This lady has been to my house twice yet she won't allow me touch her.
Just don't want to force her and I have always let her have her way.
She is someone who thinks she is smart and I am kind off well no need to force anyone it should be willingly.
The worst thing is that she would shout if I touch.
I plan to have her around again and let her know if she wouldn't let me have my way then she must leave.
On the second thought she love romance and I don't know romantic play or gist.
I am just trying to figure out what to do.

And may woman have asked me this, why am I not romantic.

Baba relax. Let me give you a tip. Leave a porn disc in your player, when ever she comes around, suggest watching a movie, let it start playing while you leave to go buy something, pretend you have no idea and watch the magic happen. Thank me later.

So a lady took her time to visit you nd all you could think of is sex? Typical Nigerian guy mentality!! For her to even want romance with you you should be glad bt yet you still complaining,she's really smart because she knows what your plan is that you just wanted sex nd nothing more!! What happens to watching Netflix together? Cooking together nd spending some nice time together but no!! you will never think that way nd y'all will start opening thread complaining that lady dnt visit or putting you on suspense,thats the reason we don't like visiting you guys at home.
Please better call her nd tell her your intention so she wnt bother coming next time!!

That's Nigerian women for you.... Great pretenders..... when you finally get in there, it might be as wide as Sahara desert and an odour that could kill a pig..... Bunch of confused dimwits.

Petyprincess:
So a lady took her time to visit you nd all you could think of is sex? Typical Nigerian guy mentality!! For her to even want romance with you you should be glad bt yet you still complaining,she's really smart because she knows what your plan is that you just wanted sex nd nothing more!! What happens to watching Netflix together? Cooking together nd spending some nice time together but no!! you will never think that way nd y'all will start opening thread complaining that lady dnt visit or putting you on suspense,thats the reason we don't like visiting you guys at home.
Please better call her nd tell her your intention so she wnt bother coming next time!!

Sex is the crown of every every. I cooked for her, we travel to places together. She begged to know my house, I never wanted her to come. My house is not relaxation spot. She knows my intention but she wants romance which I can't give. I have never hidden my plans no, I didn't. she knows I want the sex she is delaying my time. I think I better kick her butt out of my house if she doesn't agree next time.
And again if I do she would say I wasn't persistent. This lady just get problem. I am allowing her now because we get along together in conversation and she is a bit creative.

lessonsoflife:


Sex is the crown of every every. I cooked for her, we travel to places together. She begged to know my house, I never wanted her to come. My house is not relaxation spot. She knows my intention but she wants romance which I can't give. I have never hidden my plans no, I didn't. she knows I want the sex she is delaying my time. I think I better kick her butt out of my house if she doesn't agree next time.
And again if I do she would say I wasn't persistent. This lady just get problem. I am allowing her now because we get along together in conversation and she is a bit creative.

Ohh i see
I believe she has her personal reason for not wanting intimacy with you,

Well, she definitely has her reasons which you should respect. I had a lady who have sex with any guy she visits even while we were dating.

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Sex is the crown of every every. I cooked for her, we travel to places together. She begged to know my house, I never wanted her to come. My house is not relaxation spot. She knows my intention but she wants romance which I can't give. I have never hidden my plans no, I didn't. she knows I want the sex she is delaying my time. I think I better kick her butt out of my house if she doesn't agree next time.
And again if I do she would say I wasn't persistent. This lady just get problem. I am allowing her now because we get along together in conversation and she is a bit creative.

That's the mistake you made you shouldn't have let her know thats what you exactly wanted.

If you let a lady know too early about your sexual intentions she would use it against you by playing hard to get because you,have handed her the power to control the sex and you.

mennnnn when will you learn lol let me give u a tip once a last knows all ur after is her body she wont be to quick to give it to u cause she thinks u feel shes cheap so from now on invite her over,keep ur distance she only wanting romance from u means shes already turned on but too stubborn to give in,once she starts her romance turn it to a conversation and ignore her keep ignoring her till she finally ask u herself to do the do....kiss her anytime shes about to leave only wen shes about to leave and just leave her confused...goodluck and I hope ur not also dealing with a virgin o cause some of dem also behave like that

Petyprincess:
So a lady took her time to visit you nd all you could think of is sex? Typical Nigerian guy mentality!! For her to even want romance with you you should be glad bt yet you still complaining,she's really smart because she knows what your plan is that you just wanted sex nd nothing more!! What happens to watching Netflix together? Cooking together nd spending some nice time together but no!! you will never think that way nd y'all will start opening thread complaining that lady dnt visit or putting you on suspense,thats the reason we don't like visiting you guys at home.
Please better call her nd tell her your intention so she wnt bother coming next time!!

