tetula123:
Most stories on nairaland looks cooked up

Certainly. It's definitely a fabricated story.

As for me you should go in with a business strategy
Be transactional
Would advice to go with the 28yrs old lady
She has masters,d future is looking bright for both of u
She is ready and stand ur ground as a man don't lose control
But you see that 20yrs girl anything might happen and she just got into school,temptation is many and she might fall.
One thing you should know is women don't know what they want
The man defines that

My brother, my advice will be short and simple. Hold onto your first girl and let your colleague know you have a relationship you cherish. As a young man, don’t be dare to make a mistake that will cost you a fortune

2Women:
Please pardon any typo's or errors in this.

I am a 23 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship with this very beautiful 20 year old multiracial girl for a year plus now. She loves me dearly and never fails to show it. She has consistently discarded suitors off just for my sake, she never lacks them, she is very preety and light skinned, so she doesn't fail to turn heads wherever she goes. She loves God, but not the overly holy person, she is still a virgin and for that, I have refused to have any intimacy with her.

She just go admitted to one of the universities in the south west. We are in the same state so I go to visit her twice monthly, since she went to school, her attitude has not changed 1 bit, in fact, she is even more disturbing and demanding for my attention now than before. She sends me chats of random guys that try to ask her out, and sometimes even records the conversations and send to me, I trust her fully and don't believe she will cheat, at least not now, but i have this constant fear that I will loose her cos a similar scenario occurred to me 2 times before and the ladies lost focus and broke off the relationship, but I'm just hoping this can work.

Now, the problem, I met this lady who will be 28 soon, she is my junior in an organization, we got real close as she shared her story with me, and I wanted to sincerely advise her as a superior and someone with more experience in our field, but one thing led to another and she fell deeply in love with me, I knew, but feigned ignorance at first cos I didn't want any distractions to my 1 year old relationship, until she came out straight, deep down I felt something for her too, but I tried discarding it due to the age difference, but i couldn't keep it for long. I didn't tell her but we found ourselves kissing on various occasions. This lady is a virgin and has never been in any serious relationship cos she asks God if the suitors comes and she most times feels God is saying no, but this time, she is convinced that God approves of me.

Yesterday, I officially told her I love her and she has told everyone who cares to hear, her pastors, her family, every body, she has asked them to pray for her and all, this lady is a wife material, so is my girlfriend, this lady is beautiful but not half as pretty as my girlfriend, she is a bit more curvy and endowed than my girlfriend tho, attitude wise, both of them are just perfect (at least for now), supportive and understanding.

I am not very rich, but I'm not very poor either, I hold a job that requires me to work 26 hours monthly and it pays me just above 50k, I also am a freelancer on freelancing sites and i earn more than my salary in some months, with the potential for even more In future.

In spite of this, I don't think it is enough to start a family, secondly, I have never envisage myself getting married this early, in fact, I always say I have at least 4-5 years to go, but this lady has imagined our wedding and even picked a date for next year, I feel she is going too fast, and I told her but she says she doesn't do things when double minded, I love these 2 ladies, but I am just not ready to settle down. I am still too young for that, plus, she is older than me with 5 good years, and considering the fact that ladies age quickly, I don't think i want that as it will force me to cheat, which I don't ever want to do in marriage.

Please is it advisable to marry this lady? She is a graduate with a masters in an Asian university, or take things slow and try to plan with my girlfriend who is as well supportive and doesn't mind starting small.

Please advise me house.

Prec1ous:
None of them belong to you. Your wife is still unknown.

Your 20 years old will bounce off you and your 28 year old will never be patient with you.

Take care!

Best advice.. Meanwhile op send me both their numbers for counselling. Very urgent

pocohantas:

Lost small boy? People that are always lost without direction??
I will have to be paid child support to date one.

The correct word in that circumstance is 'nurse' not 'date'

Exactly

28years old is naturally decent. she's still a virgin by determination, this set of people will never sleep with another man after marriage. 20 year old is just normal. she might be decent too, but you can't judge with the fact that she's a virgin at 20. But the 28 years is decent.

2Women:
Please pardon any typo's or errors in this.

I am a 23 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship with this very beautiful 20 year old multiracial girl for a year plus now. She loves me dearly and never fails to show it. She has consistently discarded suitors off just for my sake, she never lacks them, she is very preety and light skinned, so she doesn't fail to turn heads wherever she goes. She loves God, but not the overly holy person, she is still a virgin and for that, I have refused to have any intimacy with her.

