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Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 10:17pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Eberechi24:if he had known then it wouldnt be a shock to him now.at least then both he and the lady would have found solution to the problem or learn how to cope with it.just imagine finding u have a problem or ur partner has a problem on ur wedding night .quite devastating . 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 10:18pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
extol1:quite unfortunate 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Daromax: 10:19pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Female circumcision is wrong, but it does not always lead to cs during child birth. That information is wrong. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ChoCho54(f): 10:54pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
zexy2030:Always prepare for CS Oga are you serious? Were our mothers uncircumcised? What about their own mothers? How many of them had birth through CS? I'm not in support of female genital mutilation. My daughter is four and I didn't try that with her. But we have to put things in the right perspective here. I was mutilated, but sometimes I doubt it sef OP sorry about your predicament. You are a real man! First, try freeing her from any inhibitions she may have about love-making. Then share a bottle of wine more often and let it end in lovemaking when she's slightly intoxicated. With time she will come around. Women generally enjoy sex if they love the man. So be lovable too. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ChoCho54(f): 11:03pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
thalpy:Your last sentence is a capital NO! How many of your aunties who were circumcised gave birth through CS? Infact, how many women in your family both from your mother's side gave birth through CS? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ChoCho54(f): 11:07pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
franklingud:Some men are so scared of pussy they won't do what you recommend. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ChoCho54(f): 11:23pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
All you guys claiming female circumcision automatically leads to CS, God will judge you all. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Finelinks: 4:57am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Jossyfine: any empirical support for the quick dryness? And don't they have sexual urges? It seems they don't reach orgasm too. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Finelinks: 4:58am On Feb 24, 2020 |
patroit001: They don't reach orgasm |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by awakeuche(m): 6:30am On Feb 24, 2020 |
It is a sad sad thing to do to a woman, cutting off some or all of her external female parts, it is horrible. Sadly most Nigerian men don't even understand let alone know about it. I have dated two women who this was done to, and i agree, sex with them was a chore. I even started doing research about it and putting up posts on twitter to educate people on all its negatives. The best way to make women like this enjoy sex is 1. be a good kisser 2.know how to use your tongue � 3. Buy a non irritant lubricant, very important if you must penetrate her. 4. Know how to use your tongue, i.e kiss her alot paying particular attention to her breasts, feet, (neck for some), mouth and all hollow edges or ends. 5. Use your mouth, do the whispering game, bring your mouth close to her ear, while gently rubbing her breasts, and whisper words like "Babe, I want to eat you forever" "you have the most beautiful breasts I've ever seen", nibbling on the ear or sticking your tongue into her ear. You get the picture. 6. Penetration should only be done when you can hear the sound of her breathing, and only after you apply the lubricant. It's hardwork, but like you said, this is your wife. God help you Sir. 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nerdnextdoor: 7:56am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Who says circumcised women don't enjoy sex They cum very well, and some even squirt like a fountain if you can locate her G' spot and continuously stimulate it until she start quivering like an epileptic patient with seizures. And ends up turning your bed to River Niger. Warm her up into the game first, yes, I mean the usual fore-play. No need for much sucking of her clit or labia because there isn't any there to stimulate. Instead focus the sucking n massaing on her tits. Have her lie flat on her back, Then with your middle and ring finger try to locate her G'spot, that region around the inner top wall of the vagina, that feels bumpy or rough like sharky. With hard and continues stimulation she might feel like she wants to pee. Ask her how she feels as you continue the stimulation and exploration of her G'spot. If she tells you she feels like peeing then focus on that spot. When really fucking her, try to hit that spot as often as you can, doggy-style is best for this. Even if she's uncircumcised, G'spot Climax, is even way more stronger than when she cums with just the Clitoris aroused. So Bro don't be bothered much, try locating her G spot with her full sensual collaboration and worry no more. And it is completely hoax to say circumcised ladies always go through CS for delivery. Big False story. They can and have had very successful natural safe deliveries, yes, without any CS in their lifetime. With all these being said, it is An abrupt, Big NO, to Female Genital Mutilation. Thank God, it is now illegal. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by franklingud(m): 8:26am On Feb 24, 2020 |
