Dannieln1:
I have nothing to say

Cos mine worst pass this one

ebijimi7:
shes from a home no mother and her father doesn't care it doesn't take me anything to help her without dating her but why trying to use the dating game to use me the worst part she doesn't allow me to make love to her as of recent she started ignoring my sexual desire and doesn't care what pain I'm going through

Chike4all:
Bros,
What you need now is money, not that fool you are parading as girlfriend.
I wonder why you are so weak to dump her since...
This one will cut your life short everyday you two meet.

Dannieln1:
I have nothing to say

Cos mine worst pass this one

ebijimi7:
Then I kept quiet I felt deep down in me that she said I would spend the money any how which means I'm a lavish spender
Fast forward to my nephews birthday I asked her to help me get a cake for my nephew that I won't be chanced to take the cake to my nephew that I'm not too financially buoyant and they sell the cake close to her place her place to my place is just a transport fare of #200 so I begged her then she was like she can't carry cake on bike to my place that there are too much pit holes except I order uber for her I was like uber? No now I don't have these money you are requesting for ok if you can't take bike leave it I would go and get it myself after all its my family not yours I was so angry that so if I can't give you money for uber you won't take the cake to my nephew so I ignored her later she started calling and begging that I should please allow her get the cake she wants my nephew to think she is the one that bought the cake so I told her not to worry to a point her colleague at work was begging on her behalf before I finally allowed her to get it at the end of the day she still took the uber.
Then a week later I called her to come over we went to an eatery I sat her down I analyzed everything she is doing that I don't like to her and enede it with you are making me feel you are with me because of what you are getting with me try to prove me wrong she was mad that I'm calling her a gold digger then k told her how much have you eaten self you've not consumed half of what my ex consumed and I was never drained I'm talking about your actions if I go broke then I told her we need to continue like this without me giving you a dime she refused screaming it can't work and she left so I walk up to her trying to play with her she just ignored me and went home and she didn't call for days later she called back to apologize and she came to meet me to apologize I accepted her apologies now Monday is her birthday and ive used my money to procure materials for my building project since on Sunday she has been screaming her birthday is on Monday I told her I'm broke but God would provide then she continued again on Monday she said the same thing I ignored her. Wednesday she repeat it again then Friday which was yesterday she said Monday is my birthday I ignored her again and I told her I've told you let's see how it goes then after navigating another topic she came back again to that birthday issue this time I was angry and had to scream at her that what was her problem she has been saying this since on Sunday why is she like that then the next thing she said was that I know you would be tires since you've been at work since morning good night and she drop the call
I just smiled and say to myself only if she knew I had a surprise for her now I'm not going to do that again
The worst part she would start checking my WhatsApp messages I don't know what she is looking for

Chike4all:
Bros,
What you need now is money, not that fool you are parading as girlfriend.
I wonder why you are so weak to dump her since...
This one will cut your life short everyday you two meet.

ebijimi7:
shes from a home no mother and her father doesn't care it doesn't take me anything to help her without dating her but why trying to use the dating game to use me the worst part she doesn't allow me to make love to her as of recent she started ignoring my sexual desire and doesn't care what pain I'm going through

ebijimi7:
Good day guys
Please I need your advises on this issue on ground please nobody should attack me I know you guys knows how to attack someone
So here we go
I'm currently in a relationship which I started late 2018 after I broke up with my ex
So the relationship is just a year plus now and I have the intentions of getting married to this lady in picture,
On a blessed day I was so hungry so she came to visit me so I told her I was hungry thou that day I was tired so I asked could she help me cook so that we can eat together she refused telling me that she would never cook for me until I pay her bride price but I was like but I do cook for you and you eat and I never asked you to pay my groom price this is just to cook not that I'm asking you to wash my cloth or anything as a very gentle man I stood up went to the kitchen cooked my food myself and gave her to eat out of it after she left I thought of it that but this is the same person in assisting financially and the little favor I asked from her she could not do it?
Then I called her and discussed with her the only thing she could tell me was that she did everything to please him to the point of washing his cousins cloth and she talked about how she hated him because he took her love for granted.
Then I made her realize that remember I dated some one before yiu too despite what she did to me I didn't stop providing your own needs which means I don't care about my past I believe people are different I treated you right why are you acting like this to me.
So i didn't disturb her about anything again ever since then I believe I'm Alone to myself if I need anything I do it on my own I act like I don't have a girlfriend.
To cut the story short
We traveled for a burial so I already made plan on how we would stay and how I would take care of other things when we arrive but the plan didn't go as planned because I fell ill and I needed to go to the hospital so that I can treat my self so I was left with no option than to take from money that was kept aside for the trip,
So after the wake keeping as we were heading to our hotel room we were in a cab so she started analyzing how we would spend so I told her we have to manage what is left on us because there was no much left again
Do the next question she asked was that won't she do make up then I told her that pity me now I've been spending all this while can't you take money from your own pocket to pay the make yo artist I bought cloth for you 7k i still paid for the hotel 12k I still paid for transport and the feeding too and I'm still going to pay for transport back to lagos.
Then she started nagging why do I like to breach plan what kind of person are my I just kept quiet but the expression on the drivers face shows he really felt for me.
So on getting to the hotel room I didn't discuss anything with her I just gave her money to go and get food for her self then I slept off the next morning I don't know where the money from make up came out from and she has been claiming she doesn't have money
I just lock up.
After the burial event and everything we decide to return back to the hotel so my friend whose mother in-law burial we went for called me that he misplaced his ATM card and needed to withdraw and I wasn't with my ATM card so I asked my girlfriend if she has her ATM card she said yes so I sent her account number to him,
So I was using her phone to check for something then boom alert came in my gf has 9k in her account and she claimed she had nothing I showed her the message and told her that but you said you had nothing on you why were you lying to me she said its not her money that if she told me that I would spend the money any how

