nairalanduseles:


You got no self worth

That is why you meet people like your kind

You are not exposed

You really need to leave nigeria and start mixing with ladies who have a job and pay bills

No one who pays bills expect from people....

cooluzi:
what do u mean by free sex,are sex meant to be paid for?

mharyamikeola92:


I ave my own job and a well paying job..I don’t need a man to b dere financially but is there a big deal in a man buying gifts for some1 he claims to love not necessarily money

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

ambient:


Nne run! A guy that loves you will want to spend on you even though its little...working or not.pls dont settle for less your kids will suffer oooo

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

AfroKnight:


See, once I hear a girl call a guy stingy, my respect for her drops.

Stingy and broke girls are always quick to call guys stingy. They can’t spend one kobo on their men but they want to collect “allawee”.

On her birthday, she gets a gift. On his own birthday, she still asks him to take her out and spend on her. And these babes see nothing wrong with this kind of behaviour.

Evercurious:


My dear pls stop all this' I ve my money and I dont need his'.. The truth is that YOU NEED HIS MONEY.. IF HE CANT SPEND HIS MONEY ON YOU, HE DOESNT VALUE YOU. WALK AWAY AND SEE HIM RUN AFTER YOU. BUT NEVER GO BACK TO HIM.

If you want to know the truth, he spends that money on another lady you think and feel is not up to your standard.. Pls dump that 'i m independent' idea you have in your head.it won't work here. Try to form 'needy' atimes

I have been in same situation

alexistaiwo:
Read five pages of mostly trashy comments from my fellow guys and yours take the cake.
People like you are the reason women see relationships as a poverty alleviation programme.

What is the boyfriend concern if one of her family members need financial assistance, is he the grand patron of her family?

Vega100:


It is because of people like you I now pay every lady I f*uck, and now see all like sex workers, na still because of people like you to see wife done hard me, despite how hard I try!!!
E no go better for all the women like you when don make every girl look like common prostitutes, e no go better for all of una one bit, the God i serve go punish all of una finish and make it also hard for you to see any good thing in this life.

Amen!!!

TheRedpillguy:

You are a strong and independent woman. You don't need men to give you anything, you only need men for children. In my feminist voice.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

donstan18:

See this one oooo...

So because he was bold enough to take his money back as agreed without any atom of shame, you are pissed?

Why were you surprised he took it back?


Was that not your agreement with him?

What a bold man he is, if men can be that bold to you women, we won't have much complaints from men.

Is the 5k issue the only thing you saw? That's pretty bad. She said he has never given her a common 10 Naira. When coming around, she buys everything, cooks for him but he never ever brings anything along. That's a poor attitude.


Nonesense and POS.

jaxxy:


As far as ur story is concerned he hasn’t done anything really wrong. U asked for money and said u will return it back and it is what shud be expected unless u don’t mean to keep ur word which is a bad sign on its own.

If u ask me to borrow u 2naira I expect it back unless u bring it up and I say don’t bother because u used the word “borrow me”. Doesn’t mean I can’t dash u 10naira just like that. If u act like u never borrowed anything I might forget it bt it’s a concern for me in keeping ur word. Thats how I am. I also get disturbed if i borrow and don’t return.

If u want to ask for Smtn to test if he cares or is stingy like u said then ask him directly and see how he may react. Don’t assume pls.

pocohantas:


I ask you again, you expect the woman to
-Cook
-Clean
-Be submissive.
-Have a womb.
-Birth healthy babies.
-Respect your family.
-Go to your village every Xmas and wash your mother’s clothes.
-Entertain your friends when they come.
-Put the family before her career, while watching you go high in yours.

Then they ask you to provide, you talk of companionship. Oga, are you a human Love Machine??
Don’t you have shame?

Don’t tell me about how they have sex with me. Even the ones una no give money, una still call them fishbrain. Una say them be cheerful givers.

Abeg. If you have to eat frog, eat fat big juicy one. Show them no mercy!!!

donstan18:

See this one oooo...

So because he was bold enough to take his money back as agreed without any atom of shame, you are pissed?

Why were you surprised he took it back?


Was that not your agreement with him?

What a bold man he is, if men can be that bold to you women, we won't have much complaints from men.


Nonesense and POS.

pocohantas:


I ask you again, you expect the woman to
-Cook
-Clean
-Be submissive.
-Have a womb.
-Birth healthy babies.
-Respect your family.
-Go to your village every Xmas and wash your mother’s clothes.
-Entertain your friends when they come.
-Put the family before her career, while watching you go high in yours.

Then they ask you to provide, you talk of companionship. Oga, are you a human Love Machine??
Don’t you have shame?

Don’t tell me about how they have sex with me. Even the ones una no give money, una still call them fishbrain. Una say them be cheerful givers.

Abeg. If you have to eat frog, eat fat big juicy one. Show them no mercy!!!

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

NwaIgboBoy:
give that guy a virus ....

1StopRudeness:


This is Nigeria....sex is meant to be paid for...whether directly in an olosho arrangement or indirectly in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship

Either ways, u gotta pay....

Glink2018:


I know this craps will come from one of these typically naija ladies. Nah suppose to thank una God say visa policy to some of these great countries is hard to get....if some of our naija guys have access to travel abroad, so many naija ladies will die single including you.

Petyprincess:
I can't cope at all!!

Smhaykins:


I av bin testing u all dis yle... Now u don fall my hand bye bringing our matter here...

Seun360:


With that ur small yansh?

SweetCunt97:
Simply start playing the stingy game cos ryt now seems its only his Diick that's on the table. Who only Diick help? Is that the only thing he can offer?