ChoCho54:Who is scared of pvssy nowadays? I haven't heard this one before. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by zexy2030(m): 9:55am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Tunagee:it's shortened, not completely removed, the clit is about 1" out and 3inches in(gspot). 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 10:07am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Eberechi24: Eberechi you have very kissable lips. Where are you located currently? |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Igetmyown247: 10:10am On Feb 24, 2020 |
I think it’s normal to get dry after a while , use lubricant when she’s dry. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by pmoye(m): 10:42am On Feb 24, 2020 |
What to do? For a starter sue the idiotic parents. Pardon my outburst. It pains me greatly reading posts like this how a girl was permanently deprived of having a sexual life because of the stupidity of the parents. Don't get in my mention if all you're gonna do is say the parents didn't know better. F**k them a million times! Female genital mutilation is destroying more homes than we can imagine, and breaking more girls apart. Just imagine the number of girls that we have that cannot enjoy sex because a stupid culture and a set of wicked parents decided such a girl should never be able to enjoy sex. If you are still in this generation and you're involved in FGM you deserved to be jailed for life. You're a wicked soul. God that created a woman and added a clitoris and all other parts knew what He was doing. You silly maniacs now come to remove that... Wicked souls who don't deserve to be parents. Op, you have a very long battle ahead of you. A very very long one. There's absolutely no fun in sex when your partner doesn't enjoy it. I will advise the two of you to involve more of mouth action in your sessions. Go down, really really down on her. Eat that succulent cookie, put your tongue in, inside the pinkiness, find your way to the center of gravity (anterior grove) with your tongue, fingers, and your third leg. And you have to keep assuring her every time that there's nothing wrong with her. Sex is more than 50% psychological. Since she already believes that the FGM handicaps her, it will be difficult for her to reach climax. But I assure you it is not impossible to attain that height for her. Let her know there are other spots in her womanness that can be explored to give her mindblowing orgasm. And you have to learn how to make her cum. FGM has nothing to do with giving her difficult childbirth. Remove that bullshit from your mind. thalpy: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by dollynnn(f): 10:57am On Feb 24, 2020 |
money121:keep quiet! Trying to advocate premarital sex 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by greggng: 2:14pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Are women exempted from circumcision |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by AfroBeatDiary: 2:14pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
I can feel your pains |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 2:14pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
dollynnn:Lol. Aunty cam dan |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Realbank10(m): 2:15pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Solution to such case. Kindly visit pharmacy for Wet cream gel or pussy wet spray. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Mitchelll: 2:16pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by AmazonHippolyta(f): 2:17pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Petyprincess: Ah swear very sad |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by Nobody: 2:18pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Take your wife and see a doctor together. Most people here in Nairaland will just discuss rubbish over your personal issue and offer no solution |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by bluebay(m): 2:18pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
personal59:You don't drill the hole wide na . your case different Musa |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by patroit001(m): 2:18pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Finelinks:That may be true |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by fof1: 2:21pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
thalpy: Rest UR Mind, See a Qualified Medical Doctor or Nurse for NEC. Medical Advice. U hv lots of Solutions, from Use of Lubricants like KY Jelly to other Therapies. Jettison immature Online Advice,Pls. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by nnamdinho(m): 2:21pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Get a sex lubricant.. that’s your only option of enjoying sex with her.. go to a pharmacy and get one!! Thank me later � |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by patroit001(m): 2:22pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
dollynnn:That's his 10 shilling advice. Take it or jump and pass. |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by omomummy13: 2:23pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
thalpy: I'm beginning to doubt the authenticity of ALL these yeye stories on nairaland. If your intention is to drive traffic, you'll only succeed at making this site unattractive and irrelevant. Like seriously? You mean we are the ones to tell you what to do with your circumcised wife? Ori e ope my friend 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by ryut: 2:24pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
The most pleasurable sex you can ever enjoy is with a lady with well endowed clitoris. Simply a minute romance and touch,she will over wet and the moaning can drive you to the highest. Honestly ,I pity ladies whose clit was cut and their man, because no pleasure 3 Likes |
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