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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 10:02am On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Thanks Daddy ☺
She loves me though never cheated on me infact shes caring, neat, she cooks well but her only problem in life in anger and her anger can do stupid things

Shes intelligent and smart too,, i fell in love for the intelligence and not really cos shes preety cos i have dated gurls preetier than her

Shes 21 though
Don't try to sugarcoat it, SHE'S SO DAMN ABUSIVE AND THAT'S THAT.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Oreofepeters: 10:02am On Feb 17
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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 10:02am On Feb 17
Ardar:
Oga you've not told us what you did to that girl, nobody will just start screaming at you without been provoked.

We need to hear from the girl too.

Alright this is it,, we were having a discussion on how to break the news to her parents on the pregnancy cos we both have plans of keeping the pregnancy,her phone was with me, and during the discussion she got angry when i said if she cant bear the shame and pass through all dis when the baby bump hasnt show,,please how will she cope when we start facing tough tough issues later on and i immediately said and if she cant cope with it we cn go for abortion then and all this nags and insults will stop

Then she got angry immediately stood up and told me to give her back her phone i refused saying we need to really discuss this and she shouldn't be getting angered at everything and we shouldnt run away from this discussion as she has always been trying not to discuss the pregnancy thing

Before you know it she started shouting give me my phone and i refused infact the shouts was just too much but i refused cos i was having an important discussion with her and shes trying to walk away

Haba who does that
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 10:05am On Feb 17
U can't advice someone to do abortion especially against their will, besides they can still keep the pregnancy and he won't marry her.
MarianaTrench:


She's scared cos she does not want the thing to end in complications which could end her life and affect her chances of having babies in the future.

You can procure quality abortion procedure but it will cost you a lot of money.

It's left for you to look for money so that you can take her to an experienced doctor who can give her a good abortion pill or do the abortion himself.

You cannot marry this lady, you must not marry this lady!

If you do just know that your life will be a living hell
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 10:06am On Feb 17
Just convert her to your baby-mama. Don't abort it, biko. That foetus might be the ONE to deliver us from insecurity and Boko Haram in future.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Coolcalmcollect(m): 10:07am On Feb 17
you better do abortion and learn to use condom next time....she doesn't have a job, you don't have a job and you wanna add baby to the mix....una no just dey like get sense. how much be condom kiss kiss is 100bucks and you can use it for 3 rounds. when you dey knack you no remember all these her bad character abi and when you cum you come know bah. all these weak men sef....my friend go and do abortion.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by JAOS(m): 10:08am On Feb 17
what i will advice others is,no matter how the urge maybe always have a condom with you

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Oreofepeters: 10:09am On Feb 17
Dpharisee:
I was in a similar situation, though gainfully employed and as a gentleman I decided to get married to her.
I thought that marriage would help to change her but for the past several years I have not had peace of mind in the marriage. My family members hardly visit my house, she insults everyone and ready to fight me at anytime, nags me to hell.
I had to resort to a side chic who treats me like a king but I can't marry her, my attempt at seeking divorce brought about the intervention of my religious leaders to whom she promised to change but it didn't last long. The kids are growing and all I did was just to learn to ignore her antics, with hindsight, I would have had the baby (abortion is a NO for me) and damn whatever anyone would say and provide enough money for the baby's upkeep and we continue to nurture the baby as single parents.

Young man, you are on your way to experience the hell I have had to live with since I took the decision to marry my wife, but though I keep praying and hoping that she will change and become the kind of woman I sought undecided
Bro I think you are one of my elder brother behind this monickers? Your story sounds exactly like my bro own

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 10:11am On Feb 17
Coolcalmcollect:
you better do abortion and learn to use condom next time....she doesn't have a job, you don't have a job and you wanna add baby to the mix....una no just dey like get sense. how much be condom kiss kiss is 100bucks and you can use it for 3 rounds. when you dey knack you no remember all these her bad character abi and when you cum you come know bah. all these weak men sef....my friend go and do abortion.

Bros the cd burst she use postinol eno work

Though we do raw sometimes with withdrawal sha..

