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Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:10am On Mar 09, 2020 |
I am actually experiencing this now and it has got me thinking. Honestly, it's so so funny to me. You traveled for a function/ an event or a programme organized by the church you worship, and you sat next to him on the same row throughout. Afterwards you exchanged phone numbers. The first call you received is how much he loves you that very first day he sets his eyes on you, and how he can't sleep or do anything without your thoughts flashing through his mind. His next call is how he wants you to make "a little sacrifice", (NL Fam, he actually called it A LITTLE SACRIFICE) pay your own fares, risk your life, prove that you love him (even when you've told him repeatedly that you don't love him), to visit him in a state very far away from your place of residence. A journey of more than 10 hours by road and about 1 hour by flight. Isn't this a mere facade? Does love at first sight actually exists? How much lie can someone tell in order to get what he or she wants? The whole love thing to me is a scam, how much more from someone I barely know. Has anyone experienced this before, and how did it turn out? Thank you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by GreatResearcher: 12:14am On Mar 09, 2020 |
You need redpill dude. But if you ain't a dude, get tf off here hoe 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by culf: 12:15am On Mar 09, 2020 |
it exist, but I'm not understanding you travelling to prove your luv. 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Davash222(m): 12:18am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Aunty, stop feeling yourself. Na fucck uncle wan fucck, e no kill anybody. 3 Likes |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:20am On Mar 09, 2020 |
GreatReacher, you were one of the NL members I used to respect a lot, but your comment on my post this night is so disgusting. I am a female and I am not a wh*ore. Just because your sisters are, doesn't then equate all female as wh*ore. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:23am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Davash222: I know and I ain't feeling anything for him in the first place. Unfortunately for him, he met the wrong person. That's why I said that, to me, love is a scam. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:26am On Mar 09, 2020 |
culf: Wow! Never knew it does. I am not understanding it either and I trust myself not to step an inch traveling to see him. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Nobody: 12:28am On Mar 09, 2020 |
GreatResearcher:and you think this will atone for your foolishness in the past?being a fierce redpiller will undo the effects of your encounter with your wife? Don't lean on to misogyny and medieval rules as opium from the bitterness you feel. Correct wrong to right. Change from being a simp to be one with his balls still intact and not the one who is angry.... This is from a place of pain that you type. 3 Likes |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Kingsteve(m): 12:29am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Maybe it's infatuation Maybe it's lust Maybe it's actually love. But whatever you decide to call it, one thing's for sure... It's all about Feeling something. Depends on what you actually feel. Have I experienced it before? Countless times! 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Davash222(m): 1:15am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:If only you know how I hate to see your post. Stop posting here, please! I'll not warn you again. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by culf: 1:53am On Mar 09, 2020 |
extremelygolden: I once met a lady and stood like a sculpture. Stood there for almost an hour. It took God's grace and a lot of thinking not to talk to her. Since them, I believe it does exist. That that point I won't mind proposing if I were ready. This your case different sha o, I like your resolution, for now I don't think it's safe, he should be the one doing the travelling for now not you. 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by 50power: 5:39am On Mar 09, 2020 |
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Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by fattprince(m): 10:18am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Well I've fallen in love at first sight once. Maybe not once but surely the strongest. I was in 400 level the first time I saw her. I mean I asked my friends if she is in another department and we just taking class together. They said no that she has been with us since 200 level. Every fucking time I see this girl I'm always excited in some kind of happy way. Why I said its love is because of the above and the feeling didn't wear off. I even heard she was into runs but I still love her. I think she knows I like her because she caught me staring the first time and subsequently. She talked to me on the last day of school. I was happy. Joy, Unilag, Accounting department 14/15 set if you reading this I loved you with all my heart |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Unfortunate(m): 10:26am On Mar 09, 2020 |
extremelygolden:Thank you. There is nothing like "Love at first sight" in this fvcking Universe. This universe centers on "Money" and "Lust". Women go for Money while Men go for Lust. Men lust after women. How can you say you love me the very moment u saw me?. You must be mad. I believed i loved a beautiful girl i was with for two minutes until i saw another beautiful one walk pass me. Then i concluded that there is nothing like love at first sight. I'm i unfortunate? 2 Likes |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 11:43am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Unfortunate: That's it. Love at first doesn't exist for all I care. Thanks for your input. 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 11:47am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: Thank you, dear. He sounded so frustrated. He should try forgive himself for choosing the wrong wife and not looking for who to transfer his aggression to. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 11:52am On Mar 09, 2020 |
Kingsteve: Thank you very much, Kingsteve for your matured comment. Love at first sight and distance relationship put together in this context, are big turn-off for me. 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:00pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
culf: Even your proposal would have put the lady in a fright Not with what is going on in the country now. Some people have embarked on such journey and never made it back alive. One has to be careful in making certain decisions. Like I told him, if he's so heads-over-heels in love like he's making me believe, he should be the one paying the visit. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Phenomenal16(f): 12:05pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
fattprince:..this one is strong 2 Likes |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:05pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
fattprince: This is deep. Good to know that Love at first sight actually exists. You would've tried to make your intentions known to her then. Who knows, you might still be together with by now. 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:08pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
Phenomenal16: It is indeed strong. He didn't do right by not approaching her then. Phenomenal16, have you experienced Love at first sight before? And how was it? |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Phenomenal16(f): 12:15pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
extremelygolden:...no But I do av crush....then it fades away M not that emotional..... If u don't fall for me ..I can't either But I av experienced true love with ma ex of 4 years..... That's it 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 12:36pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
Phenomenal16: That makes two of us, then. Though, I hardly fall in love, but when I do, it's like losing myself completely. This love at first sight thing doesn't work for me at all. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Saintmary(f): 1:18pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
extremelygolden:Please don't travel o, in this era of ritualism. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 1:23pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
Saintmary: My sister, I can't even take such risk. If someone fails to be wise with all the sad stories flying around, then that person has been cursed to remain dumb. Thanks for your advise. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Saintmary(f): 1:25pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
extremelygolden:It's a pleasure 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
Davash222: 1 Share
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Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Naomila: 6:04pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
Love at first sight? it doesn't last long. it's almost like infatuation. the best kind of love is the one that grows over time 3 Likes |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by extremelygolden: 7:26pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
Naomila: Exactly. Because as the relationship relaxes and character unfolds later in the relationship, you might observe some flaws you will not be able to cope with. And the question will be like - what was I thinking when I fell in love with this person? Thank you for your input. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by pryme(m): 7:36pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
extremelygolden: Honestly this thing makes my blood boil, This is when I would advocate you should be "Polite" to him, as in find the most profound insults you can dig and dish them out to him everytime he calls. Since he wants to act like a ret@rd, treat him like one. |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
fattprince: You were thinking with your small head instead of the big head. Since you knew she was a runs girl, you should have taken one semester's school fees, hired her for one continuous week and got the fake love out of your system. By the time you smelt her fart and realised it was not Chanel no. 5, even your small head will have fallen out of that yeye love. @op. There is nothing like love. Only desire, greed, lust and possession. 1 Like |
Re: Does Love At First Sight Exist And Does It Last? by fattprince(m): 7:55pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:I didn't know sir. I said I heard. It wasn't fake love that I can tell you. |
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