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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by bbjayone(f): 9:31am On Feb 14
grin grin grin grin
budaatum:
Can somone please find this person one of the many threads of those who complimented their boss on whatsapp and had to start looking for another job.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Tonyspecial(m): 10:34am On Feb 14
granely:

Please let us know her reply



Okay
Happy val
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Tonyspecial(m): 10:37am On Feb 14
victorian:








Not so fast.

I ain't giving u red flag yet until I see your pic

cool

OKay Vicky
tonyebuka3@gmail.com my pic is there,
Happy VAL
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:40am On Feb 14
I would have answered your mention, but I have chosen not to, because you said 'maybe I am not a woman'''.
sparko1:


Maybe you are not a woman, there is no body more wicked and heartless than a woman in position, if they frustrate you, there is no begging, there is no sympathy they go all in. (Imagine sacking someone for sometime that is not yet confirmed and arresting the person as well, I mean, come on)

Even women don't want to work with a woman in power, they know themselves, there is a more likely chance that you will get help from a man! If you take a sample of 100 women in power, hardly will you find 2 that is sympathetic or have human feeling, they will unload all their life frustration on you.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Russi: 10:46am On Feb 14
why the laugh grin
bbjayone:
grin grin grin grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by louiziana: 11:02am On Feb 14
kiddkash:

it is not entirely a group date. it is a hangout among people at work. after that,
you can walk her home

Aii bro, I just feel u won't really feel free to express yourself and enjoy privacy in the presence of other people.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by TwinnyStore: 11:14am On Feb 14
Please start sending out your CV.


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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Chrisceejay: 11:27am On Feb 14
don't sheet where u eats

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by kiddkash(m): 11:29am On Feb 14
louiziana:


Aii bro, I just feel u won't really feel free to express yourself and enjoy privacy in the presence of other people.
yeah you're right
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by victorian(f): 11:54am On Feb 14
eni4real:
You don't even know if the lady is interested in op??

Whether they agree to have sex in thier potential relationship is their decisions as Adults to take....
You don't have to pry!! shocked shocked shocked








The lady boss might be interested in the Op, but in this situation and that environment. Her interest or feelings towards him, if she has? Is irrelevant and she knows it.
I already know how the date will end up as.
She will smile and tell him gently, she likes him as an individual but Sorry she can't date him.
That's all I see there.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by eni4real(m): 11:56am On Feb 14
victorian:









The lady boss might be interested in the Op, but in this situation and that environment. Her interest or feelings towards him, if she has? Is irrelevant and she knows it.
I already know how the date will end up as.
She will smile and tell him gently, she likes him as an individual but Sorry she can't date him.
That's all I see there.
Let's wait for her to decide..
She might be having undying love for OP too..

And, love is in the air!! grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Russi: 11:58am On Feb 14
A very serious possibility
victorian:









The lady boss might be interested in the Op, but in this situation and that environment. Her interest or feelings towards him, if she has? Is irrelevant and she knows it.
I already know how the date will end up as.
She will smile and tell him gently, she likes him as an individual but Sorry she can't date him.
That's all I see there.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Russi: 11:59am On Feb 14
What intentions bro?

After all said and done, the matter or "romance" most times defies normal intelligence. Gangs, States, Associations, Nations and Empires have gone to war over matters of romance so I am never surprised by what the emotional drive does to people.


Okay, since you've no sence and insisted on going thru with this trainwreck in the making lets discuss your stupid approach...


A lot of young women work with me, and after a long while i realised that somehow i don't see them as human beings... i see them as robots. That is being a professional.

The girl you speak of probably doesn't have a real romantic date later today, but you talked to her like trash already when you referred to you being a . second option. No decent professional will allow another colleague, junior or senior look at her as unfit, and you used a word referring to her as second class.

eni4real:
Let's wait for her to decide..
She might be having undying love for OP too..

And, love is in the air!! grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by victorian(f): 12:00pm On Feb 14
eni4real:
Let's wait for her to decide..
She might be having undying love for OP too..

And, love is in the air!! grin





I know she might but she won't date him

She's been professional, she knows it will cost her, her job and position in the company if she allows Romance to happen between them.

Whites don't think like most nigerians
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by victorian(f): 12:03pm On Feb 14
Russi:
A very serious possibility






You too, can see.

That's it.

smiley
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by eni4real(m): 12:03pm On Feb 14
Russi:
What intentions bro?

After all said and done, the matter or "romance" most times defies normal intelligence. Gangs, States, Associations, Nations and Empires have gone to war over matters of romance so I am never surprised by what the emotional drive does to people.


Okay, since you've no sence and insisted on going thru with this trainwreck in the making lets discuss your stupid approach...


A lot of young women work with me, and after a long while i realised that somehow i don't see them as human beings... i see them as robots. That is being a professional.

The girl you speak of probably doesn't have a real romantic date later today, but you talked to her like trash already when you referred to you being a . second option. No decent professional will allow another colleague, junior or senior look at her as unfit, and you used a word referring to her as second class.

