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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by HBB1(m): 3:44pm On Feb 24, 2020
Oga, get lubricant and enjoy your life!!!
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:45pm On Feb 24, 2020
Tweiker:


grin

Thank you, babe. Nice to meet you again.

Don't remember?

I'm the guy that kicked the ass of tat emptycontenthead guy that was striking out your comments last year and bullying you from thread. I was using a different account then.

You never said thank you, though.




Thank you so much, my knight in shining armour, apologies for not appreciating your effort last year, I guess I forgot, what happened to your previous account?

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 3:46pm On Feb 24, 2020
So circumcised females don't have the urge?
I am not understanding at all

Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Landlord123: 3:47pm On Feb 24, 2020
Op don't let people scare you
Ur wife can also enjoy sex use ur hand to do alot of work and make sure she stays on top of u not u on her and make sure she cum before u cum let her always do the banging from up why u use Ur to press anything press able

Base on the C's it a big lie my wife too is circumcisd and thank God we have 3 kids and no one with C's in fact the last born was delivered at home before I could bring out my car she has delivered In our sitting room without the help of any one that was 2015 and the boy is doing well

Just always make are happy

Thanks and remain blessed

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 3:52pm On Feb 24, 2020
Oludon20:
Bros I am also married to a circumcised woman and I had many circumcised girlfriends(not proud of that anyway). They enjoy sex Bro,I have started giving my wifey Squirting O' as well. Bro give her serious mouth action for a long time,also use your hand to touch the clitoris area during penetration.......she go take. Moreover,experience has shown me that such people have times that they enjoy sex and they get wet late most times. The rule is don't start if she is not wet and try to understand her system,it helps. It took me time to know these n get here,keep trying u will succeed Bro. Cheers!
Thank u! kiss kiss kiss
Lots of ignorant people here.

As long as your sex hormone is high and u have your vulva, vj, g spot, boobs, name them, a woman can have multiple orgasms.

And if she feel you too.
Mere looking at her husband nakkid with hard d can make her wet.

These guys dey fall hand seriously.

So circumcision still dey naija?
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by benisaac67(m): 3:52pm On Feb 24, 2020
Op no... My mom was circumcised and she had 6 of us through Normal delivery.








thalpy:




No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Ogilinsaka: 3:54pm On Feb 24, 2020
ehmmy11:
angry i stopped reading when i saw "no sex till marriage"

Op chop your "L" in peace


You deserve it..

What is 'L'
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 3:54pm On Feb 24, 2020
benisaac67:
Op no... My mom was circumcised and she had 6 of us through Normal delivery.

Are they saying circumcised females don't give birth through the natural way?

Where did these people came from?

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Juliearth(f): 3:55pm On Feb 24, 2020
personal59:



Liess my wife gave birth without cs and with ease self thank to Almighty Allah





Thank God for your wife. I was beginning to get scared.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by patroit001(m): 3:57pm On Feb 24, 2020
Humility017:


it could be partial cirumcision where part of the clit is cut off
Oh! There is one called partial circumcision? Wetin police no go see for checkpoint
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by personal59: 3:58pm On Feb 24, 2020
Pataricatering:
So circumsision is ok because ur wife gave birth without cs - all these people sef !


See you boy what is the correlation between what I said and yours

They don't really enjoy sex and you think it's cool when I love it myself and I can't and won't cheat on her (By God Grave).

O boy find somewhere pack and stop quoting me, if you don't understand what I post you ask question and stop assuming

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by bigiyaro(m): 3:58pm On Feb 24, 2020
Tunagee:


Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my wife. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?
lol, abeg I nor fit laff, na where u find d clit go? did u check under the....what of beside the.....OK, check on top of the.....
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by patroit001(m): 3:58pm On Feb 24, 2020
Ghostmode2two:


They reach orgasm. I have dated one and she is a multi orgasmic woman
We stop when she is tired!�
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Awe4luv(m): 4:03pm On Feb 24, 2020
Tunagee:


Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my wife. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?
lol, nothing we no go see for nairaland, lost clitoris, time to go on an adventure in search of the lost clitoris......
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:03pm On Feb 24, 2020
I just googled images on female cicumcision and it is not a sight to behold, I saw disfigured vagina, some with a tiny hole, some have none at all, and no labia, like they sew the labia shut, now I understand why sex is painful to most of them and it's sad, I'm imagining how life would have been like without my precious clitoris and labia, jeez cry

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by explosiveskull(m): 4:05pm On Feb 24, 2020
Nawa ooo, another palava to the already existing ones. We never even see girlfriend and now we fit fall into one wey Dem circumcise come dey use hand, tongue, preeq for sex at same time, even if na kungfu of the seven continents we dey play.
Abeg God you know I no need problem for this life.