She just go admitted to one of the universities in the south west. We are in the same state so I go to visit her twice monthly, since she went to school, her attitude has not changed 1 bit, in fact, she is even more disturbing and demanding for my attention now than before. She sends me chats of random guys that try to ask her out, and sometimes even records the conversations and send to me, I trust her fully and don't believe she will cheat, at least not now, but i have this constant fear that I will loose her cos a similar scenario occurred to me 2 times before and the ladies lost focus and broke off the relationship, but I'm just hoping this can work.

Now, the problem, I met this lady who will be 28 soon, she is my junior in an organization, we got real close as she shared her story with me, and I wanted to sincerely advise her as a superior and someone with more experience in our field, but one thing led to another and she fell deeply in love with me, I knew, but feigned ignorance at first cos I didn't want any distractions to my 1 year old relationship, until she came out straight, deep down I felt something for her too, but I tried discarding it due to the age difference, but i couldn't keep it for long. I didn't tell her but we found ourselves kissing on various occasions. This lady is a virgin and has never been in any serious relationship cos she asks God if the suitors comes and she most times feels God is saying no, but this time, she is convinced that God approves of me.

Yesterday, I officially told her I love her and she has told everyone who cares to hear, her pastors, her family, every body, she has asked them to pray for her and all, this lady is a wife material, so is my girlfriend, this lady is beautiful but not half as pretty as my girlfriend, she is a bit more curvy and endowed than my girlfriend tho, attitude wise, both of them are just perfect (at least for now), supportive and understanding.

I am not very rich, but I'm not very poor either, I hold a job that requires me to work 26 hours monthly and it pays me just above 50k, I also am a freelancer on freelancing sites and i earn more than my salary in some months, with the potential for even more In future.

In spite of this, I don't think it is enough to start a family, secondly, I have never envisage myself getting married this early, in fact, I always say I have at least 4-5 years to go, but this lady has imagined our wedding and even picked a date for next year, I feel she is going too fast, and I told her but she says she doesn't do things when double minded, I love these 2 ladies, but I am just not ready to settle down. I am still too young for that, plus, she is older than me with 5 good years, and considering the fact that ladies age quickly, I don't think i want that as it will force me to cheat, which I don't ever want to do in marriage.

Please is it advisable to marry this lady? She is a graduate with a masters in an Asian university, or take things slow and try to plan with my girlfriend who is as well supportive and doesn't mind starting small.

Please advise me house.

What is the nature of your work?

Abeg here is my own Kobo for you..... Take the 20yrs old and disvirgine her very quickly before all those useless guys on campus do it for you and dash me that 28yrs old lady,i go help you marry her because wit the look of things,she go dominate you and finish you for house after marriage and you go they shout hallelujah at the end...28yrs don't go there...abeg dash me..just send her number for me Abeg.....lucky boy

Prec1ous:
None of them belong to you. Your wife is still unknown.

Your 20 years old will bounce off you and your 28 year old will never be patient with you.

Take care!

u are mean, I beat my chest.

calm down. Don't marry the 28yr old girl because of pressure from her. try and build your career for the future because income of 100k is not enough this days. keep being loyal to the 20yr old girl. if when you wana get married and she is ready with you, fine and good luck for you. if not when you are really ripe to get married, you will get someone. I am advising you as a married guy.

Acidosis:



She's 28 and a Master's degree holder from an Asian University, yet a junior to you at an organization that pays you, a 23 year old boy, 50k a month??

The Qualification and salary stuff confused me too. I had to scroll to read again maybe It was 500k a month he wrote and I seeing it as 50k

Foul!!! The millenials are serious pain in the ass. They will bug you for attention like killed. [quote author=ProtectMyMoney post=87281829][/quote]

XhosaNostra:


The bolded actually says a lot about the kind of person you are. The 1st two are, in fact, very cringey. It makes one wonder why anyone would give you the time of day with that kind of mindset.

Fully endorsed!! only fools (both men and women) seeking a life partner talk or focus beauty and complexion...the complexion part is the most cringeworthy. I'm not saying a woman should not be attractive but beauty does not support a man, does not raise a family, does not raise good children. Women focused on beauty will only attract foolish men or men seeking physicality. Men who focus on beauty will miss the warning signs in a woman.

Bro, this life ehn...e get as e be.
If you leave ur first girl for this new girl... Lass lass, the new girl will age nd u might later regret.
If you let the new girl go to follow ur home girl, another person go dey chop her work for schl. Which u go later regret.

