that will then take a twist of faith by this incident?

Even the constitution supports Child rights.
The right of a child to identity, origin, and self-actualization.

A man had been married under customary and statutory laws to several women at different times but was divorced from all, formally or at will. He also happened to have a son born out of marriage. Now an adult, this son was the only one among all the man's “legitimate” children who dutifully stayed by the man's bedside and at his burial. As he attended to his father's last rites, this young man was inevitably faced with the question of his status and identity.
If you pregnate a lady please ensure you do the right thing life require from you.

In Exodus 22:16 the bible says
"If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife.

But here we are talking about forcing a pregnant lady to a man. May God have mercy on us all.
U can see u are contradicting urself. Having cited the constitution which abolished illegitimacy of a child, u went ahead to again resurrect an already dead concept by citing an example already abolished by the constitution.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Eaglefine(f): 8:28pm On Jan 21, 2020
Yes!!!!
Oga, u must marry her ooo
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jan 21, 2020
Placing value on marriage over happiness and peace of mind is the reason why people are stuck in toxic marriages. They can't leave because wee value the word marriage more than the people in it. some of uur societal norms are just sick
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Brymo4all(m): 8:32pm On Jan 21, 2020
Thanks very much.
I didn't even close the account.
It's still active.

Ijawwomaninoyo:


Don't mind him, it is sent by banks to all customers even if you have stopped banking with them but you didn't close the account officially.
It should be an error.

Happy birthday to you, wishing you a blissful day.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by deebrain(m): 8:32pm On Jan 21, 2020
Does the unborn child deserve to have his/her father and mother together raising him/her up?

Stay away from sleeping around with people you are not married to, especially when you are not ready for the responsibility of being a RESPONSIBLE parent.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by BabbanBura(m): 8:36pm On Jan 21, 2020
GrammarNazi1:

Were Davido and Wizkid...

"Were Davido and Wizkid..." - Mr. Oversabi!

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by martinmiller: 8:36pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?

on a lighter note, only without the pregnancy! after all you knew you impregnated the said individual why won't you take up the responsibility as a husband and a father.

Stay out of premarital sex to avoid pain full experience, or else you will be forced ..

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by JuicyStar: 8:38pm On Jan 21, 2020
The question should also be, do the lady want to marry the guy that impregnated her? No be all belle be proceed of love. Marry or no marry, both parents should be responsible for bringing up the child.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by hibeebeeking: 8:39pm On Jan 21, 2020
You give person belle, u say them no go force u marry the person. Thou it not good to force people to marry,but u should always enter someone whom you know that when it happen ,u are free to go.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by sweetonugbu: 8:39pm On Jan 21, 2020
davo90tico:

Simply put money stops nonsense bro
that is the simple truth

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Acidosis(m): 8:43pm On Jan 21, 2020
No!
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by bonnyhope: 8:43pm On Jan 21, 2020
QueenSuccubus:
Me: NO.

We should have the freedom to choose who we want to marry sha..

Then learn to control ur dick

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