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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Goldenheart002(f): 11:38am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: My dear if u don't run away, u will loose ur sanity! I was once in ur shoes, read my diary, mine was worse |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 11:40am On Mar 12, 2020 |
OceanOfJoy:You are still a kid . Maybe you have not experienced hardship in life. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Deyrinsolar(f): 11:44am On Mar 12, 2020 |
I read some comments on this thread and my hope in humanity keeps decreasing, how can some say that she should not expect to be treated as the said aunt treat her child. Seriously, how can there be so much difference between the way you treat your child and others. To the lady, i cant advice you to stay, have been in your shoe once, yes i became stronger truly but at the expense of my emotional and social balance. And some saying she has smart phone and data, like that is so lame, people like her aunt, likes to appear to outsiders as angel so what will people say if a grown up child like that those not have a phone. Abeg let all look past our own scars and let it all end on us, let quench this fire of prejudice and live for a better generation. That you have experience it and you did not die did not mean others can survive without being a stain on the society. 3 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by ikevictor: 11:58am On Mar 12, 2020 |
You need to grow up, FINISH! Nothing comes easy in life...its the process to success. If you cannot clean a dirty sink in the house you live, then you need proper training! If your aunt's daughter does not do same, then both of you need training - and both your parents did a terribly bad job on you guys to start with. I am a man, share my apartment with few friends who have no place to stay in Lagos - BUT I STILL CLEAN!! Even when some people staying with me ARE YOUNGER! Remove this silly african mentality and do the job else YOU'LL GET SICK TOO FROM DIRT! Unless you do not live in that house then its a different case. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by keepingmum: 12:13pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: Why did you move to stay with your aunt? I must commend you for completing your ND at 21. What is it that you want to do with yourself moving forward? learning a skill or returning to school? Do you live in the same state with your dad and aunt? |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Torie8(f): 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:ordinary insult can lead to suicidal thoughts and nd can cause depression incase you don't know madam. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Larryslim(m): 12:50pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:You're crazy! Wtf did you just type? Are you insane? You said "Oyinbo have names for everything". A young lady wrote all this ordeal, and all you can say is "Turn lemon into Lemonade", why not "Turn apples in Apple Juice?". Now let me ask you, did you go through of all this in your young age, and if you did, how strong are you now? Can you lift a car, smh! I'm not in support of the lady running away, but she has a father, let her go back to her Father house, hustle and live her Life, make plans. Her father's not mistreating her, so it's better she goes back there, at least there'll be no verbal abuse, and that will let her focus on her Life. How do you expect her to hustle, or even make plans when she's going through all of this psychological and verbal distress? Dont people think at all? 2 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by lucky4west: 12:55pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
you did not tell us ur age, education, sex etc...so we can help...if u are a graduate i have a job in my office...let us know how we can be of epp |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by juman(m): 1:05pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Young lady, return to your dad. You have to insist that you desire to go back home. Wishing you the best. Pastors of today are end time pastors. Their churches are business centers. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by ObaOduaa: 1:17pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by ObaOduaa: 1:22pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by inyangd4: 1:23pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
enddure, dear. i did much more than you'd do. i took care of the whole house, went to the market, cooked, clean, wash "everything", endured insults, etc. i was taken from my parents from ss1 to jss1 when i got to her. i was 11yrs. the story is endless, dear. but i made up my mind to see the end of the suffering as i was not ready to go back to my parents. today, i have 1 BSc, 2 MSc, no space on my resume to put all my certifications, i am a practicing Engineer for an international firm. i have gotten my apartment, etc.... my advice: if you bear, you'll be happy you did! |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by spiralwedge(m): 1:27pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Run back to your father's house asap. If you do, nobody can force you back there. It's better you work as a domestic worker in a stranger's house than in your Aunty's place, who is bent on taking revenge on you. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Deyrinsolar(f): 1:38pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Most still don't understand, it better for me to know i am a maid in a strangers house, than to be with family and still feel like a stranger in the house. It people you love that hurts you, it you don't love them nothing they do can get to you. spiralwedge: 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by spiralwedge(m): 1:43pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Deyrinsolar: The strange thing is that the aunt is taking revenge of different generation on the poor innocent kid. This happens in every family. Her father is just so happy some responsibilitiew have been taken off his shoulder and doesn't really care what his child is going through. If this girl has sense, she should rather do the same work elsewhere, where you get paid for your services. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by hero2000: 2:12pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
LordKO: Some may think, from your comments, that you the Madam's husband. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Spain007(m): 2:43pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: Run to where Hmmm I hope there no fine boy by d corner singing Celine Dion music to you....be wise and don't fall prey |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Pataricatering(f): 2:55pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Imagine - ur living with a family and the wife asks u to clean kitchen u said you won’t ? Utter rubbish ! Just d fact that ur living under their roof what would be ur contribution to d house ? - I’m so sure ur now doing all d household work because of the way u behaved . LordKO: 4 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:15pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
frozen70: of course it is... at least at home people love her, compare to that demon aunt. sadly many will disagree. Pataricatering: arrant nonsense! her own daughter cannot clean so they waited for this girl to arrive to start using her as maid, abi?! 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Boydehot: 3:26pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
This is how they always end up in bringing out the best of wife material from other people's kid while theirs is nothing to right home about.my dear pls endure. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by SeedofDavid: 3:27pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529:The issue of why you can't stay with your day is still vague and you even emphasized that he's at least okay financially, so what's the issue there? Secondly, what do you actually want/desire? |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by frozen70(f): 3:30pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Refer your second comment to the poster not me pls I acknowledge the first comment from you |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by mayor10(m): 3:51pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
My mum went through this I'll treatment from one of our aunt's. She's still begging till date. It should be a source of motivation to you. Pick up all of those trainings and use it to get yourself. Remain focused that's if you're and you'd be proud of these moments later in the future. Sorry dear |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
We seem to have alot in common.
1. We both share the same name
2.i just concluded my N.D
3.age group conlusion,i might help,but how can i reach u? 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Okwyjesus(m): 5:36pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: I can't judge your aunt with this your disjointed stories. But am convinced you're not a good girl |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Exodora: 5:39pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:Hunger ? How many people have you heard that died if hunger in Nigeria Biko. You are talking as if her destiny depends on the aunt's hand. Don't even wish this for any of your love ones. While I was with my aunt there was never any name she does not call me.Staying with them took everything away from me .Did I tell you I find it difficult to smile after I left her house after many years , I have tried to bring back that smilling face back but it seems it's not working. One Christmas like that I just bundle my belongings without her consent. The funny part is they now depend on us for everything cause her husband that is my uncle lost everything through her promiscus life style . That her children are her in the higher institution now is because of my family. Let's call a spade by it's name.That aunt's of hers is using the opportunity as a revenge that's all. 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by tkgindofa(m): 5:53pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529:Do the needful the Lord is your strength |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Boxer007(m): 6:30pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by femmyapson(m): 7:34pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
before I advise you..
how old are you? |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Fa44me: 8:05pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
LordKO: You have never had the same experience before. That's why it's easier saying than done. I hope somebody like you will do times 10 of that and be saying it's home training. Suffering is not a stew and 100 faces can never resemble one's face( Parents). |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Yangami: 8:18pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
LordKO: I will save my energy for a more productive/intellectual arguments. Ciao |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Cashio(m): 8:28pm On Mar 12, 2020 |
The wisest I have read so far... LordKO: 4 Likes |
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