Good day house, I trust we are all staying safe.

I can't but appreciate the constructive counsel I have received from this platform and how it has helped one way of the other.

But I have another issue. And I really need your help again.

Some times ago my women accused me of 'never' appreciating her for the things she those, though I tried reminding her of how I have been doing that in the past and promise to change if am not doing it enough.

So in these past few days I make sure I say and show some form of appreciation. And today after coming back from the market, (actually we both went together to get some few things to stock at home) And I honestly appreciated her for her effort and support, but I was very surprised when she told me straight up that I should kindly stop appreciating her. Please I don't know what else to do, because am actually confused and somehow getting tired.

BillionPAGE:
Good day house, I trust we are all staying safe.

I can't but appreciate the constructive counsel I have received from this platform and how it has helped one way of the other.

But I have another issue. And I really need your help again.

Some times ago my women accused me of 'never' appreciating her for the things she those, though I tried reminding her of how I have been doing that in the past and promise to change if am not doing it enough.

So in these past few days I make sure I say and show some form of appreciation. And today after coming back from the market, (actually we both went together to get some few things to stock at home) And I honestly appreciated her for her effort and support, but I was very surprised when she told me straight up that I should kindly stop appreciating her. Please I don't know what else to do, because am actually confused and somehow getting tired.

It's just women and their emotional manipulation. The best way is to not give a fu ck and I promise you she will be loyal

Lightangel65:


It's just women and their emotional manipulation. The best way is to not give a fu ck and I promise you she will be loyal

It can be tiring at times bro. So are you saying I should not stop?

She's either confused and childish

OR

You haven't provided the meat and potatoes of this story, in that case you won't be getting much useful advice...

Kiss her 4head and tell her "thank u..i love u" looking straight and deep into her eyes, anytime she do u gud.

BillionPAGE:
Good day house, I trust we are all staying safe.

I can't but appreciate the constructive counsel I have received from this platform and how it has helped one way of the other.

But I have another issue. And I really need your help again.

Some times ago my women accused me of 'never' appreciating her for the things she those, though I tried reminding her of how I have been doing that in the past and promise to change if am not doing it enough.

So in these past few days I make sure I say and show some form of appreciation. And today after coming back from the market, (actually we both went together to get some few things to stock at home) And I honestly appreciated her for her effort and support, but I was very surprised when she told me straight up that I should kindly stop appreciating her. Please I don't know what else to do, because am actually confused and somehow getting tired.

Either you don't really understand your woman or you're overdoing the appreciation thing.

ibkayee:
She's either confused and childish

OR

You haven't provided the meat and potatoes of this story, in that case you won't be getting much useful advice...

What other story do you need. Anyways thanks for your input.

BestAccessories:


Either you don't really understand your woman or you're overdoing the appreciation thing.

Another angle.

Going to the market with her sef is already appreciation. Ignore her wahala. If she tire she go leave you. Women are trouble o

BillionPAGE:




It can be tiring at times bro. So are you saying I should not stop?

Of course, stop giving her appreciation or attention, attempt not to care about her

Maybe she feels you are over doing it! This is something you dont do before (according to her) but then you changed after she accused you! She might feel you are just doing because she complained and not because you mean it (i might be wrong tho) yorubas call it 'gba je n sinmi'. Maybe you should change your method of appreciation.

lammylam:
Maybe she feels you are over doing it! This is something you dont do before (according to her) but then you changed after she accused you! She might feel you are just doing because she complained and not because you mean it (i might be wrong tho) yorubas call it 'gba je n sinmi'. Maybe you should change your method of appreciation.

Willingly to learn. But How else do you think I should it?
I think she's just manipulating the whole thing.

BillionPAGE:



Willingly to learn. But How else do you think I should it?
I think she's just manipulating the whole thing.

Well! She is your woman! You dont have to wait for her to do something before you appreciate her! Do u compliment her meals? Do u tell her she looks good randomly? (when she change her hair do u compliment her?) do u surprise her? Dont wait till she does obvious things before u appreciate her! Even when she doesnt do anything! 'brown sugar! Thank u' that isnt to much. (my opinion tho)

lammylam:
Well! She is your woman! You dont have to wait for her to do something before you appreciate her! Do u compliment her meals? Do u tell her she looks good randomly? (when she change her hair do u compliment her?) do u surprise her? Dont wait till she does obvious things before u appreciate her! Even when she doesnt do anything! 'brown sugar! Thank u' that isnt to much. (my opinion tho)

I get u. Thanks

Continue, she means the opposite

What kind of man brings every issue between him and his wife to the world for advice all the time?

Tajbol4splend:
What kind of man brings every issue between him and his wife to the world for advice all the time?

Nairaland men.

And I'm always ready to read their stories

Lolzzzz � women eeeeh...una own wahala no be here

husband: Baby..seems you're less busy..


wife. : why?? do you think I'm jobless..


husband: No baby...I just wanted you to go with me to the gym


Wife. : Why?? do you think I'm too fat


Husband: No baby... okay..I'll go alone


Wife. : Why?? do you think I'm lazy


Husband: No!!! infact... Nevermind


Wife. : Why?? Do you think I'm crazy


Husband