Alovelylady:
Thanks for the advice ...everyone else who only offered their 2 cent about my written English can buy a piece of bubblegum! It’s crazy we live In a world where I have ask my fellow man or woman is another one of their kind being truthful with me but even more crazier that a person would say something is fake because it’s written wrong ... ha you humans

You try this your comment just gave you out. The expression of your words shows that you be Ibile.

Every one stop worrying about my English and help me .... there is no list that me as a African American woman should do right ... no marriage rights list right ?

Alovelylady:
Every one stop worrying about my English and help me .... there is no list that me as a African American woman should do right ... no marriage rights list right ?

No darling, you don't have to do anything. If there is going to be a list, your family should be the one presenting that list to him. But since you ain't a Nigerian, or African, then there will be no list.

So, he should go ahead with his list. But, don't give him a dime if he asks. As a matter of fact, if you guys are planning on getting married, then court wedding is what you need.

Alovelylady:
He said the list is for our traditional rights marriage?

And he is asking you to pay?

If he is, I say this with all offence intended: your man is a rat soup eating, goat fvcking, lying son of a bombaclat.