Damn! I just read and watch YouTube videos about FGM, that is pure wickedness done out of ignorance. Very bad, traumatic and painful something. No one should advocate for it.

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by galaxy2020(m): 4:09pm On Feb 24, 2020
Pls go and buy Virginia lubricant, it will help you guys
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by RollsRoc(m): 4:11pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:

Please how can center of gravity be located if you can just share. Thank you.
upper region of her vagina that feel like you are touching a sponge. that's it
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Yeecar(m): 4:15pm On Feb 24, 2020
franklingud:

Stop looking for her clits Bro, it's gone forever.
But you can find the one inside her vag with your finger only if you know how.
Please where is that situated?
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by mjay4luv(m): 4:15pm On Feb 24, 2020
Mcslize:


The clitoris is not a hidden organ. Still looking for it for good six years hahaha that's one hell of a hunt. The hunt continues.

But on a real note, the clit is very very conspicuous. Quite visible. It stands like male organs too when stimulated. It looks quite like a rod like shape protruding outer the "sweet in the middle".

Just part the cookie into two, and look inside you will find it looking like a small rod under.


Happy searching!

Madddd oooo

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Ubdavis(m): 4:17pm On Feb 24, 2020
Which is why I have to first of all log in before thinking of marriage. Sexual compatibility is key to successful marriage . I go lash u Wella first first , before anything serious.

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by infogenius(m): 4:19pm On Feb 24, 2020
Yes, female circumcision could have its downside but it is not as bad as it is represented.

For dryness, even uncircumcised ladies get dry. Whether your lady is circumcised or not, if dryness is the issue get a lubricant.

My wife was circumcised and I have never had a better lover than her in about 9 years in marriage.
Every moment in bed with her feels like the very first time.

OP- don't stay there whining, get a lubricant and enjoy your wife. There are times the frictional effect will tell on your manhood,
never mind, take a break, and give her where she likes it.

Appreciate your wife, she is the best lover you can ever have.

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by 1newnairalander: 4:20pm On Feb 24, 2020
firstly the CS thing is a big lie so forget that. Our child wasn't through CS

secondly, the circumcision thing can be frustrating for the man especially. she will have almost zero sex drive and wetness may be an issue.

what you need to do is talk with her and know what gives her pleasure. it could be you sucking her breasts or touching them or something but you need to walk through her entire body with her.
once you do what she likes, the wetness will become more. also you should use lubricants.
circumcision is damaging i won't lie to you but you will have to be a little understanding, 3 years of frustration no be joke #okbye!

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by wengerman: 4:26pm On Feb 24, 2020
Tunagee:


Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my wife. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?
your wife was definitely circumcised.it is the clitoris that is cut off during female circumcision
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by supereagle(m): 4:28pm On Feb 24, 2020
thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.

I had a girl friend who was like, but she used to be wet. Try lubrication like olive oil.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by robosky02(m): 4:31pm On Feb 24, 2020
Tunagee:


Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my wife. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?


Your own level be like




You know even know where your own start

Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by BERNIMOORE: 4:31pm On Feb 24, 2020
personal59:



Liess my wife gave birth without cs and with ease self thank to Almighty Allah
you're lucky she healed fast, if it takes time to heal or badly cut nobody will teach you the way she will be groaning
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by mysticwarrior(m): 4:32pm On Feb 24, 2020
ryut:
The most pleasurable sex you can ever enjoy is with a lady with well endowed clitoris. Simply a minute romance and touch,she will over wet and the moaning can drive you to the highest.

Honestly ,I pity ladies whose clit was cut and their man, because no pleasure
you are very correct, I dated my ex who was circumcized for some years, I tried everything I read in erotic magazines and watched on porn but she never enjoys sex, my current woman isn't circumcised and just a little fore play with few touches here and there her body would start shivering and vibrating as she climax, am happy that I met my current GF as I believe sex is to be enjoyed by both parties.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by freetheking: 4:32pm On Feb 24, 2020
Please don't let anyone to disive you that your wife will go through C's during child birth because she was circumcised. My own wife was circumcised too and we have two boys and a girl no C's from any of them this is our 12years of marriage. My advice to you is, don't just jump into sex without touching, sucking and romancing he, by well doing she must moun for you.
Ubdavis:
Which is why I have to first of all log in before thinking of marriage. Sexual compatibility is key to successful marriage . I go lash u Wella first first , before anything serious.

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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 4:35pm On Feb 24, 2020
proclinician:


Haha. For the culture
Let her always eats Coconut, Hausa groundnut and Dates all together as much as she can on a regular basis. She can as well grind and make a juice from it.

This works like magic.
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by vRendoh(m): 4:37pm On Feb 24, 2020
Una mate dey research for cure for coronavirus una dey do lecturer for Prick and Ptoto in Nairaland! wen una go serious for life self?

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