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Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Vega100: 3:51pm On Mar 24, 2020
khiaa:


I'm not Nigerian, I'm America. You guys sound like a bunch of insecure, hypocritical bullies. What woman in her right mind wants a manwho.re to be her husband and the father of her children? You seem to be that type which makes you unworthy of any respectable woman.

That's just the way I seen boys like you. undecided

Better remain where u claim to be.

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Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Akinbahm(m): 4:06pm On Mar 24, 2020
foolbuster:


Forget all that red pill shit. If you love her and she is loyal marry her bro. Nobody is a saint. That perfect woman you are looking for can be worse. Its better you settle with someone that is your friend understands you and do crazy things with you your bond will be strong, heck you can even do another 3some with her friend or something when you guys are married, my point is your marriage will be exciting.

Having said that some guys prefer settling with the quiet extemely loyal church type you can command. Your choice bro.

Are you here to attack redpill or u came to advise op?
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by angelfallz(m): 6:56pm On Mar 24, 2020
So tomorrow when you complain that none of your supposed children are yours we would come and cry with you?

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Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Afromentalist: 7:44pm On Mar 24, 2020
Martinez39s:
Foòl. grin Simps: always fond of making blue pill assumptions (which they can't back with evidence) to give hões a second chance since day one. grin
Don't you know vega100. He is just a troll. He comes from time to time with one funny story or the other just to entertain the forum. Dont take him serious, he was once one of the greatest fuckboys in this forum under the name Paul Killerman. Definitely not a blue pill guy

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Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by khiaa(f): 9:12pm On Mar 24, 2020
Vega100:


Better remain where u claim to be.

Of course.
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by wizdomnzube(m): 9:50pm On Mar 24, 2020
jeff1607:
Eleyi gidi gan

very strong


cut off the friends that know her past, isolate and quarantine her from friends who would use her past to hurt her and you, grow a thick skin to what ever you might hear

love her like your life depends on it
Wrong advice. My guy disembark from that careless journey. Or better still turn ha ur baby mama buh nor try wife ha, e get why.
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by JastSiryin(m): 11:51pm On Mar 24, 2020
Don't give a Fxck about your predicament bro... All I'm thinking is, who da Fxck has MMF 3some for hell's sake? angry
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by khiaa(f): 2:44am On Mar 26, 2020
JastSiryin:
Don't give a Fxck about your predicament bro... All I'm thinking is, who da Fxck has MMF 3some for hell's sake? angry

You are right, only gay/ bisexual men would participate in MFM sex.
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Palehair: 8:49am On Mar 26, 2020
khiaa:


You are right, only gay/ bisexual men would participate in MFM sex.
How about the straight pornstars who do it?
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by khiaa(f): 9:00am On Mar 26, 2020
Palehair:

How about the straight pornstars who do it?
If they are screwing the same sex they are not straight. No gay for pay.

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Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Nobody: 9:14am On Mar 26, 2020
Abi ashawo too go marry now undecided
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by ThothHermes: 9:50am On Mar 26, 2020
Magnoliaa:
I can't believe the guys' comments on this thread lol

They are questioning the girl, but the guy is suddenly a 'saint.' What makes him fit to be a good husband material that can be put in the home?

Mtcheeeew.
People like you will always put their heads in the sand and reap the consequences.

Morality is mainly a woman's problem. If you like claim equality from now till tomorrow. grin
What makes the man a good husband material is his ability to provide. Doesn't really matter if he has sevensomes. On the other hand, a party diminishes a woman's market value.
That's why the OP still has a problem despite all her other "good" qualities grin

PS: I think this is a fake story by the way.
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by ThothHermes: 9:53am On Mar 26, 2020
Vega100:

Stop being silly lady, this is Africa, the man basically provides for the family and calls the shut how the home is run, I know you will be one of those little girls that are yet to see life, carried away with all the virtual things you watch on Hollywood and read on magazine, when u get of age and reality beckons you will understand better!
No mind am. Na for internet dem dey get mouth.
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Kingsteve(m): 10:09am On Mar 26, 2020
khiaa:


You are right, only gay/ bisexual men would participate in MFM sex.

I beg to differ.
Not true.
Absolutely wrong!
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by khiaa(f): 10:26am On Mar 26, 2020
Kingsteve:


I beg to differ.
Not true.
Absolutely wrong!
Why would a straight man want to have a 3some with another male? Why would a straight man want to see another man naked? Why would a straight man won't to share a bed with another man while performing sexual acts on a woman?

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Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Kingsteve(m): 10:36am On Mar 26, 2020
khiaa:

Why would a straight man want to have a 3some with another male? Why would a straight man want to see another man naked? Why would a straight man won't to share a bed with another man while performing sexual acts on a woman?
Too many questions dear, but all those questions count for nothing.
I have a friend that enjoys having a threes0me, MFM.
He's as straight as a ruler.
You should understand that people have their sexual fetish and all.

Besides, the males involved do not touch each other during that type of threes0me.
Not even the slightest touch.
They are focused on wrecking havoc on the female.
grin
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by khiaa(f): 10:45am On Mar 26, 2020
Kingsteve:

Too many questions dear, but all those questions count for nothing.
I have a friend that enjoys having a threes0me, MFM.
He's as straight as a ruler.
You should understand that people have their sexual fetish and all.

