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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by victorian(f): 10:34pm On Feb 14
Nikes:

Madam, you just narrate complete nollywood scene for here grin grin grin




It's real.

You can choose to believe or not.

Moreover I hardly watch nollywood dramas.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by dotedote: 11:28pm On Feb 14
Stupid mentality


Whobedatte:
Just few months ago , my project lead told me to sack a brand promoter working under me , though she didn't give any reasons .
I called the guy in question to know what exactly his offense was , he told me he chatted her after close of activation asking her if he could take her out .
Mind you , this guy is a graduate , a hardworking promoter and always diligent at work .
I removed him from the group immediately going by her orders and told him to go .
Cut long story short , boundaries should be set in work place .
Never ask your superior out as a guy unless she reverse is the case
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by BoleAndFish: 12:11am On Feb 15
iphi:
I'm not sir...
Wow! I love your reply to that guy! You wouldn't stoop low to start trading insults.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by zudozz: 1:46am On Feb 15
ugly women..very difficult to impress.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by BabbanBura(m): 2:03am On Feb 15
iphi:
see am

Glad it went well Bro, abeg no take her for granted woo!

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Russi: 6:59am On Feb 15
iphi:
see am

To me you are still an idiot... i will repost my comments from before.

You don't really have respect or work ethics. I discussed my reasons for saying so below.

Nice you can post a fellow employees story and photo here even when she is your boss... exactly why some females will reject such proposals and relationships!

I analysed you yesterday and you confirmed it all today.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Russi: 6:59am On Feb 15
iphi:
if its sex I want I meet patients everyday I can easily convert one... This fire inside for her is different...

Hmmm. Let me Give you my well earned verdict as a VETERAN!
. I BEG everyone to Read, and Comment on my responses, especially my closing remarks.

I am writing for every other guy in Europe or Overseas to understand that bosses and bosses.
If you have any shade of doubt put yourself in the position of a BOSS.

If that doesn't help imagine you are the overall Boss, and silently watching the juniors (this lover boy and his superior colleague) carry on flirtatious comedy in the 'workspace'. ..... You will naturally perceive that your first reaction will be "I hope these ones don't plan to wreck the relative courteous and VERY professional atmosphere here at work". angry The reasons are obvious to a fool.... Everyone and their mother knows how most work romances end!

There is an unspoken code, and heck you may even find it clearly written in the code of ethics for the work place that workers romance is not to be encouraged.. (i did not say forbidden). What happens is that only those who are thoroughly successful in these unwritten codes get to the very Top of Management. Bro trust me the Ultimate Bosses are watching closely. Also, I can even hazard a guess that if this sweet 'oyinbo sort of' girl is truly sooo wonderful, her mates or her bosses also have an eye or finger on her. Truth be told, they may be hindered by unwritten work ethics or codes.. and here you are upsetting the applecart like a "Hero" get a Brain son!

Even a gangster understands the code of don't shit where you eat... cos you are feeling pressed to shit on the table.
I call it the TABLE because what you do in the workplace affect many others and not just you, you can believe me or not.

And hey, you must be a serious dog you know! And probably Nigeria is not out of your system, so i understand why folks just saying Village People are calling you.

REASON lies in your response below....
iphi:
if its sex I want I meet patients everyday I can easily convert one... This fire inside for her is different...

What the F! Are you Totally Crazy?.... You must be.
You should never never ever think of your Patients SEXUALLY!
Please this sort of means your headspace is all messed up and many were here thinking you were a sort of decent guy. If they catch you preying on patients and that kind of shit they will fire your ass and seize your license. Even if its an unwritten code, the doctors and your superiors will surely feeling you are a serious risk


iphi:
I like a lady and she turns out to be my boss it has absolutely nothing to do with sex buddy, I have genuine intentions

What intentions bro?

After all said and done, the matter or "romance" most times defies normal intelligence. Gangs, States, Associations, Nations and Empires have gone to war over matters of romance so I am never surprised by what the emotional drive does to people.


Okay, since you've no sence and insisted on going thru with this trainwreck in the making lets discuss your stupid approach...


A lot of young women work with me, and after a long while i realised that somehow i don't see them as human beings... i see them as robots. That is being a professional.

The girl you speak of probably doesn't have a real romantic date later today, but you talked to her like trash already when you referred to you being a . second option. No decent professional will allow another colleague, junior or senior look at her as unfit, and you used a word referring to her as second class.

iphi:
I can't tell you exactly what I sent to her, but it was something like this... Hello J, how are you? blah blah blah... I saw your WhatsApp story, just incase they still don't know your worth I can be the back up date.. Lol.. I know this awesome Chinese restaurant where you will be served your favourite, or I could just order it if you want... Blah blah blah.... Joking something

You could have said, hey join me and do something different for Vals day... i am going to see some sick or poor or homeless people... This would have raised your persona and after an emotional visit she would have suggested getting warm with coffee and damn she would have kissed you first without feeling under pressure about statuses because you've moved her into an entirely different headspace. She wont be ashamed to tell or be told upon because what else do you do to a guy who is so selfless ..right?

Anyway, pull back and get out if possible. If not, its called life cos it happens and yep she still could be your future wife but dont keep doing crap like this or your future colleague turned wife may never believe you when you say a work meeting/ relationship/trip or visit is "simply work!!"

Psyched Out!

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by officialfestus(m): 7:06am On Feb 15
iphi:
grin grin
How did it go?

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 7:07am On Feb 15
Russi:


To me you are still an idiot... i will repost my comments from before.

You don't really have respect or work ethics. I discussed my reasons for saying so below.

Nice you can post a fellow employees story and photo here even when she is your boss... exactly why some females will reject such proposals and relationships!

