You have not enter into the marriage properly and you have started standing your grounds.
Do u think the guy that is to be ur husband does not have many?
I see u as a disastrous wife material.
Go and marry your bestie and save ur future husband of catastrophic home.
I think you don't know wat is marriage.
Any woman that lacks obedient is not fit for marriage.
Even God frowns at disobedient.
Ur bestie nonsense!!!