Best response!
Dont mind the slowpoke and his likes who will flood this thread to support him.

You can't be romantically involved with someone you don't wanna have sex with.
Next time she comes over, sit her down and define what you want from her. Be direct.
If she isn't interested in sex, while you are, then she should move on instead of wasting both your time.
If it's romance she wants the let her state so without being dramatic.
Also step up your own game. Each woman with her taste. Learn to take it slow. You ain't mastubating but fulfilling another's sexual desires.

That girl is possessed.

Touch her and see in the near future. You will trend on Twitter. Once she sees you have made it somewhat and she wants your attention and you’re not budging, bro you will trend. She will lie and tell everyone that you violated her. Bone her side. When she’s ready she will give her consent. And make sure you get evidence of the consent.

I suggest you find another girl to quench the fire for now.

Na small stupîd girls dey stress man like this. Mature babes will initiate the process sef.

Me I don’t have time. You act like an underage, I kick you out, simple. No be me una go use trend.

Petyprincess:
So a lady took her time to visit you nd all you could think of is sex? Typical Nigerian guy mentality!! For her to even want romance with you you should be glad bt yet you still complaining,she's really smart because she knows what your plan is that you just wanted sex nd nothing more!! What happens to watching Netflix together? Cooking together nd spending some nice time together but no!! you will never think that way nd y'all will start opening thread complaining that lady dnt visit or putting you on suspense,thats the reason we don't like visiting you guys at home.
Please better call her nd tell her your intention so she wnt bother coming next time!!

SAYS A LADY I GUESS

AshiraWealthy:


Best response!
Dont mind the slowpoke and his likes who will flood this thread to support him.

But u read that he has done all that...only romance and then when he his about the enter gate of paradize, she will form 'I holy pass u' maybe my guy is a kiss n tell type.

zexy2030:

But u read that he has done all that...only romance and then when he his about the enter gate of paradize, she will form 'I holy pass u' maybe my guy is a kiss n tell type.

Zexy, zexy hmmmm..... Commot mouth for this matter.
The guy is just a fuckster.

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AfroKnight:

That girl is possessed.

Bone her side. When she’s ready she will give her consent. And make sure you get evidence of the consent.

I suggest you find another girl to quench the fire for now.

Na small stupîd girls dey stress man like this. Mature babes will initiate the process sef.

Me I don’t have time. You act like an underage, I kick you out, simple. No be me una go use trend.

Well many ladies are possessed these days. And she do reason like a baby most times that i wonder and try to question her age.
I just sensed that she wants me to get too attached to her. I am o, but she knows my blood is hot too. I have decided to over look her childish behaviour because of the number of years we have known each other.
But then, I may be forced to take the exit but on a second thought i have decided to let her be. Any day i chop her cookie i will quit.
I even noticed she sleeps a lot around which is forcing me now to stop the whole thing.
Women are really demons. Someone will be swearing with the name of GOD that she hasn't slept with any man for years yet na she dey do am pass.
The funniest thing is she tried talking me out of a certain girl which i was dating.
Like you said, she is a kid and i am going to treat her like one.

Candrevah:


I want to ask you a question. Will you die if you don't touch her? I seems not to understand why a lot of nigerian guys life revolve around sex smhhh. You people keeps on disgracing Men every here and there because of something that's not worth it nonsense.

Sorry sir

InfernoNig:
Baba relax. Let me give you a tip. Leave a porn disc in your player, when ever she comes around, suggest watching a movie, let it start playing while you leave to go buy something, pretend you have no idea and watch the magic happen. Thank me later.

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