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Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Acme45: 2:19am On Feb 05, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:I ve seen a woman who cannot cope in marriage 1 Like |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Acme45: 2:24am On Feb 05, 2020 |
cococandy:idiot 2 Likes |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Acme45: 2:26am On Feb 05, 2020 |
[quote author=Pattypatt post=86326626]I'm sure she has someone outside she wanted to marry, spend 3m on a wedding and you misbehave, you must vomit my money [/quite] Good babe 1 Like |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Acme45: 2:45am On Feb 05, 2020 |
Kekereekun123:later you people will go to church and start shouting holy ghost fire when you need husband again,till then |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by openmine(m): 12:40am On Feb 07, 2020 |
manontree:True! |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by openmine(m): 12:49am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Shugavee:Please speak for your self! This unproven,outdated and preposterous narrative is not true for ALL women! If that's your attitude,then that's your attitude...don't conclude every woman will behave like you! 3 Likes |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by foshe36: 6:09am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by foshe36: 12:10pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
My little advice Do not divorce that girl.. Obviously the OP is very much older than his wife and she's so so young.. She got into friendship with you very early in her life and you came as a helper. You have been like a ekder brother ir fatger to her coz she's young and you always tell her what to do, coz she looks naive and inexperienced like she is. Now she's a bit wiser, she wants to make decisions on her own, mind you OP you open that eyes. She has went through school which you helped her with and now marriage is your own payback which you took by force without considering her opinion like you always did. That was your big mistake. Why she's not ready was simply because she just started learning about life, about marriage and the whole stuffs and right now she's not mentally ready and psychologically not prepared for marriage. Being with you is still like father and daughter believe me man. Why i said you shouldn't divorce her is because its obvious she wants to try many other options, she wakes up to you and now she has realized a bigger world is out there... Options 1 Your marriage is sick, seek a professional approach, find a good marriage counselor, they can help you out because your case will just be exactly what they have seen before, your case is not new in the world out there, its common. Option 2 Call her and sit her down, in your mind forget you are marri3d and you spent some milli.. Tell her you have realized your mistakes and you want to date her again the right way and tell her its a open relationship this time around not the autocratic life you once lived. Tell her to go date whoever she wants but you are still here for her... If you really love her there are sacrifices to pay to have her back because now she's not with you bro. In short cut her loose let her have the freedom she's craving for, let her explore, let her fall into that pit.. She would realized you are the best that ever happened to her. For once brother let her need you, let her stray let her seek your help by herself and do not hesitate when she does,,,, and then you have your wife back. Peace. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Shugavee(f): 7:04pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
openmine:because she’s quite no mean say she no get mouth,, don’t take it personal,, when a woman uses her mouth on u , u gonna feel hurt!! Especially cause of male ego!! So chill. |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by openmine(m): 8:57pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Shugavee:i still insist that not everyone is like you esp the female gender.....i have seen and related with so many ladies in my life...some with questionable characters and others with excellence in emotional maturity! Stop making an excuse for your flaws through gender generalization! .....and besides,there is no character flaw that can not be controlled esp the power of the tongue! If you believe that's the way you are and you can never change,then that is your problem and cross to bear in future but it will be absurd to use your attitude to generalize every female.... The biggest mistake you are making is thinking that every lady's attitude is similar or exactly like yours! |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Shugavee(f): 10:39pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
openmine:u win, u are correct. |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by openmine(m): 11:35pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Shugavee:Its not a matter of winning....i am only being factual! |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Shugavee(f): 1:19am On Feb 08, 2020 |
openmine:kudos |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by openmine(m): 2:23am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Shugavee: U are welcome! |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Judybash93(m): 4:33am On Dec 03, 2020 |
Wetin people dey see for marriage sef? |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Judybash93(m): 4:37am On Dec 03, 2020 |
