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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 6:21pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:


First 6 month she was an angel o

Infact am d one treating her like thrash get angry easily she will cry and beg and all... Few ppl who know her from the scratch said she doesnt really get angered so fast except if the thing is too much but what am scared of is her anger can make her do stupid things like insulting ppls parent, insulting me and all

You were the one who brought out the beast in her. What's her birth date let me see if I can give you the best solution to calm her.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by uuzba(m): 6:22pm On Feb 17, 2020
Davash222:
No be every woman wey get belle for man dem marry.
Never marry such woman!
She's carrying your child, no doubt, but please don't marry that girl out of pity.
She'll be kind, caring and loving to you from now henceforth, but, please don't fall for all these gimmicks.
If you truly value your life, don't marry that girl!
Don't marry the girl?
But you had the prick to impregnate her
When they told you that premarital sex is wrong, you won't hear
No O.
You must marry the girl you impregnated. USeless man .
And she will kill you either before or after your wedding.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 6:22pm On Feb 17, 2020
ednut1:
so is that the case here . abi you go volunteer to do am ni
is the mother mentally healthy, is she suffering from agitated depression due to the pregnancy. Does she have suicidal thoughts?

Like I said it can be proven in court

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by AkuOlisa: 6:22pm On Feb 17, 2020
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eni4real:
All men should learn from OP!!

Never allow any toxic relationship to become serious

Break up with her...

Virgin or no virgin

Beautiful or not

Educated or not,!!!

A toxic relationship must not be encouraged!!

You are accepting her with love but remember, she will not remember love the day she will pour hot water or acid on you when angered!!

Break up with them before they become the real devil inside them!!!!

Thank you.
In the process of trying to prove that we are TRUE MEN abi na MATURE MEN we ended up becoming weaklings and cry cry babies.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Hillarychuks: 6:23pm On Feb 17, 2020
Yinabim:
Person wey you never marry she don Dey throw stones , how sure are you she won’t throw knife one day sad .
I know you saw all these before you got her pregnant . Now wey belle don enter my dear take it to the Lord in prayers

Lol, the guy is short sighted

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ghostmode2two(m): 6:24pm On Feb 17, 2020
Your pregnant girl is not a wife material. Clear her that you will be responsible for the child and not marrying her. She is show ing very bad signs as a future wife. This type of girl can kill their partner in sleep. Please think with your head and not your gbola bro.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ndubuisi1075: 6:24pm On Feb 17, 2020
And you still were dating her resulting to pregnancy? You no try my guy.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Fash20: 6:24pm On Feb 17, 2020
One thing I cannot take from my wife is nagging... I cannot withstand nagging. I hate it with passion

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by jaxxy(m): 6:25pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.


Baby or no baby leave that toxic relationship or sm1 will soon kill or hurt the other. A gal that has no control over herself or her temper is completely useless to anyone and even herself.

There are 2 things I will do here beat the living daylight out of her till she recovers her senses or quietly exit the relationship. I cant stay and tolerate nonesense.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Olumyyde(m): 6:26pm On Feb 17, 2020
Youth, flee fornication! Flee premarital sex! Sex is for married people only, no matter how bad the society has degenerated, what is wrong is wrong. I pray GOD helps you brother.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ndubuisi1075: 6:26pm On Feb 17, 2020
Guy you no try. Why date such a girl?

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Tim16(m): 6:27pm On Feb 17, 2020
Kylekent59:
I once advised people to stay away from GF. They are distraction, and they wouldn't let a man focus.

Now you cannot focus. If only you had listened to my advice, you would be huzzling now and saving your wealth, then when you see a lovely damsel with good manners, you go for her immediately.


You just have to carry your cross and be a man.

Don't hit her out of anger. I just love your idea on keeping the baby and staying calm when she acts so stupid and displays obnoxious characters.

At a time, she would change, remember she is pregnant.
Many more to come also especially at night.

Don't be surprised if she asks you to roast yam for her maybe at 2 a.m, it just shows your responsibility as a man just started.
Oga she will NEVER change and this her toxic attitude has nothing to do with pregnancy. A bad woman is a bad woman, likewise a bad man is a bad man. Character doesn't hide. The guy should just quick the relationship if he loves his life, simple!

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by qtx: 6:27pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.
Bros , the issue is money. You know you have no job yet but you allowed agro to control you rather than controlling agro. Bros if there was to be money, all you will do is to fix things quickly and marry her officially, and she will not be this irritated. You must understand she is going through a lot of emotional troubles as a result of the pregnancy and her studies and how her future will look. Both of you should have exercised some control for now. However, try raise small money and rush the introduction and pay bride price (that is if she is not ibo, dont ask me why grin) then plan the main marraieg when things get better.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ndipe(m): 6:28pm On Feb 17, 2020
Dont, I repeat, dont marry her. Be there by all means possible for l your child but dont marry the mum. The relationship is abusive and toxic, it is not worth it.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by lefulefu(m): 6:28pm On Feb 17, 2020
LawLord247:
Run for your life. She is neither good for dating nor marriage. A lot of husbands are now deceased because they didn't act on signs similar to yours.