Lass lass, ur decision won't matter in the next 50years to come. This life get as e be.

namiji2598:
A virgin girl in the university? Should we tell him?
Well my guy's babe got admission some years back, few months after the admission he has started bragging that her love did nt change bla bla bla but two years later in the university hmmmmm my brother e don cut


Campus life starts after 200l bros

U see 300L-400L hmmmmm
U can choose between an upcoming LovePeddler or an evening news paper now, the choice is yours

This one no get home training.

[quote author=Waterlrd post=87291165] Good advice.

2 virgins !!! Dash me one nah.. the older one must be ripe for marriage . Let's talk brother ...

2Women:
Please pardon any typo's or errors in this.

I am a 23 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship with this very beautiful 20 year old multiracial girl for a year plus now. She loves me dearly and never fails to show it. She has consistently discarded suitors off just for my sake, she never lacks them, she is very preety and light skinned, so she doesn't fail to turn heads wherever she goes. She loves God, but not the overly holy person, she is still a virgin and for that, I have refused to have any intimacy with her.

She just go admitted to one of the universities in the south west. We are in the same state so I go to visit her twice monthly, since she went to school, her attitude has not changed 1 bit, in fact, she is even more disturbing and demanding for my attention now than before. She sends me chats of random guys that try to ask her out, and sometimes even records the conversations and send to me, I trust her fully and don't believe she will cheat, at least not now, but i have this constant fear that I will loose her cos a similar scenario occurred to me 2 times before and the ladies lost focus and broke off the relationship, but I'm just hoping this can work.

Now, the problem, I met this lady who will be 28 soon, she is my junior in an organization, we got real close as she shared her story with me, and I wanted to sincerely advise her as a superior and someone with more experience in our field, but one thing led to another and she fell deeply in love with me, I knew, but feigned ignorance at first cos I didn't want any distractions to my 1 year old relationship, until she came out straight, deep down I felt something for her too, but I tried discarding it due to the age difference, but i couldn't keep it for long. I didn't tell her but we found ourselves kissing on various occasions. This lady is a virgin and has never been in any serious relationship cos she asks God if the suitors comes and she most times feels God is saying no, but this time, she is convinced that God approves of me.

Yesterday, I officially told her I love her and she has told everyone who cares to hear, her pastors, her family, every body, she has asked them to pray for her and all, this lady is a wife material, so is my girlfriend, this lady is beautiful but not half as pretty as my girlfriend, she is a bit more curvy and endowed than my girlfriend tho, attitude wise, both of them are just perfect (at least for now), supportive and understanding.

I am not very rich, but I'm not very poor either, I hold a job that requires me to work 26 hours monthly and it pays me just above 50k, I also am a freelancer on freelancing sites and i earn more than my salary in some months, with the potential for even more In future.

In spite of this, I don't think it is enough to start a family, secondly, I have never envisage myself getting married this early, in fact, I always say I have at least 4-5 years to go, but this lady has imagined our wedding and even picked a date for next year, I feel she is going too fast, and I told her but she says she doesn't do things when double minded, I love these 2 ladies, but I am just not ready to settle down. I am still too young for that, plus, she is older than me with 5 good years, and considering the fact that ladies age quickly, I don't think i want that as it will force me to cheat, which I don't ever want to do in marriage.

Please is it advisable to marry this lady? She is a graduate with a masters in an Asian university, or take things slow and try to plan with my girlfriend who is as well supportive and doesn't mind starting small.

Please advise me house.

Can I see their pix pls so I know what to say?

[quote author=2Women post=87281367]Please pardon any typo's or errors in this.

I am a 23 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship with this very beautiful 20 year old multiracial girl for a year plus now. She loves me dearly and never fails to show it. She has consistently discarded suitors off just for my sake, she never lacks them, she is very preety and light skinned, so she doesn't fail to turn heads wherever she goes. She loves God, but not the overly holy person, she is still a virgin and for that, I have refused to have any intimacy with her.

She just go admitted to one of the universities in the south west. We are in the same state so I go to visit her twice monthly, since she went to school, her attitude has not changed 1 bit, in fact, she is even more disturbing and demanding for my attention now than before. She sends me chats of random guys that try to ask her out, and sometimes even records the conversations and send to me, I trust her fully and don't believe she will cheat, at least not now, but i have this constant fear that I will loose her cos a similar scenario occurred to me 2 times before and the ladies lost focus and broke off the relationship, but I'm just hoping this can work.

