Ishilove:
DUMP HIS STINGY ASS. Love is giving and if he is too stingy to give then he isn't worth it. The best way to handle mofos like him is stop giving him. When he comes to your place, give him cold water to drink. When you go to his place, make sure you eat well before reaching there. Don't buy him gifts. Call him on WhatsApp call (don't use your credit to call).

Don't spend a dime in his stingy ass and give him as hard as he gives you. Tit for tat.

Kekereekun123:
The guy has done nothing wromg. He comes to visit you from lagos. Na u pay him tfare. Working class ladies of today are a shame. They earn money and want u to still feeding them.

nairalanduseles:


You are so rude and disrespectful

You can never attract any man

You will only attract your kind

You sound very bitter and frustrated

Shoe get size

Me and you can never be in the same category

You stink

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Petyprincess:
I can't cope at all!!

nairalanduseles:


You are so rude and disrespectful

You can never attract any man

You will only attract your kind

You sound very bitter and frustrated

Shoe get size

Me and you can never be in the same category

You stink

your family is very poor nah , of course you won't cope in that kind of situation.
No go find work
Be waiting for someone else's son to foot the bill.
Valueless girl.
Without your sexual organs you offer no value to any unfortunate guy stupid enough to date your type.

Petyprincess:
I can't cope at all!!

nairalanduseles:


No am not broke

I have been living in Canada for over 10 years now

When I visit my partner in another suburb she appreciates the fact I can come spend time with her

She is not after gifts

You have not met real girls

Real girls appreciate your presence

organism3:
what of stingy girlfriends?

Ishilove:
DUMP HIS STINGY ASS. Love is giving and if he is too stingy to give then he isn't worth it. The best way to handle mofos like him is stop giving him. When he comes to your place, give him cold water to drink. When you go to his place, make sure you eat well before reaching there. Don't buy him gifts. Call him on WhatsApp call (don't use your credit to call).

Don't spend a dime in his stingy ass and give him as hard as he gives you. Tit for tat.

pocohantas:


Toor! The ones that attracted una, how far?

Nice girls like OP, forming non-materialistic. Naso una dey knack them heartbreak. Come call them fish brain.

Oga, we can’t o. Category that gives only companionship? Kuku turn to dog, make I put choker and chain dey drag you. Bingo!

Petyprincess:
I can't cope at all!!

olaniyilukman:
My dear lady, I will humbly advice you to exercise alot of patience with him. In my own view, the guy is watching all what you are doing for him and he decided to keep mute about the development, he might have been discussing your issue with his friends as well and might even be proud of you in proxy. Such guy do take care of girls walahi, I swear you will enjoy him to the fullest if you exercise alot patience...

annex1:


☝️Go Girl!

tabithababy:
Op, I beg you , forget the guy

Or prepare to feed him, his kids, his family and side chicks from your own money

He keeps seeing you as a fo'ool.... Am very sure you are giving him free sex, money, food and even calling him with your money

Loove ooooo

organism3:
what of stingy girlfriends?

AntiWailer:
Get a job.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Austineva:
. How I wish I can be that stingy but I don't know, anytime I try, it doesn't work on me. I tell u

mharyamikeola92:


I really don’t lyk going out..But I don’t know how some1 will travel from Lagos to Osun without buying common bread

Vega100:


I now understand why u looking for a a new Boyfriend Bestie,

Well being serious on this one, that guy is a no good!!! I'll strongly advise you break up with him! End it, don't make the mistake of marrying him, a guy that has never spent a kobo on you, will definitely reciprocate the same in marriage and that will not last.
A man that claims to be in love with someone to marry, should be responsible enough to share things he has, and vice versa (the woman should be able to as well)
Now this is on the premise that you also share what you have with him.
But if it happens to be a case where you are also treating him the same way, then I'll say both of you fit yourselves, and deserve to be together!, unfortunately na una kids go suffer am.

Before you leave him though, it will be good you tell him why u leaving, so he can hopefully learn and improve on his subsequent relationships because needs to learn the place of responsibility to be a husband!..

If I may ask, what state are you and how old are you?

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.