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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by etibaba(m): 6:07pm On Feb 13
Women can be funny, Bros just carry your feelings else where, she will just fire you.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by aadoiza: 6:07pm On Feb 13
It's allowed, but make sure you start sending your CV out first. Just incase of incasity.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by DaddyMorenike: 6:07pm On Feb 13
Why not! Shebi you don get another job? Naija ladies aren't so smart.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:08pm On Feb 13
Drince:
How safe are you playing it?
Bro the moment you ask her on that date, things would definately change.. Life is all about risk, but ask yourself is it worth the risk?
How is your relationship with her?
very simple, I'm the talkative, she's the silent one, she sends me funny clips, we talk about stuffs but not deep, I make sure I comment in her WhatsApp story and she has never replied negatively.... I respectfully do everything she has asked me. I don't see why I can't try to know her more

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Xano(m): 6:08pm On Feb 13
iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.
NO. Do not ask your boss. Maintain employer-employee communication.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by ednut1(m): 6:09pm On Feb 13
Sack loading

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Risingblue008: 6:09pm On Feb 13
Come,Mr man,will mind ur business and work?

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Viking07: 6:09pm On Feb 13
mtinfx:
Village is pressing someone's forehead day and night


cheesy grin
cheesy cheesy

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by teadrake(m): 6:10pm On Feb 13
The Op must be a gunner fans.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by dilodavid(m): 6:10pm On Feb 13
E be like say your salary don tire you.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by FLYFIRE(m): 6:10pm On Feb 13
budaatum:
Can somone please find this person one of the many threads of those who complimented their boss on whatsapp and had to start looking for another job.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:10pm On Feb 13
etibaba:
Women can be funny, Bros just carry your feelings else where, she will just fire you.
she's not going to, its a playful act
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:11pm On Feb 13
I cannot understand why a woman should be rude, a yes/no is not too hard a reply. If you are very sure you like her, go ahead, but if you want a mere fling or casual friendship, keep off.
JasonScoolari:
I equally want to do same with my boss, but I am scared.... She lost her boyfriend recently to a ghastly motor accident, just wanna take her out tomorrow just to make her feel relaxed but...... Hmmmm!!!

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by deebrain(m): 6:11pm On Feb 13
You must be sick.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by khalids: 6:11pm On Feb 13
I have only one thing to say......Se wan ti fi ori e gba paro.......

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Lexusgs430: 6:11pm On Feb 13
iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.


Do you love your present job?
Do you want to remain employed?

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Godsonkemz(m): 6:11pm On Feb 13
What a foolish question from an employee. Why should you even have a crush at your workplace. It's unprofessional.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:11pm On Feb 13
aadoiza:
It's allowed, but make sure you start sending your CV out first. Just incase of incasity.
grin I use joke send her message, I did not pour out my heart, same way I joke about her pictures

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:11pm On Feb 13
You are on point......go ahead.
iphi:
she's young, I'm not asking her out, its just to jokingly tell her about being a second option

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by etibaba(m): 6:12pm On Feb 13
iphi:
she's not going to, its a playful act
I await the next thread you will be creating soon. Success.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Ifexontop(m): 6:12pm On Feb 13
Don't do that
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by friday2011(m): 6:12pm On Feb 13
iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

What? U want to tell your boss "if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date" guy, no use tha line ooo, e better make you just call am this evening and say: "you want to know if she will be available for a date tomorrow, and you wouldn't mind taking her"

I guess this sounds more matured than that your own line.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Seventy7kings: 6:12pm On Feb 13
E be like say your village people don open your file. cheesy

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Dadaboy: 6:13pm On Feb 13
iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

How can you be so low of thinking if she is unsuccessful, what sort of nonsense is that

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by platido(m): 6:13pm On Feb 13
You're chewing what you can't take...no mind your work do, find love

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by pickatyou: 6:13pm On Feb 13
E be like say your job don tire you

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:13pm On Feb 13
DaddyMorenike:
Why not! Shebi you don get another job? Naija ladies aren't so smart.
ok yea I see why people are scared, she's from Indonesia, I will not even put this here if she's Nigerian

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Farki: 6:13pm On Feb 13
If you want to be her back up Val make sure you get a back up job. You can't be too careful around Nigerian women.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by JasonScoolari: 6:13pm On Feb 13
LilMissFavvy:
I cannot understand why a woman should be rude, a yes/no is not too hard a reply. If you are very sure you like her, go ahead, but if you want a mere fling or casual friendship, keep off.
I love this reply but some folks here are making it look like a big sin to take a female boss out.... I don't have feelings for her but I feel like taking her out tomorrow.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Gordson: 6:14pm On Feb 13
You don get another job abi?

Your own case might be different sha, shoot your shot cheesy

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by TruthSpeaker: 6:14pm On Feb 13
YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO PREDICT IF SHE WILL THINK YOU HAVE CROSSED THE LINE. IF YOU DECIDE TO RISK IT, MAKE SURE YOU DO IT IN A VERY DIPLOMATIC WAY SO THAT IF IT BACKFIRES YOU CAN SMARTLY APOLOGIZE SAYING IT WAS A WELL MEANT WILD JOKE.
NIGERIAN LADIES AS BOSSES OFTEN FEEL TOO POMPOUS AND AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS THEIR MALE COUNTERPART. IN OTHER CIVILIZED SOCIETY THINGS ARE KINDA DIFFERENT. IMAGINE JENIFER LOPEZ FIRST HUSBAND WAS A CUBAN WAITER IN A HOTEL. CAN YOU IMAGINE TONTO DIKE GETTING MARRIED TO A BAR ATTENDANT?
ARE YOU THINKING OF THAT OLD NIGERIAN SONG THAT GO BY “WHETIN I GO OH, WHETIN I GO DO OH, BABA TUNDE TELL ME. IF I SEY NO OH, MADAM GO VEX OH...............”.
BEST OF LUCK BRO, NO SHAKING. IF E NOR WORK, ON MONDAY SHOW UP TO WORK DRESSED ON ALL BLACK AND BALD YOUR HEAD IN A MOURNING MODE. SHE GO FEEL YOU AND FORGIVE YOU SPONTANEOUSLY.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:14pm On Feb 13
Seventy7kings:
E be like say your village people don open your file. cheesy
hahahaha... Finding true love is not easy, step by step

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