For the last time, bail out fast!

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where im wan run? im give the girl belle
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by supercase1(m): 6:29pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:


Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her
Weak man,u should be ashamed of yourself for typing this trash, why will you allow a woman abuse your parents and even hit you,u are responsible for what is happening to you if u are for real,u ought to state the rules do and don't in a relationship and your woman follows,
That makes u a man,ur girl have a trait of feminism in her am telling u bro she sees u nothing that y she can abuse u u may have problem with her in the future,my girlfriend dare not insult TalkBack at me talkless of hitting me or abusing my parents men of nowadays na wa o!!!

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Mires: 6:29pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:


Marry wetin?? When am unemployed.. I just wish she could change cos she has apologized of changing and she would still go back on the same anger driven madness..


"Marry wetin?". And you went ahead to get her pregnant.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Iziquiel(m): 6:30pm On Feb 17, 2020
Liamm:
actually dire sir.
Those that live in glass house don't throw stone
Lol.. Bad guy
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by themayor4542(m): 6:30pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:


I saw it ooo.
But people are always like she will change infact her mum likes me alot and she has even been d driving factor to me believing she will change

Chai.
I am shaking my head for you.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by toyobillz(m): 6:30pm On Feb 17, 2020
She is mad because she got pregnant for a broke dude.

Bro japa no oo.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by XklusivGistBlog(m): 6:31pm On Feb 17, 2020
Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Choi... Nwayi Asaba...oganigwe
Old tele tele...
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Str8talk21: 6:32pm On Feb 17, 2020
Officialgarri:
Your girlfriend/potential killer only went to school but she isn't educated.

Stay by her till she delivers of the baby, then tell her why you can no longer stay in such an abusive relationship.

However, I doubt if you will be alive by the time she gives birth in jail
my guy u bad oooo (giggling)
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by bekpo(m): 6:32pm On Feb 17, 2020
Young man, u r trying to avoid d pregnancy, otherwise, why will her character become an issue now? Why r u now seeing her bad character because she's pregnant.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Vloml222(f): 6:32pm On Feb 17, 2020
The truth is you should have asked her what she really wants...I mean , she the one going to carry the baby for 9months ,so it's up to her , not even you.....
And dear OP..you dont convince a woman for a long term stuff...allow her decide...so she wont use against you when it goes south....

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Kiddllc: 6:33pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:


I saw it ooo.
But people are always like she will change infact her mum likes me alot and she has even been d driving factor to me believing she will change
She will change probably with a knife in ur bleeding heart while u are fast asleep.. Better wise up and get out of that bondage undecided
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by supercase1(m): 6:34pm On Feb 17, 2020
eni4real:
Hot water and acid bath loading....
I think that will reset the Op brain grin grin
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Tim16(m): 6:34pm On Feb 17, 2020
proclinician:


Oga ur imes or obatala no de cum again?
Lol. Ask am well well
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by omoadeleye(m): 6:34pm On Feb 17, 2020
Yoruba will say "abisiwin" some women's pregnancy can trigger their mental problem
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by TechWows: 6:34pm On Feb 17, 2020
shocked Thanks for exposing him. Wicked people dey here o!
BackToLife:
We see you clearly, don't think everybody is already spiritually blind. YAHWEH is still very much on the highest Throne, and we HIS own are still here!
You are an agents of Satan. Yes, you are satanic and you can never deny that. You know that we that know you, know you. This your well concocted story has one singular Evil Agenda: to entrap Souls here, to make people's conscience to clash with the CREATOR of Humanity. Haven presented enough "justifiable" reason for them to say kill the unborn baby! Turning many to murderers is your major assignment for this article. We know you are doing the soul-ensnaring works of your father Satan and we know your other members here. Don't worry, we shall all give account of how we spent this short life to the CREATOR of All. On NL, so much subconscious Satanic mind-programming going on. I pity gullible Christians that get ensnared by these agents of darkeness' traps.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by SarkinYarki: 6:35pm On Feb 17, 2020
Avoid anyone that's used to throwing stones o.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by haaryobhami: 6:36pm On Feb 17, 2020
bro run for ur life,my married uncle is going through something similar from his wife now,my uncle gives her everything she want nd even bought her a car yet she is still toxic nd insults him if they have any argument
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Stefenijoan002(f): 6:36pm On Feb 17, 2020
My opinion is run for ur life !ur pregnant gf lacks home training n she will never change !for her to insult ur parents n disgrace u in public shows she's no wife material at all if u keep up with her ur life will be miserable n I believe u wont want that for urself talk less of ur enemies be wise !if she's isn't ready to keep the pregnancy let her go it's actually her loss n ur gain plz don't be fooled she's doesn't love you or have plans for you so b happy she's starting the obvious!one thing about u guys is the girl that we love n respect you u won't love her back rather u go for the one that we end ur life in a seconds is what u appreciate

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