CallMeGrace:
You are the one dating yourself here.
Can I please ask a question? is she doing anything ,as in working?
I believe, any girl who truly and honestly loves her boyfriend should be supportive and managing with whoever she is dating not spending excessively... I believe you should give a her break, she might not end up seeing someone like you ,and maybe later on she will come back to her senses...

realokopi:
What kind of write up is this, bros? No coma, no fullstop
You gave me headache reading this.

HarunaWest:

Dude from the analysis so far, you are darn broke.. Stop dating for now, make money and enjoy your life.. You asking her for too much financial assistance and that's bad, she was on her own Na you say you love am say u was date am. Ladies like a guy they can rely on when it matters she feels that you keep asking her for money means in future, if she doesn't take care, she will be the one to cater for yah. Be a man, call of the relationship, be more comfortable financially, then from that vantage point, you can call the shots.

Jewessgratitudd:
Is this one relationship? To me this seems like frirnrof benefits. You guys need to attend relationship forums and read tips on dating.
How old is she? I'm asking cos a woman who's priorities are make up and birthday present while her man has a building project ongoing still needs some maturing to do.

Let her be for a while and see if she changes but if not, you may have to take a bow out of that relationship.

Jewessgratitudd:
Is this one relationship? To me this seems like frirnrof benefits. You guys need to attend relationship forums and read tips on dating.
How old is she? I'm asking cos a woman who's priorities are make up and birthday present while her man has a building project ongoing still needs some maturing to do.


Let her be for a while and see if she changes but if not, you may have to take a bow out of that relationship.

1StopRudeness:



Nigerian Women have one policy, “Her money is hers alone, ur money is for both for u”

ebijimi7:
Good day guys
Please I need your advises on this issue on ground please nobody should attack me I know you guys knows how to attack someone
So here we go
I'm currently in a relationship which I started late 2018 after I broke up with my ex
So the relationship is just a year plus now and I have the intentions of getting married to this lady in picture,
On a blessed day I was so hungry so she came to visit me so I told her I was hungry thou that day I was tired so I asked could she help me cook so that we can eat together she refused telling me that she would never cook for me until I pay her bride price but I was like but I do cook for you and you eat and I never asked you to pay my groom price this is just to cook not that I'm asking you to wash my cloth or anything as a very gentle man I stood up went to the kitchen cooked my food myself and gave her to eat out of it after she left I thought of it that but this is the same person in assisting financially and the little favor I asked from her she could not do it?
Then I called her and discussed with her the only thing she could tell me was that she did everything to please him to the point of washing his cousins cloth and she talked about how she hated him because he took her love for granted.
Then I made her realize that remember I dated some one before yiu too despite what she did to me I didn't stop providing your own needs which means I don't care about my past I believe people are different I treated you right why are you acting like this to me.
So i didn't disturb her about anything again ever since then I believe I'm Alone to myself if I need anything I do it on my own I act like I don't have a girlfriend.
To cut the story short
We traveled for a burial so I already made plan on how we would stay and how I would take care of other things when we arrive but the plan didn't go as planned because I fell ill and I needed to go to the hospital so that I can treat my self so I was left with no option than to take from money that was kept aside for the trip,
So after the wake keeping as we were heading to our hotel room we were in a cab so she started analyzing how we would spend so I told her we have to manage what is left on us because there was no much left again
Do the next question she asked was that won't she do make up then I told her that pity me now I've been spending all this while can't you take money from your own pocket to pay the make yo artist I bought cloth for you 7k i still paid for the hotel 12k I still paid for transport and the feeding too and I'm still going to pay for transport back to lagos.
Then she started nagging why do I like to breach plan what kind of person are my I just kept quiet but the expression on the drivers face shows he really felt for me.
So on getting to the hotel room I didn't discuss anything with her I just gave her money to go and get food for her self then I slept off the next morning I don't know where the money from make up came out from and she has been claiming she doesn't have money
I just lock up.
After the burial event and everything we decide to return back to the hotel so my friend whose mother in-law burial we went for called me that he misplaced his ATM card and needed to withdraw and I wasn't with my ATM card so I asked my girlfriend if she has her ATM card she said yes so I sent her account number to him,
So I was using her phone to check for something then boom alert came in my gf has 9k in her account and she claimed she had nothing I showed her the message and told her that but you said you had nothing on you why were you lying to me she said its not her money that if she told me that I would spend the money any how

SweetCunt97:
A grown human with only 9k in their account cannot be glad saying they have anything.. Ooh, you want her to have zero balance to believe she has none? Oti oooo. Anyways be careful not to marry someone who won't have ur back when things are bad. Date someone with deep understanding instead of shallow selfish one.