Well i got a small job for her she's managing as a student pending when she goes for nysc this October

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Wtfork: 10:32am On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her

Her mum advised you to be calm and understanding untill her daughter kills u abi. .. I will not say anything!

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Anfield247(m): 10:41am On Feb 17
My brother, Love a girl with your head and not with your heart, okay! See you, see wahala girlfriend and you still dey find her... Tomorrow now, You go come cry give uncle lalasticlara.... My hands no dey ooh!

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Unik3030: 10:50am On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders i will make this as short as possible and please dont mind my punctuation as iam typing this in a rush

Iam a graduate though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend i have been dating for almlst two years now, we both love eachother but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn anger driven person that insult my parents, infact hit me sometimes and say all manner of words at me,of recent, i find out she's pregnant this February now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October,but we had plans of not doing abortion but shes so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and i have told her i will stay by her through everything i informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy,they were angry but they were like its fine sha since shes loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insult my parents at every small argument
3 shes anger driven,, yes am anger driven to an extent also but i have never use my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has slapped locked my shirt and punch me
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me though i dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to lets leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos shes pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as its toxic,, what about the unborn child.
6 Iam currently unemployed and infact am still at home not yet balance up well enough,but she has use nags to kill me,,saying all manners at me


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you
its obvious u are an idiot for tolerating domestic violence, don't worry na just ordinary rip we go type when she kill u

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by yomi007k(m): 10:58am On Feb 17
Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Shibaraba.
.the wise and blunt man. I hail u. cheesy
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 11:08am On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you

OP, it is "dire need" o. This kind graduates wey we get now sef.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 11:14am On Feb 17
Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Na true you talk o. My preeq only stand to celebrate success. So for it to stand everyday, I must give it at least, one achievement to stand and celebrate. I never see this kind preeq before.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 11:24am On Feb 17
scaramucci:


Na true you talk o. My preeq only stand to celebrate success. So for it to stand everyday, I must give it at least, one achievement to stand and celebrate. I never see this kind preeq before.
dear brother. Your Preeq is wise. cheesy

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by sofiscatedmoron: 11:42am On Feb 17
Any woman that insults me and my parents is gone,, i mean it

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders i will make this as short as possible and please dont mind my punctuation as iam typing this in a rush

Iam a graduate though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend i have been dating for almlst two years now, we both love eachother but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn anger driven person that insult my parents, infact hit me sometimes and say all manner of words at me,of recent, i find out she's pregnant this February now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October,but we had plans of not doing abortion but shes so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and i have told her i will stay by her through everything i informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy,they were angry but they were like its fine sha since shes loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insult my parents at every small argument
3 shes anger driven,, yes am anger driven to an extent also but i have never use my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has slapped locked my shirt and punch me
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me though i dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to lets leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos shes pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as its toxic,, what about the unborn child.
6 Iam currently unemployed and infact am still at home not yet balance up well enough,but she has use nags to kill me,,saying all manners at me


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you
As you made your bed, you must lie on it. The way I see it, these are your options;

1. Abort it and go your separate ways

2. Carry it and marry her. Then you will learn to deal with her temper issues.

3.carry it and don't marry her, make her your baby mama, that way she will learn to resent the child and train it with hate, and the child will learn to hate you.

4. Let her birth the child and try to take it from her. Then she will unleash the fullness of her 'temper issues' on you and your family.

I prefer option one. It is cheaper and headache free

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by samguru(m): 12:02pm On Feb 17
Let me guess the tribe/state/region of this lady.......hmmmmm South South, Delta state?

Ok that was a joke ooo.

My Brother, If that big stone hit you on the head and you die instantly what do you think will happen to your unborn baby? guess what ?another man will come and father your child as the faulty legal system in Nigeria may allow her go scot-free.

A lady that has no respect for your parent/family members and attempted to kill you with stone is neither your future wife nor your girlfriend at all, no matter how hot the conversation between both of you get.

Please, Let her do her wish and avoid her completely, because when she eventually birth the child she will torment you with that child, by taking him/her away from your radar.

MY ADVICE
Please relegate her to the status of baby mama and launch a search for a responsible and God-fearing lady.If you fail to heed to my advice, I will be happy to spit on your grave when the eventuality happen.