I am not the OP..
Wrong reply!!!
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by eni4real(m): 12:04pm On Feb 14
victorian:






I know she might but she won't date him

She's been professional, she knows it will cost her, her job and position in the company if she allows Romance to happen between them.

Whites don't think like most nigerians
We will see!!
I hope this Deltan guy update us cool
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by victorian(f): 12:05pm On Feb 14
OlawaleBammie:


Hmmm Nnkan mbeeee!!!! As it rocks their boats individually anyway...

Me am only interested in what happens after the lunch today, make he no finish lunch for UK con eat supper for ugheli grin






Lol
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by victorian(f): 12:16pm On Feb 14
Tonyspecial:
OKay Vicky
tonyebuka3@gmail.com my pic is there,
Happy VAL








smiley Dont mind me, I was just playing around dear

Happy Val.

But I will still check your pic, lemme see how good looking u are smiley

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by samworthyever: 12:35pm On Feb 14
I think the Op has already made up his mind . No amount of advice will make him change his mind. Let's just hope it turns out good.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by born2begreat(m): 2:10pm On Feb 14
You just let me laugh and pour away my drinks... LLLLLLLLOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLL grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

budaatum:
Can somone please find this person one of the many threads of those who complimented their boss on whatsapp and had to start looking for another job.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by lessonsoflife: 2:38pm On Feb 14
victorian:









The lady boss might be interested in the Op, but in this situation and that environment. Her interest or feelings towards him, if she has? Is irrelevant and she knows it.
I already know how the date will end up as.
She will smile and tell him gently, she likes him as an individual but Sorry she can't date him.
That's all I see there.


My second reply here.

You all are only interested in the lady. The lady won't accept, the lady will suppress the op, the lady this the lady that.
What if the Boss lady accepts, they bang and she go ahead to resign from the organisation and asked that her man be promoted and they marry afterward, happily?
Life has many faces. The Op took this bold step because of LOVE he is ready to end up with this lady as a wife.
The lady if not a hoe is also looking to end up in the hands of a gentle loving man. How can the OP know if he doesn't take is shot?
I love surprises and whether the Boss lady accept or not the event and words would have been registered and they will surely be uncomfortable but then, the OP may retain his JOB and also, have a WIFE.
It is better than just wishing and dying. Afterall one day he may leave the company.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Babara1994(m): 2:57pm On Feb 14
LilMissFavvy:
I cannot understand why a woman should be rude, a yes/no is not too hard a reply. If you are very sure you like her, go ahead, but if you want a mere fling or casual friendship, keep off.
You are wicked.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:59pm On Feb 14
You are sicckkk.....
Babara1994:

You are wicked.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Babara1994(m): 3:01pm On Feb 14
TomMary:
Please drop the name of your company or boss .. I want to send in my CV in advance in case you enter trouble...

Its like you don't value your job
grin cheesy

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Babara1994(m): 3:03pm On Feb 14
frozen70:


In as much as I appreciate your courage, I will suggest you gift her a flower and an icream tomorrow morning and tell her happy valentines day and you did like to take her out after work

It's up to her to accept it or reject it

If she does, take her out treat her nicely and take her back home without misbehaving

That will give her the impression that you are not after her position or her money

Leave her to pound over the care and love you showed to her

From there, you can take up

But if she turns it down, never mind and don't get discouraged, keep trying

But you have to define the kind of relationship you want from her

The key is
don't show any form of desperation, gently and easy flow makes her dance to you

But if you just want to have a fling or hit and run

Just respect yourself and stay away from her
Why can't he chop and clean mouth, ehn?? I don't understand this "be nice and don't misbehahave." statement. angry Men will always be men.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Babara1994(m): 3:05pm On Feb 14
Indispensable85:
A man is a man irrespective of class and status.Women like men who are bold and confident.
I am currently dating a lady well above me in class and status.It started with one step of boldness.
Our love has grown in leaps and bounds since then.
Pvssu
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Babara1994(m): 3:07pm On Feb 14
safarigirl:
how far?

She don answer you?
He was suspended today. We work in the same company.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Babara1994(m): 3:13pm On Feb 14
LilMissFavvy:
You are sicckkk.....
I'll soon blow your head now.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:18pm On Feb 14
Wow, such lame words, you are a mentally deranged ''kiddo'', I do not waste words on kiddos. You don't worth my attention.
Babara1994:

I'll soon blow your head now.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Dybala11(m): 3:27pm On Feb 14
victorian:






I know she might but she won't date him

She's been professional, she knows it will cost her, her job and position in the company if she allows Romance to happen between them.

Whites don't think like most nigerians
Crazy things happen everyday though, there are exceptions to every rule. I even know of two secondary school mates of mime that are married to each other now and they started dating in high school. The exceptions are very rare to come by sha.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by victorian(f): 3:36pm On Feb 14
Dybala11:

Crazy things happen everyday though, there are exceptions to every rule. I even know of two secondary school mates of mime that are married to each other now and they started dating in high school. The exceptions are very rare to come by sha.





That's two secondary school mates. It's different from the Op scenario.

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