Bossman, how did it go? Y'all niggis still together? 2 Likes |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Oturatetuala(m): 3:59pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Hmmmm life with different problems. U won divorce while me at 40 still unmarried |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 3:55am On May 23, 2021 |
hybrid77:@Op, what marriage are you planning to end! That lady has ended it even before you know her |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Shukushaka: 8:45am On May 23, 2021 |
The girl is under 23 probably 19,20 or 21. @OP it's not like she doesn't love you but she's in her hoe-phase,the mistake you did was marrying her this early. My advice to you is to let her be and take it like a man. It'll be hard but she'll still need you later. The hurtful part is that the person that has her attention now is no match to you and probably her agemate,you're even better than the person 100% but ur woman is young for what you want her to be. Her family is poor that's why they pushed her to marriage this early. Just let her be bro. Give her the 3months she wants but in that 3months don't near her or even communicate with her infact don't send her money or anything. Her brain will comeback to factory settings. |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Shukushaka: 8:50am On May 23, 2021 |
[quote author=Acme45 post=86385830][/quote] Na to use her for sacrifice lol |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Nobody: 10:30am On May 23, 2021 |
StarUp:Werey girl |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by tunjilana: 11:13am On May 23, 2021 |
Tonyfx: His board of directors are partners in the business by buying shares...making material contributions... Women will intentionally marry men who are more than them in diverse ways and then consistently chase decision making....If she had married a fellow student like herself...she wont have issues with being a co decision maker....The problem starts with expecting her immature decisions to stand in the face of superior argument from the more mature man....And then her using emotions to blackmail the man into leading him into bad times 2 Likes |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by bepositive11: 12:59pm On May 23, 2021 |
Randy100: You're very wicked to suggest that |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by sconp: 5:28pm On May 23, 2021 |
@hybrid77 Out of curiosity, what step did you finally take? Where did it all end? |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Amb1045(m): 6:22pm On May 23, 2021 |
Your wife is still a kid, don't mind her that's how a guy will train them finish them go abandon him go marry another person, just be calm, pregnant her like two to three times for the whole money you spent on her then divorce her.Lol na still small piking dee worry her. Don't over love her |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by hybrid77: 8:06pm On May 23, 2021 |
sconp: Lol..we have been fine all these while..My wife had a baby boy last year and everything has been to sweet to be honest... I dated my wife for 5 years before marriage and to be frank our disagreement were all because of my expenses during the wedding She wanted an expensive marriage whicch didnt make sense to me at that time because i was building a hospital So, as she didnt bend..i gues i went over board with trying to force everything on her... She wasnt a bad person but her selfishness at that time resulted in my terrible and childish actions All i did was to just give her some space, and everything seemed to have worked out perfectly for us.. I guess what i learned was to let bygones be bygones and forgive as early as possible... The 2 weeks or so we had issues i was busy sleeping aroind with my EXs, partying and looking for ways to get down from my "man's pride".. My actions were shameful and disgusting considering i wasn't married for more than 2 month... Since then, we've been perfect for each other and marriage has been the best thing to have happened in our lives... Thanks for asking... 3 Likes |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by OriakuAmara(f): 8:08pm On May 23, 2021 |
hybrid77:that's so sweet to hear |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Kebbiprince: 8:39pm On May 23, 2021 |
hybrid77:Good one. But imagine sleeping around with your exes just few months after marriage meaning you had those side girls while dating her. Any day she cheats on you don't just get offended as you have already taken the lead. I don't see why we should stress ourselves to marry when we can't keep to one person. Tueh! |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by hybrid77: 9:04pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kebbiprince: Lol...we've moved on from here...Im not that man anymore..My comments were just to make people learn from my mistakes.. When you dont solve issues quickly, it coild easily explode into something else.. As i previously mentioned, cheating is a shameful act and i fully regret my actions... Have a great day..My wife and I are reading your comments here as part of our low key celebrations for chelsea champions league qualification..you can join us.. 1 Like |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Kebbiprince: 9:26pm On May 23, 2021 |
hybrid77:Lmao, like she's aware you cheated on her? I'm sure she's not aware bc if she's aware she's certainly going to cheat back on your sorry ass sooner or later. Bookmark the message |
Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Mysteriousworld: 9:07pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
bepositive11: Why is it that wicked people dont like when youre wicked to them in return? |
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