Besides, the males involved do not touch each other during that type of threes0me.
Not even the slightest touch.
They are focused on wrecking havoc on the female.
grin

Straight men fantasy is to have a 3some with 2 women, a straight man doesn't need the assistant of another man to help him reek havoc on a woman so what is the purpose of another man being there?

Just because you think your friend is straight as a ruler doesn't mean he is deep inside.

Would you rather have a 3some with me and Kim or me you and Billy?
Kingsteve answer the bolded.

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Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Kingsteve(m): 10:48am On Mar 26, 2020
khiaa:
Straight men fantasy is to have a 3some with 2 women, a straight man doesn't need the assistant of another man to help him reek havoc on a woman so what is the purpose of another man being there? Just because you think your friend is straight as a ruler doesn't mean he is deep inside.

So what if I told you I've had one before back in my wild hay days?
Are you also gonna insinuate I'm bi unknowingly?
lol
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Kingsteve(m): 10:51am On Mar 26, 2020
khiaa:
Straight men fantasy is to have a 3some with 2 women, a straight man doesn't need the assistant of another man to help him reek havoc on a woman so what is the purpose of another man being there?

Just because you think your friend is straight as a ruler doesn't mean he is deep inside.

Would you rather have a 3some with me and Kim or me you and Billy?

And who the fvck is Billy?
grin

Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by khiaa(f): 10:53am On Mar 26, 2020
Kingsteve:


And who the fvck is Billy?
grin
Answer the question.
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Kingsteve(m): 10:56am On Mar 26, 2020
khiaa:

Answer the question.
Of course, I'd rather do it with you and whoever kim is.
grin

But that's not the point.
Sometimes, due to circumstances, MFM sex happens.
Guys will understand better.

Normally, who wouldn't prefer a 3some with two stunning beauties?
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by khiaa(f): 10:56am On Mar 26, 2020
Kingsteve:


So what if I told you I've had one before back in my wild hay days?
Are you also gonna insinuate I'm bi unknowingly?
lol
Answer the questions I asked and make me understand why you would choose to sex a girl with another man rather than to do the job yourself. What was the purpose of the other guy?
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Kingsteve(m): 10:59am On Mar 26, 2020
khiaa:

Answer the questions I asked and make me understand why you would choose to sex a girl with another man rather than to do the job yourself. What was the purpose of the others guy?

I'd be revealing too much.
If you're so keen, then we could go private and discuss.
I don't want to be seen as one bad-ass mofo!
I have a rep to protect!
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Magnoliaa(f): 5:14pm On Mar 27, 2020
foolbuster:


Stop comparing a woman and a man. They are not the same. Their bodies are not the same. Their thinking is not the same. Their life is not the same and no matter how hard women try they can never be equals with men. You can't turn nature on its head. Heck not even all men are equals.

If I had a penny for every time I've heard this ... cheesy

This is not shaming. This is fact. If you are still young use your head and heed this advice. Or you can continue listening to the older females past their prime and full of regrets and automatically turned feminist and end up like them. Your choice.

ouch! too late. Been there and past already. What difference do you think this advice will make to me now?
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Magnoliaa(f): 5:17pm On Mar 27, 2020
Vega100:

Stop being silly lady, this is Africa, the man basically provides for the family and calls the shut how the home is run, I know you will be one of those little girls that are yet to see life, carried away with all the virtual things you watch on Hollywood and read on magazine, when u get of age and reality beckons you will understand better!

Why don't you leave my own reality to my own making? Not yours to worry about.

You're a troll, I see. Posting fake stories. So, I have no words to exchange with you. . . . . . .
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Vega100: 5:54pm On Mar 27, 2020
Magnoliaa:


Why don't you leave my own reality to my own making? Not yours to worry about.

You're a troll, I see. Posting fake stories. So, I have no words to exchange with you. . . . . . .

Fake stories cheesy cheesy funny lady..
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Magnoliaa(f): 5:55pm On Mar 27, 2020
Vega100:


Fake stories cheesy cheesy funny lady..

Yh
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Rawhumper(m): 7:03pm On Aug 09, 2020
I dont see anything wrong really marrying a lady one had 3some with.

Am not the party type,especially doing it with a guy.
I can go for 2gals,i have witbessed whete cultists were raping gals well i wont really call it rape cos those gals ran away from their school hostels and decided to live in that house.

The truth about life is ket him not worry about what pple will say as long as he is happy n not guilty.










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What about the girls you've met and slept with in the past, is the girl in question bothered about them?[/quote]
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by rosy1992(f): 7:07pm On Aug 09, 2020
Follow your heart, don't forget to weigh the pros and cons of what ever you decide.
Re: The Dilemma In My Life Now, Please Help, I Need Advice Please by Rawhumper(m): 7:07pm On Aug 09, 2020
In Abj there are places where different couples meet and have sex together,sometimes they exchange their spouses.

So there is nothing he will do that has not been done by others before.









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Wow, but why are you thrilled by that kind of sexual life? Well, it your choice i think you are compatible since you guys derive joy and pleasure in 3some,but just have it at the back of your mind that you guys will still need to keep up with the 3some if not 4some in your marriage, just to continue making your sexual life interesting.
Regardless of where and how you guys met compatibility, love and understanding matters a lot and you guys have it. Go for her and be happy![/quote]

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