Thank you

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:27pm On Feb 17
samguru:
Let me guess the tribe/state/region of this lady.......hmmmmm South South, Delta state?

Ok that was a joke ooo.

My Brother, If that big stone hit you on the head and you die instantly what do you think we happen to your unborn baby? another man will come and father your child as the faulty legal system in Nigeria may allow her go scot-free.

A lady that has no respect for your parent/family members and attempted to kill you with stone is neither your future wife nor your girlfriend at all, no matter how hot the conversation between both of you get.

Please, Let her do her wish and avoid her completely, because when she eventually birth the child she will torment you with that child, by taking him/her away from your radar.

MY ADVICE
Please relegate her to the status of baby mama and launch a search for a responsible and God-fearing lady.If you fail to heed to my advice, I will be happy to spit on your grave when the eventuality happen.

Thank you

Lol thanks
The lady is Kogi by the way

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Liamm(m): 12:28pm On Feb 17
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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:29pm On Feb 17
funmisticqueen2:
As you made your bed, you must lie on it. The way I see it, these are your options;

1. Abort it and go your separate ways

2. Carry it and marry her. Then you will learn to deal with her temper issues.

3.carry it and don't marry her, make her your baby mama, that way she will learn to resent the child and train it with hate, and the child will learn to hate you.

4. Let her birth the child and try to take it from her. Then she will unleash the fullness of her 'temper issues' on you and your family.

I prefer option one. It is cheaper and headache free

She doesn't want abortion atal.. And shes scared cos of the shane and embarrassment of carrying a baby while in final year and nursing a child while in nysc

Funny enough my mum loves her and shes aware shes pregnant,

Thanks for the contributions anyway
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Liamm(m): 12:30pm On Feb 17
scaramucci:


OP, it is "dare need" o. This kind graduates wey we get now sef.
actually dire sir.

Those that live in glass house don't throw stone

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 12:39pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


She doesn't want abortion atal.. And shes scared cos of the shane and embarrassment of carrying a baby while in final year and nursing a child while in nysc

Funny enough my mum loves her and shes aware shes pregnant,

Thanks for the contributions anyway
so I take it that you will marry her

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:49pm On Feb 17
funmisticqueen2:
so I take it that you will marry her

Marry wetin?? When am unemployed.. I just wish she could change cos she has apologized of changing and she would still go back on the same anger driven madness..
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 12:54pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Marry wetin?? When am unemployed.. I just wish she could change cos she has apologized of changing and she would still go back on the same anger driven madness..

you should have known that before you slept with her

you can't change somebody's character. Be ready for war. Because she will use that child against you

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:56pm On Feb 17
funmisticqueen2:
you should have known that before you slept with her

you can't change somebody's character. Be ready for war. Because she will use that child against you

Yeah i was blind initially,, every man has made one or two mistakes in life

Thank you once again

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Oyiboman69: 1:36pm On Feb 17
Officialgarri:
Your girlfriend/potential killer only went to school but she isn't educated.

Stay by her till she delivers of the baby, then tell her why you can no longer stay in such an abusive relationship.

However, I doubt if you will be alive by the time she gives birth in jail

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Blissbath(f): 2:10pm On Feb 17
Sorry ehn
Dpharisee:
I was in a similar situation, though gainfully employed and as a gentleman I decided to get married to her.
I thought that marriage would help to change her but for the past several years I have not had peace of mind in the marriage. My family members hardly visit my house, she insults everyone and ready to fight me at anytime, nags me to hell.
I had to resort to a side chic who treats me like a king but I can't marry her, my attempt at seeking divorce brought about the intervention of my religious leaders to whom she promised to change but it didn't last long. The kids are growing and all I did was just to learn to ignore her antics, with hindsight, I would have had the baby (abortion is a NO for me) and damn whatever anyone would say and provide enough money for the baby's upkeep and we continue to nurture the baby as single parents.

Young man, you are on your way to experience the hell I have had to live with since I took the decision to marry my wife, but though I keep praying and hoping that she will change and become the kind of woman I sought undecided

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