Now, the problem, I met this lady who will be 28 soon, she is my junior in an organization, we got real close as she shared her story with me, and I wanted to sincerely advise her as a superior and someone with more experience in our field, but one thing led to another and she fell deeply in love with me, I knew, but feigned ignorance at first cos I didn't want any distractions to my 1 year old relationship, until she came out straight, deep down I felt something for her too, but I tried discarding it due to the age difference, but i couldn't keep it for long. I didn't tell her but we found ourselves kissing on various occasions. This lady is a virgin and has never been in any serious relationship cos she asks God if the suitors comes and she most times feels God is saying no, but this time, she is convinced that God approves of me.

Yesterday, I officially told her I love her and she has told everyone who cares to hear, her pastors, her family, every body, she has asked them to pray for her and all, this lady is a wife material, so is my girlfriend, this lady is beautiful but not half as pretty as my girlfriend, she is a bit more curvy and endowed than my girlfriend tho, attitude wise, both of them are just perfect (at least for now), supportive and understanding.

I am not very rich, but I'm not very poor either, I hold a job that requires me to work 26 hours monthly and it pays me just above 50k, I also am a freelancer on freelancing sites and i earn more than my salary in some months, with the potential for even more In future.

In spite of this, I don't think it is enough to start a family, secondly, I have never envisage myself getting married this early, in fact, I always say I have at least 4-5 years to go, but this lady has imagined our wedding and even picked a date for next year, I feel she is going too fast, and I told her but she says she doesn't do things when double minded, I love these 2 ladies, but I am just not ready to settle down. I am still too young for that, plus, she is older than me with 5 good years, and considering the fact that ladies age quickly, I don't think i want that as it will force me to cheat, which I don't ever want to do in marriage.

Please is it advisable to marry this lady? She is a graduate with a masters in an Asian university, or take things slow and try to plan with my girlfriend who is as well supportive and doesn't mind starting small.

Please advise me house.[ Am here to read comments and also learn something

Men will embarrass you.

God approves this and the way to start it off is through random kissing. Though painful to admit but you both started on a wrong note, and if allowed to fester may soon degenerate into immorality that will make you both loath and deride each afterward. Goal and purpose must be set in a relationship otherwise a lot of unwanted distractions will set in and turn a hitherto promising feeling into a thing of regret. what you are doing already is double dating for not a single justifiable reason thereby gradually eroding your integrity if discovered later, so stop at once and think through before you are beclouded to take some irreversible decision that'll sap up your youthful energy.

2Women:


Sorry to disappoint you sir, I am not even a good story writer, talk more of coming up with this kind of story, I am talking about my life here, my story, I am a human, just like you.

put your lovers through test of time and you will see the ttue nature of them..let the older one wait for at least two more years, also the campus girl should remain in school for the same time and see how it goes.. also pray.. love either matures or dwindle with time

Don't worry ASSU will soon go on strike and you will have more time to think and choose!

pocohantas:
A 23yrs old boy talking about love?

Small boy wey still dey test potency of im prick. Guys wey be say every time dem call you, na to dey ask “what are you wearing?”

Kai!!! I hate small boys ehn.

Better enjoy your youth. This is the only time you’ll have to choose between two beautiful women, just because you are a fine boy.

Once you get to 27/28, it becomes survival of the fittest. None of them is even for you.

Ancestor how far

pocohantas:
A 23yrs old boy talking about love?

Small boy wey still dey test potency of im prick. Guys wey be say every time dem call you, na to dey ask “what are you wearing?”

Kai!!! I hate small boys ehn.

Better enjoy your youth. This is the only time you’ll have to choose between two beautiful women, just because you are a fine boy.

Once you get to 27/28, it becomes survival of the fittest. None of them is even for you.

whu suppose settle for small small boiz if not you ... evinin newpaper + ancient of days hubby = babies with white hair !

You sounded like someone who is not in Nigeria.
Are you in Nigeria?

Phenomenal16:
I hate it when a guy doesn't know what he wants
Imagine
Confused elephant......
Who will answer this ur question?
I pray u lose d both

. Lol take it easy na

marry the 28years girl,when the second good girl is due for marriage,marry her too,then as a freelancer,you will get another good girl inline,marry her too,then after the third girl you will now marry the one you will settle down with. This is just my advice you can take it or leave it.