Ladies: Your Boyfriend’s greatest need is to be respected. If asked to choose between being loved and being respected, your husband would rather be respected than be loved.

In fact when you respect your husband\Boyfriend, he feels loved. The best way into your Boyfriend's/husband’s heart is through respect.

If every wicked woman knows this, one wonders why Godly women don’t get it. Have you ever wondered why a man would leave the comfort of his beautiful home to be with a lowly woman in a lowly place? Respect & honor!

Sadly the same man you disrespect in your own home is being honored and respected by other women at work.

Ladies the devil is training the wicked women to steal your man’s heart by respecting and honoring them more than you do.

God knew what he was doing when he said “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.” ~Ephesians 5:22.

The worst mistake you can make is allowing another woman to make your husband/Boyfriend smile. Obey God and save your marriage/Relationship. Follow the divine order. Respect your husband.

Respect is EARNED.

yeah. besides sex.

XhosaNostra:
Respect is EARNED.

Thank you!! A guy or a lady that has no discipline, no home training, lacks good behavior, talks dirty always does not deserve any form of respect.

And Op you are totally and completely wrong.

THE GREATEST NEED OF A MAN NO MATTER THE COLOR, RACE OR NATION IS SUCCESS!!

XhosaNostra:
Respect is EARNED.

if u are waiting for ur man to earn it, he may never. But by ur acts of respect, he may be won over and start doing ur every bidding. It's kinda like stooping to conquer.

just respect him, and see him thrive more to see that the respect u show him doesn't end.

LegendaryLover:


if u are waiting for ur man to earn it, he may never But by ur acts of respect, he may be won over and start doing ur every bidding. It's kinda like stooping to conquer.

just respect him, and see him thrive more to see that the respect u show him doesn't end.

Then he won't get any from me. Simple.

XhosaNostra:
Respect is EARNED.

Agreed. But it goes both ways.

allandutch:

Agreed. But it goes both ways.

Of course.

XhosaNostra:
Respect is EARNED.

This is actually not true.

More like a factual fallacy.

NextD18:

This is actually not true.
More like a factual fallacy.

So what is?

you are either a guy looking for client,
An evening newspaper looking for husband
Or a prostitute looking for customers.

you could also just be a troll waiting on guys to pm you.

Keep using this lady's picture to troll you hear

If the respect brings peace of mind, fine.

XhosaNostra:
Respect is EARNED.

Mtchew...

OP God bless you... hard truth

Respect is reciprocal! If your boyfriend doesn't respect you you owe him no respect either!
Moreover i believe relationship shouldn't be about who is older or who needs to be respected!! Even if you are 50 years older than i am that moment you ask me out brother forget respect o I go call you by your name if you wanna claim respect then go for your age mate simple!!

XhosaNostra:


So what is?

Respect got no rules or script that guides it.

You decide to, depending on what you stand to achieve.

XhosaNostra:
Respect is EARNED.

He already earned it the day he became your husband

XhosaNostra:
Respect is EARNED.

Not everything is earned. Respect, like love, is not always earned. Unearned respect can be the greatest catalyst for a successful relationship.

NextD18:

Respect got no rules or script that guides it.

You decide to, depending on what you stand to achieve

Interesting.

I can see myself doing that, although begrudgingly, only in work relations. Other than that, I like to keep it real when it comes to personal relationships because I'm not afraid to lose in that arena, if it means I'll put some people off & don't have to be fake or deal with fakes.

XhosaNostra:


Interesting.

I can see myself doing that, although begrudgingly, only in work relations. Other than that, I like to keep it real when it comes to personal relationships because I'm not afraid to lose in that arena, if it means I'll put some people off & don't have to be fake or deal with fakes.

Do we now agree that respect most times isn't earned?

Crunchyg2:

He already earned it the day he became your husband

Obvious. IF he's a husband, it means he's lived up to certain expectations & met certain standards.

NextD18:

Do we now agree that respect most times isn't earned?

Outside interpersonal relationships, I agree.

Appreciation. Women generally lack it. And that's because they think everything they get from a man they deserve. It's what he's supposed to do, so why thank him for it?
And what respect are you talking about? The moment you get sexual with a woman respect gets thrown out of the equation.

XhosaNostra:


Outside interpersonal relationships, I agree.

Lol. My dear Xhosa, you need not specify before agreeing.

Our point of argument is RESPECT, not a specified one.

Respect in general, is it earned?

Respect is reciprocal.

allandutch:
Appreciation. Women generally lack it. And that's because they think everything they get from a man they deserve. It's what he's supposed to do, so why thank him for it?
And what respect are you talking about? The moment you get sexual with a woman respect gets thrown out of the equation.

You must have surely been attracting rude, callous, lowly ladies fr you to yap out "women generally", up your game, change your circle dude.

NextD18:

Lol. My dear Xhosa, you need not specify before agreeing.

Our point of argument is RESPECT, not a specified one.

Respect in general, is it earned?

Well, I like to compartmentalize things, that's the difference. People I have no close relations to, I cut them a lot of slack because the time I spend with them is limited, so they don't really have to earn my anything. It's like whatever. Those get fake respect But people in my inner circle, oh yes, you're going to have to earn it! I don't reward without any effort put forward, sorry.

NextD18:

Lol. My dear Xhosa, you need not specify before agreeing.

Our point of argument is RESPECT, not a specified one.

Respect in general, is it earned?

The topic is on relationships, not generally, focus on it, stop trying to be correct by half.

Fountainofyouth:



The topic is on relationships, not generally, focus on it, stop trying to be correct by half.

The lady I quoted never specified the RESPECT she typed about. Did she?

scaramucci:


Not everything is earned. Respect, like love, is not always earned. Unearned respect can be the greatest catalyst for a successful relationship.

What she means by earned is that respect is given to those who deserve it.
Your phrase is not only wrong but isn't logical. How is 'unearned respect' a catalyst for the success of any given relationship?
A woman should respect a drunk or a gambling addict? Or better still, an abuser simply because he's a man?
Like trust and loyalty, respect is earned and given to those deserving of it.

Blu03:

What she means by earned is that respect is given to those who deserve it.
Your phrase is not only wrong but isn't logical. How is 'unearned respect' a catalyst for the success of any given relationship?
A woman should respect a drunk or a gambling addict? Or better still, an abuser simply because he's a man?
Like trust and loyalty, respect is earned and given to those deserving of it.

Exactly! Thank you.

NextD18:

The lady I quoted never specified the RESPECT she typed about. Did she?

That is because the topic is on boyfriends and there was no need to do that, get it?

scaramucci:


Not everything is earned. Respect, like love, is not always earned. Unearned respect can be the greatest catalyst for a successful relationship.

I do not understand how some of you think sometimes, smh!!!