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Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 5:47am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16: Wisdom cannot be imparted. Wisdom that a wise man attempts to impart always sounds like foolishness to someone else.. Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it... |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 5:49am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16: Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 5:51am On Feb 19, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Wisdom cannot be imparted. Wisdom that a wise man attempts to impart always sounds like foolishness to someone else ... Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 5:53am On Feb 19, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: A wise man gets more use from his enemies than a fool from his friends. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by chronique(m): 5:56am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Habits are easily formed but difficult to break away from. Most people who keep late night in marriage, started that lifestyle when they were single and have over the years, gotten used to it. Nigeria of today is too insecure for me to be staying out late even as a single man. The moment I close from work at 6pm, I'm heading straight to my house and won't come out till it's time to go to work the next day. I'm sorry to disappoint you but your hubby isn't changing anytime soon. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 5:57am On Feb 19, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: I imagine that the intelligent people are the ones so intelligent that they don't even need or want to look 'intelligent' anymore. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 5:59am On Feb 19, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Samuel-2 15:31 And [one] told David, saying, Ahithophel [is] among the conspirators with Absalom. And David said, O LORD, I pray thee, turn the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 6:01am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16: Proverbs 15:14 The heart of him that hath understanding seeketh knowledge: but the mouth of fools feedeth on foolishness.... |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Starhearts: 6:01am On Feb 19, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Proverbs 15:14 The heart of him that hath understanding seeketh knowledge: but the mouth of fools feedeth on foolishness. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Admin9: 6:04am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bugatie: Nairaland is a negative place |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by saintaustine(m): 6:07am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tallesty1:Good talk. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by ahiboilandgas: 6:16am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:normal man need extra activities to keep the mind sound |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by NwaIgboBoy(m): 6:16am On Feb 19, 2020 |
try giving him headjob every night, maybe he isn't getting that from u. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by ndidigood(f): 6:16am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro:best advice Lol |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Octopusssy(f): 6:24am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Op don't kill yourself with high BP. When he sees something that will strike fear into his heart no one will tell him to sit his ass in his home once it's sun down 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by placeofallure(f): 6:27am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Men can give women heart attack sha! I remember those days, my husband will go and return by 12 at times, 1 or 2 am. Many times, I d stay outside the gate waiting to see whether I'd see a figure that looked like his. Neighbours would look at me and shake their head with pity. No kids, just me and him. He doesn't just come home late, he returns drunk as well, really drunk. I'd fight him many times. Later, experience taught me to calm down and not say anything until he's sane. I prayed! Ah! I prayed. At a point, that's the only thing I pray about. If they say list 3 prayer points, all 3 would be about him. I don't even remember myself. He'd cry many times and say he knew he was disappointing me but he couldn't help it. He'd yet go back to drink. In all, he doesn't do women. He just likes to hang out, drink and stay late. When the miracle would happen, I wasn't even nagging him about it. Of his own volition, he stopped. He stopped! I couldn't believe it at first. He doesn't even drink ordinary palmwine anymore. If you've ever heard of 360 degree turn around, that is my husband. It's been years now, still basking in the ambience. After work, it's straight to the house. Sister, pray and pray and pray! People came with all manners of advice, they brought fetish substances, some advised I enrolled him in a rehab house and many more. But the only thing I did really was pray. And never stop talking to him too. My lips burned but I got results. I wish you good luck. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by divinebayo: 6:30am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Try and talk to him from the angle of his children, also try to show him more love, men are frustrated when they cant do what they suppose to do for their family. Pls pray for him, pray concerning the issue and if truly you love him dearly & you dont want to lose him, pls move closer to God now, He will help you. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Briller: 6:30am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro: Given the society we live in and the environment of skull miners he finds himself, let's hope he evades them and see the old age. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 6:33am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Pray for your husband. It works. Talk to him about his behavior calmly 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Brunicekid(m): 6:36am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro:I won't totally agree on this with you on this. Attitude build-up from young age, and let me say this bluntly: If the wife does not take conscious persistent effort to sit her husband down and advice him. Am sorry to say, he might get used to it even till many years to come. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by sharone21(f): 6:43am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bad habit for which 65% men are guilty of. Why is it that it is mostly women who should become prayer warriors and not men when they marry, especially marrying Nigerian men? Are men no longer the HEADS of the home again? 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by IceDune: 6:45am On Feb 19, 2020 |
But 12am is not late in Lagos nah 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 6:50am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro: That's not what marriage is supposed to be Its supposed to be fun not waiting on old age to calm her husband I think the man is now having bad friends or influence.... Or maybe being out of job is frustrating him STOP MARRYING A GUY BECAUSE HES CALM, LOVING AND A GOOD GUY TAKE YOU TIME FIND A BEST FRIEND AND MARRY....MARRY YOUR BUDDY |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by sleekdre: 6:53am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:How did you know all he is doing at that time? You didn't think about crime like robbery, kidnapping but you are quick to think of cheating..Please, if you don't have a positive advice, stop putting other ideas into her head. Thanks |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 6:54am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:Lol this one is not a normal fellow, dont let your affliction bother me bro. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by emmy1980: 6:55am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Dear all u need for now his God almight should arrest him wit prayer that all i can tell u |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by begunatoye(m): 6:55am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Madam have you observed how he handles stressful situation? He could be depressed because of his inability to win bread for the family. So he is avoiding being alone and sinking into depression. You may really need to keep encouraging him and assuring him that is position in the house is not threatened just because he is out of work. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by biggiedol: 6:59am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Heheheheheheh.... Madam calm down.. there's no problem...Though I don't know your husband,but I can say for sure that the late keeping is not everyday... It must be once in a while and also do you know what it means to be out of job.. Menh you go think tire and the only time he has to take time off the thinking is when he is with friends and not that he even comes back home drunk , because you didn't mention that.... abeg leave guy man make him dey turn up.. make depression no go kill am... 12am even good... So if you be my wife you for done.. go print am for newpaper na... there's no cause for alarm.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by omoiyalayi(m): 7:00am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro: Best comment Kudo that's d simple truth |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by kushme: 7:01am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16: olodo, you no know anything. How you take know say she be precious wife. Captain-sav-a-hoe. You go die useless death fighting for women wey no send you. P.u.ssy |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by dinachi(m): 7:04am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:See mouth! From the way you speak, it very clear to doubting Thomases that you, your so called prostitute aunty and everybody else from your line are from the gutter! It is now clear to all that your evil Aunty due to her prostitution infected and killed her innocent husband with HIV! And you come here to change the story! Why do you love evil? |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by bukatyne(f): 7:05am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro: So in essence, she should live a long marriage of what she doesn't like till he gets old. And you begin to wonder the lure of Nigerian marriage for the average earning woman. 2 Likes |
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