I analysed you yesterday and you confirmed it all today.
grin I wish I was close sir, I would have taken you out for drinks... Cheers anyways

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 7:10am On Feb 15
officialfestus:
How did it go?
awesome...

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Dybala11(m): 7:52am On Feb 15
Slaymammas:
Who wants to be my val? Check me out on www.slaymammas.com let’s get freaky
This year's val is gone for good, see you next year.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Dybala11(m): 7:56am On Feb 15
Nikes:

Madam, you just narrate complete nollywood scene for here grin grin grin
Wait patiently for the second part, it's coming out next year.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by pedi(m): 8:22am On Feb 15
iphi:
ah story don finish, she gave me 1 hour date during break time... She has another date in the evening
Good for you

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by OlawaleBammie(m): 8:32am On Feb 15
iphi:
awesome...

Oga u re just saying awesome, awesome, awesome... we dont need awesome sir, we need d koko.

u said u guys were goin to hav dinner together yday and u did not tell us anything again abi dinner never finish ni?? ahh!!!

Come bak here and finish ur tin oo, since u know u wil not finish it why did u call us along??

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by officialfestus(m): 8:40am On Feb 15
iphi:
awesome...
my bet enter na?

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Nobody: 8:57am On Feb 15
iphi, Bobo how far, we didn't even hear from you again, did she agree? did you later go out on a date? How did it go?
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 9:01am On Feb 15
OlawaleBammie:


Oga u re just saying awesome, awesome, awesome... we dont need awesome sir, we need d koko.

u said u guys were goin to hav dinner together yday and u did not tell us anything again abi dinner never finish ni?? ahh!!!

Come bak here and finish ur tin oo, since u know u wil not finish it why did u call us along??
hahaha I didn't tell her anything that has to do with me liking her, I just told her I was glad she accepted my request we were all and about, at the end took her to her place gave her a peck and boom I'm in my room playing FIFA grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 9:05am On Feb 15
gingercrazy:
iphi, Bobo how far, we didn't even hear from you again, did she agree? did you later go out on a date? How did it go?
ah!!! Story have finish na, we later cancelled the lunch it was me and her for dinner, posted just one picture, you can find it in page 20 or there about... Hmmmm... It went as I planned it in my head...
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by OlawaleBammie(m): 9:08am On Feb 15
iphi:
hahaha I didn't tell her anything that has to do with me liking her, I just told her I was glad she accepted my request we were all and about, at the end took her to her place gave her a peck and boom I'm in my room playing FIFA grin

Mtcheew!!

peck??

What happend with drawing her closer, place ur palms on the either side of her head covering her ears, look into her eyes and kiss her eyebrows??

this oga sef.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 9:10am On Feb 15
OlawaleBammie:


Mtcheew!!

peck??

What happend with drawing her closer, place ur palms on the either side of her head covering her ears, look into her eyes and kiss her eyebrows??

this oga sef.
that one is Hollywood oh, this is real life...
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Nobody: 9:11am On Feb 15
iphi:
ah!!! Story have finish na, we later cancelled the lunch it was me and her for dinner, posted just one picture, you can find it in page 20 or there about... Hmmmm... It went as I planned it in my head...
Congrats, everything in life is risk. Just play it cool Bro, but I must commend, you get mind

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by OlawaleBammie(m): 9:12am On Feb 15
iphi:
that one is Hollywood oh, this is real life...

Real life, Hollywood, west na west..

Anyway, since u re too timid to shoot, dont bother wen another hunter kill the animal..
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Nobody: 9:14am On Feb 15
iphi, seen the picture and she's beautiful. Aspire for a better job and when you get it hit the nail on the head... You know what I mean?

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Nobody: 9:17am On Feb 15
iphi:
hahaha I didn't tell her anything that has to do with me liking her, I just told her I was glad she accepted my request we were all and about, at the end took her to her place gave her a peck and boom I'm in my room playing FIFA grin
You be sharp guy, have u spoken after this... You have started war in her heart like that, shey u know ? grin this gist is sweetening to the hear

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 9:17am On Feb 15
OlawaleBammie:


Real life, Hollywood, west na west..

Anyway, since u re too timid to shoot, dont bother wen another hunter kill the animal..
no sir, being timid is not giving it a try at all... She's smart, she got the message loud and clear

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 9:20am On Feb 15
gingercrazy:
You be sharp guy, have u spoken after this... You have started war in her heart like that, shey u know ? grin this gist is sweetening to the hear
too early, we go see in the afternoon sha grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by OlawaleBammie(m): 9:23am On Feb 15
iphi:
no sir, being timid is not giving it a try at all... She's smart, she got the message loud and clear

ok cool

remember to do ur traditional wedding at Ugheligrin

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Nobody: 9:30am On Feb 15
iphi:
too early, we go see in the afternoon sha grin
I'm following this thread now Bro, please do well to update when there is any big good development. Best wishes!

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by seuncyrus(m): 11:19am On Feb 15
JasonScoolari:
She said Yes.

Getting all set.
Wow , nice one grin

errrrmmm update how did it go, hope it was as sweet as iphi 's. grin

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by JasonScoolari: 3:00pm On Feb 15
seuncyrus:


Wow , nice one grin


errrrmmm update how did it go, hope it was as sweet as ip..hi 's. grin
grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Tonyspecial(m): 3:02pm On Feb 15
iphi:
no sir, being timid is not giving it a try at all... She's smart, she got the message loud and clear
grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Tonyspecial(m): 3:18pm On Feb 15
iphi:
too early, we go see in the afternoon sha grin
Jey Jey Oh Jey Jey, No Rush D Babe Biko

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